Conflicted about liking trannies

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09-25-2010
tsparisangelline

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Originally Posted by FreddieGomez

Maybe i should jus like trannies from afar and never attempt to actually be wit one...It's jus too much added stress smh

It is your choice hun, it would be better for a ts that you did do that since DL dudes cause to many problems

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Originally Posted by giovanni_hotel

I look at it like this, it's no one's business who you like/don't like.

Cosign

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Originally Posted by mac.B

This stuff is like a fetish so use sum self control and get out before it becomes an addiction boi.

well then you are a trick if we are just a fetish

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Originally Posted by SunshyneMonroe

ive been with a guy for over a year now i know his whole family we did tell some of them im a ts some we didnt

smh @ your tranny chaser husband girl poof!

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Originally Posted by FreddieGomez

but his moms will try to start drama and tell him bullshyt and get him to turn on me because they gonna call me a faggot and shyt. smh

lol if she is passable then why would they need to know

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Originally Posted by giovanni_hotel

Amber and Sunshyne, both of you have the 'looks' that go beyond a dude just wanting to sex you.

no such thing
09-25-2010
Floyd R

If you are conflicted and a part of you feels being attracted to transsexual is wrong, then stick to genetic girls. There are a lot more options to choose from with genetic girls especially in the largest metropolis in the USA, New York City.

Maybe your liking of transsexuals is only meant to exist as a fantasy that you participate in by way of online forums, watching porn, and not meant to exit in the real world. Nothing wrong with just keeping it as your own personal fantasy.
09-25-2010
www.tglovers.com

This is why girls charge by the hour. You do all the work to have a relationship a guy and then because he can't handle the pressure he pulls the rug from under your feet.

I say, have sex with whomever you'd like but don't try to establish a relationship. As long as you're unsure about who you are and what you want....no good can come from that.

If you mislead someone into believing you want a relationship and then fold under pressure, its not fair to the lady you've misled. So for now have sex and do your thing but keep it sexual.
09-25-2010
Legend

Another "am i gay" because i like transsexuals thread and as a added bonus will my kid think i'm gay as well :loser:

I feel bad for you kid because if he takes after you and that"no homo" environment he probably will reject you but if you a good father if wouldn't matter anyway.
09-25-2010
giovanni_hotel

TGlover, if you don't escort, why do you constantly feel entitled to speak for those girls that do???

And what world do you live in?? Having a relationship with a T for a 'str8 man', by definition, is DIFFICULT, initially.
09-25-2010
dderek123

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Originally Posted by FreddieGomez

I'm a conflicted dude.

Understandable, we've all been there.

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Originally Posted by FreddieGomez

But a dude got too much on his plate.

I'm conflicted on whether I am able to understand what you wrote! j/k (my written English isn't perfect either)

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Originally Posted by FreddieGomez

I have a 2 year old son (that's basically the only thing keepin me alive and out of trouble) and i fear likin trannies is gonna make him turn against me one day.

Wow, well by the time he is old enough to understand I am hopeful that society will be more accepting of relationships with t-girls. It seems that TS are slowly becoming more common in the media these days compared to before. Once there is more awareness out there on the subject I am hopeful that people will understand more about it and be less fearful/hateful/intolerant towards us.

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Originally Posted by FreddieGomez

It jus seems wrong to me because i'm livin a lie and keepin this part of me from everyone out of fear of rejection from my fam and boys.

Yeah that sucks, no two ways about it. You're in a tight spot. But I think you should talk to someone about this face-to-face and get things off your chest. Try to pick someone who would be open minded and empathetic with your plight. You'll feel better like a weight has been lifted off your shoulders. In my early twenties I went and saw a counselor at my university. It only took a half hour of back and forth for me to get a healthier perspective on my thoughts and motives.

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Originally Posted by FreddieGomez

Where I'm from i don't feel comfortable proclaiming my love for trannies

No need to advertise it. Lots of guys have relationships with TS that are on the down-low. It's a less than ideal but they can be fulfilling. But hey if two people love each other they can make anything work out. I live in Thailand which is way more tolerant than most places in the west when it comes to sexual relationships and people still date ladyboys in secret. I wouldn't know about the percentages on the matter though.

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Originally Posted by FreddieGomez

because i also feel it's ruin my chances with the ladies (because a dude still like pussy too)

A dude should consider making peace with the fact that dude is different from what is considered "normal" by society. Doing that would be better than living life with loads of secrets and skeletons in the closet. Living a lie can alienate you from your friends and loved ones. Things don't have to be so black and white. There are still lots of shades of grey in this matter.

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Originally Posted by FreddieGomez

and i don't wanna be seen as a faggot because lets keep it real, nobody understands men who like trannies and labels them as gay regardless and this is somethin i'm not comfortable wit at all.

Yeah general attitudes in the west towards the LGBT scene aren't so tolerant nor respectful. But, hopefully they will continue getting better with time.

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Originally Posted by FreddieGomez

Maybe i should jus like trannies from afar and never attempt to actually be wit one...It's jus too much added stress smh

Yes it sounds like that is a good option for you for the time being. Once your kids are old enough to understand your choices with respect you could pursue things more openly. Along the way if you meet a TS and have a relationship on the down-low you could kick it up a notch once you are ready to be more "out" about things.
That way your kids will be fine. But, you need to realize that you can't go through your whole life trying to make others happy. Because, it is pretty much impossible to make everyone happy all at once. If/when you decide to pursue TS more openly and someone else doesn't like it forget about them. You would be pursuing your happiness and if someone else has a problem with that it would be a reflection on how shitty they are and not the other way around.
09-25-2010
tsparisangelline

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Originally Posted by Legend

Another "am i gay" because i like transsexuals thread and as a added bonus will my kid think i'm gay as well :loser:

I feel bad for you kid because if he takes after you and that"no homo" environment he probably will reject you but if you a good father if would matter anyway.

chile you are pressed.
09-25-2010
FreddieGomez

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Originally Posted by dderek123

Understandable, we've all been there.

I'm conflicted on whether I am able to understand what you wrote! j/k (my written English isn't perfect either)

Wow, well by the time he is old enough to understand I am hopeful that society will be more accepting of relationships with t-girls. It seems that TS are slowly becoming more common in the media these days compared to before. Once there is more awareness out there on the subject I am hopeful that people will understand more about it and be less fearful/hateful/intolerant towards us.

Yeah that sucks, no two ways about it. You're in a tight spot. But I think you should talk to someone about this face-to-face and get things off your chest. Try to pick someone who would be open minded and empathetic with your plight.

No need to advertise it. Lots of guys have relationships with TS that are on the down-low. It's a little less than ideal but they can be fulfilling. I live in Thailand which is way more tolerant than most places in the west when it comes to sexual relationships and people still date ladyboys in secret. I wouldn't know about the percentages on the matter though.

A dude should consider making peace with the fact that dude is different from is considered "normal" by society. Doing that would be better than living life with loads of secrets and skeletons in the closet. Living a lie can alienate you from your friends and loved ones.

Yeah general attitudes in the west towards the LGBT scene aren't so tolerant nor respectful. But, hopefully they will continue getting better with time.

Yes it sounds like that is a good option for you for the time being. Once your kids are old enough to understand your choices with respect you could pursue things more openly. Along the way if you meet a TS and have a relationship on the down-low you could kick it up a notch once you are ready to be more "out" about things.
That way your kids will be fine. But, you need to realize that you can't go through your whole life trying to make others happy. Because, it is pretty much impossible to make everyone happy all at once. If/when you decide to pursue TS more openly and someone else doesn't like it forget about them. You would be pursuing your happiness and if someone else has a problem with that it would be a reflection on how shitty they are and not the other way around.

dang that's alot to respond but i appreciate the time you took to reply. good lookin out
09-25-2010
FreddieGomez

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Originally Posted by Legend

Another "am i gay" because i like transsexuals thread and as a added bonus will my kid think i'm gay as well :loser:

I feel bad for you kid because if he takes after you and that"no homo" environment he probably will reject you but if you a good father if would matter anyway.

bwahahaha ... my godfather is gay and the dude practically raised me, but this don't mean i'm gay and isn't why i like trannies. i respect this dude for bein there when my real father never was. i want my son to appreciate him also, but he's not one of those fem faggoty type dudes. i understand if the trannie is passable then it makes it easier, but i'd always be worried about peeps finding out. Maybe i'm jus insecure...
09-25-2010
natina

the trick is to get your mental picture up

If you do not want to like trannies then picture

all the bad stuff that goes

with liking them,the dangers,

the issues, the problems

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Originally Posted by FreddieGomez

because i cant fight the attraction. that's why i feel conflicted. i wish i wasn't attracted to them.

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