Whoa...This shit is serious! Tranny*****$10,000 REWARD***** - t4m - 36 (costa mesa)

My wife has stolen hundreds of thousands of dollars from me. She's still at it. I'd offer a reward, but she won't let me.

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Originally Posted by btmmale4toptg

But tgirls you date all the time complain guys don't want to share any of their personal lives with a girl. This one did, and look what happened!

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So one tgirl behaving badly proves that all the others are thieves. Right. Got it. So there's one guy in this forum being a jerk. What does that tell us about the rest?

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Originally Posted by trish

So one tgirl behaving badly proves that all the others are thieves. Right. Got it. So there's one guy in this forum being a jerk. What does that tell us about the rest?

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Trish...no offense, I wish I could say this was just one bad apple, unfortunately its more the norm than the exception. I think there are many here who don't argue that point.

In my OP, I did say, "To all the good girls out there, maybe this will help you to understand why guys aren't so quick to open and share their lives to you...and you only have girls like this (and there are a lot out there) to blame for it."

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Originally Posted by trish

So one tgirl behaving badly proves that all the others are thieves. Right. Got it. So there's one guy in this forum being a jerk. What does that tell us about the rest?

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i think you missed this:

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Originally Posted by Ben in LA

I've heard this story quite often...sorry, brah. (Seriously.)

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Originally Posted by trish

So one tgirl behaving badly proves that all the others are thieves. Right. Got it. So there's one guy in this forum being a jerk. What does that tell us about the rest?

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I am totally surprised by your comment. I always took you to be brighter than this

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...its more the norm than the exception.

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Norm
noun
1. Something that is usual, typical or standard.
2. A standard or pattern, esp. of social behavior that is typical or expected of a group.

So you have evidence or (at the very least) it is your opinion that thievery is typical of transsexual women. It is expected behavior. Those of us who don't are the non-typical exceptions. This based on what? This anecdotal story which may not even be true? Other stories you have heard that support this belief? Your own vast experience? Is that experience sufficiently extensive to distinguish the behaviors of transsexuals from women, or from men, or from people in general with regards to thievery? A friend of mine had a male apartment-mate who stole her bass guitar and sold it. What can we deduce concerning the behavior of men from her experience?

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...maybe this will help you to understand why guys aren't so quick to open and share their lives to you...

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Being open and sharing means being free and honest with the expression of your thoughts and desires (something I'm not convinced the guy in your anecdote understood). If someone complains that you're not open and sharing, they're probably not asking to move in with you. They rather suspect you're holding back, hiding significant feelings, desires, thoughts etc. You can open your home and fuck them five times a day and still not be open and sharing. Of course that wouldn't give them the right to steal from you. Look, there is every reason in the world, why you shouldn't open up your home to someone you haven't yet grown to trust implicitly. But there is little warrant for not being open and sharing with people in regards to your thoughts, feelings, passions, etc. That's the only way you're going to ever develop a healthy bond and a strong relationship.

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Originally Posted by tsdvdman

I am totally surprised by your comment. I always took you to be brighter than this

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What surprises you? I paraphrased the general principle from which the OP drew his conclusion that transsexuals are generally thieves and asked if it can be used to deduce guys are jerks.

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Originally Posted by tsdvdman

I am totally surprised by your comment. I always took you to be brighter than this

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Just reinforces what I insinuated in another thread: you either don't take the time to read and understand or your prejudices are so ingrained that you simply believe what you want to believe.

Anyone who pays attention to what Trish writes (which is always carefully thought out) should know that the original post wouldn't sit well with her. Seriously my brother, YOU are the one that should know better.

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Originally Posted by runningdownthatdream

Just reinforces what I insinuated in another thread: you either don't take the time to read and understand or your prejudices are so ingrained that you simply believe what you want to believe.

Anyone who pays attention to what Trish writes (which is always carefully thought out) should know that the original post wouldn't sit well with her. Seriously my brother, YOU are the one that should know better.

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IDK what other thread you are talkin about..but I actually agree with you regarding Trish post. I tend to hold her to a higher standard due to in large part her intelligent and seemingly well thought out responses, and because she's not all over every single thread just because she is one of the girls.
However..with that being said. I was still taken back with her initial reaction here which somewhat implied a blame the victim simply because the "perp" was a trans

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Originally Posted by trish

What surprises you? I paraphrased the general principle from which the OP drew his conclusion that transsexuals are generally thieves and asked if it can be used to deduce guys are jerks.

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And yet we hear countless stories where girls have stolen directly or through escorting transactions..etc. It obviously doesn't make all girls thieves but one can certainly empathize with why the OP feels the way he feels right now