WORKING GIRLS AND WHY

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Originally Posted by YasminLee

A lot of girls are being blame for working and I feel like some or even most of the guys here don't understand us. Do u ever wonder how can such a large percentage of any group are in this lifestyle?

Most of us start at a very young age, either in our teens or 20s. This is the most cofusion stage in our transitioning to adult hood period. we're talking people in general..it's confusing and frustrating..so take that and add realizing u should be a woman but was born male...u then have to make life decision..should i transition or not.

pros:
1.i get to be who I am

cons:
1. risk loosing family, friends
2. what will this do to me.
3.will i be happy
4.how will i get the money to transition.
a.nose 5,000
b.breast 5,000,
c.forehead 7-12,000
d.hormones 800/3months
e.adams apple, chin, cheek bones, and last but not least silicones...

that's a lot of money in an attempt to look as much as a woman as possible.

5. how will i make this kind of money.

there are so many things running though their head and worry....trust me..staying in school and continue being ridicule is last on there head...so here u go...

6.he hopes to be find love...only to find that most guys don't want u as a gf. at least not unless u look like the girls 100,000.00 surgery later....if they even want that...most guys we meet want the fantasy of being with us tgirl and back to their world the next morning...after a while u feel use, a lone and cheated.

most girls choose to escort as a solution after so many doors had already slam in their face..some jump right to it cause they were smart enough to realize from their friends experience...yes some of us are very smart, pretty, and probably find a regular job somewhere enough to survive...if u're a genetic girl...our expenses are not the same...we start our beauty with a canvas while genetic girls are born with them....

for those who don't know....when u pay for the girls..u don't pay for sex...u pay for not having to be in their life after u cum.....consider a fair contribution for what we have to go through...i feel like i can continue..but the reasons goes on....

IF U DON'T THINK IT'S HARD...TAKE A FEW WEEKS AND WALK IN OUR SHOES...DRESS UP...SEE HOW YOUR FAMILY WILL REACT...YOUR WORK...HOW DIFFERENT THE WORLD IS WHEN WHEN JUST SHOPPING AT THE MARKET FOR FOOD...

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I know it must be hard soemtimes for you. But You are looking too sexy here I wish I could have some of that ass.

It's a drag for the girls. Living in Los Angeles and growing up in and around the Hollywood, West Hollywood area I've had friends and girlfriends from adolescecence to adult life who have wrestled with the same kind of thing. I started this reply thinking I would write a big long thing about my observations on the subject and shit, but I'm not going to. They have a lot to contend with and the decisions that they have to make are enormous. All my respect to you girls.

Real smooth SDman...

Better put that helmet back on bud..oh and uhh....your drooling again.....


If your going to escort fine, most of us are cool with that...

But PLEASE dont whine, bitch, cry and complain about the fucked up shit escorting has done to you or to your life or to someone elses life...

You knew the risks, yet you still bit that apple........

girlyg...first of all hun...don't talk to me of the culture i live for almost 30 years and tell me how it is base on what people told u. Secondly, transsexualism is a whole new level of difficulty..trust me, most tgirls live that life before transittioning. People tend to be more ok with gays because they are normaly in their life one way or another. They understand them more then they do us. Plus, being gay is a lot easier hun. They don't have to go through the transsitioning like we do. That hormones can physically change our appearance in a matter of days..imagine what's it's doing to our inside...mentality, emotions...etc...stop trying to make a point so people think wow he really can put words together and listen...these are your girls...listen with your heart and hear their cries. after all, who can better explain us then us...

well ill tell you a little story about myself
i dont often let soo much info out about myself but i will
i graduated one of if not the top performing arts school in nyc did about 8 feature films and numerous commercials in my youth and i knew at a young age that i was transgendered and so i went in another direction had to sacrfice my lifes dream to perform be on the stage pratice a craft i was so well at i had to wave goodbye to it,it hurts me till this day cause there are NOT any working transsexual actors in this country period so i went on to something creative i became a haircolorist wich if you are good at it in nyc you can make 2,000 a week easy well i was good at it and i was making that amount of moneywhen i told my boss i wanted to transition they were all gay and lesbian mind you the following day i was met with all my tools in a black garbage bag and told they had no room for me so here i was crushed twice for just being me and trying to do the right thing
so alot of you dont know what goes on unless you are a WOMAN of transsexual experience
god bless all my sisters
cause ive seen it all

Dina Marie Delicious

Hmmmm......I knew a post like this was gonna come up sooner or later. I dont wanna say too much and hurt anyones feeling or put them in some suicidal state of mind, but do you ever really think about how your going around selling your body? That's half the reason guys dont want most TS GF. "Legally" i can't testify to someone's state-of-mind, but how often are you in that frame of mind where you dont know who you really are and if you'll be satisfied after you take this fork in the road etc, etc...How can I be with someone who isnt even sure of who they are themselves. How can I respect someone who doesnt respect themselves, and truth is respect isnt given...it's earned and what's respectable about what you do? How many people do you have to "work" with to achieve the goal your going for? Taking all that into account, it's a big deal for a lot of guys therefore making you a cheap thrill/one-night-stand/floosey. Not calling you those names, just giving you a certain perspective. I'm not sayin I'm on that side of the fence and bashing you before I get a bunch of negative comments, but I'm giving you a truthful response and not hopping on the bandwagon to get in good with you.

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Originally Posted by sdman

I know it must be hard soemtimes for you. But You are looking too sexy here I wish I could have some of that ass.

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ROFLMAO @ SDman and Blackadder. Wow....lol. The convo was all deep and you tryin to get some ass out the blue....Hope you didnt think you were gonna pull her with that line. lol

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Originally Posted by Arianna

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ok? and? :roll:

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Originally Posted by werwt22

Hmmmm......I knew a post like this was gonna come up sooner or later. I dont wanna say too much and hurt anyones feeling or put them in some suicidal state of mind, but do you ever really think about how your going around selling your body? That's half the reason guys dont want most TS GF. "Legally" i can't testify to someone's state-of-mind, but how often are you in that frame of mind where you dont know who you really are and if you'll be satisfied after you take this fork in the road etc, etc...How can I be with someone who isnt even sure of who they are themselves. How can I respect someone who doesnt respect themselves, and truth is respect isnt given...it's earned and what's respectable about what you do? How many people do you have to "work" with to achieve the goal your going for? Taking all that into account, it's a big deal for a lot of guys therefore making you a cheap thrill/one-night-stand/floosey. Not calling you those names, just giving you a certain perspective. I'm not sayin I'm on that side of the fence and bashing you before I get a bunch of negative comments, but I'm giving you a truthful response and not hopping on the bandwagon to get in good with you.

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Originally Posted by werwt22

Hmmmm......I knew a post like this was gonna come up sooner or later. I dont wanna say too much and hurt anyones feeling or put them in some suicidal state of mind, but do you ever really think about how your going around selling your body? That's half the reason guys dont want most TS GF. "Legally" i can't testify to someone's state-of-mind, but how often are you in that frame of mind where you dont know who you really are and if you'll be satisfied after you take this fork in the road etc, etc...How can I be with someone who isnt even sure of who they are themselves. How can I respect someone who doesnt respect themselves, and truth is respect isnt given...it's earned and what's respectable about what you do? How many people do you have to "work" with to achieve the goal your going for? Taking all that into account, it's a big deal for a lot of guys therefore making you a cheap thrill/one-night-stand/floosey. Not calling you those names, just giving you a certain perspective. I'm not sayin I'm on that side of the fence and bashing you before I get a bunch of negative comments, but I'm giving you a truthful response and not hopping on the bandwagon to get in good with you.

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The truth hurts doesn't it?
Insist upon your being under previliged, and physically unique - hence, therefore, as the only possible consequence of being that physically unique - have all the right to be more mentally messed up... insist upon all your very special rights to be miserable, and you are - MISERABLE.
Poor thing - that's all I can say. I'll give you all the sympathy, attention, telling you you deserve to be a prositute, you absolutely have more reasons than anybody else to be a prositute, and you are - A PROSITUTE (not that I don't think prositutes deserve any respect I'm just being realistic - how much respect does our society pay to a prositute?).
What if people tell you otherwise from the very beginning? What if people tell you, "You are physically unique, but you are as capable as anybody else to achieve anything you want!" "Hormones do mess it up for you, people are always going to be prejudiced, but you are what you do not what people think?" ...