do you think relationships between ts girls and guys work?

Been in two multi-year relationships with Trans-ladies, so yes they can work, at least as well as other relationships work.

There are three things that run a bit different to my mind...

One is up front cost of their lives. Most of us have limited expenses until mid life or later, with the possible exception of education. Even in the case of the one exception we can usually get long term loans at decent rates with a raft of protections. Imagine trying to live life having to buy your house flat out before you can date. Once it's paid for life proceeds as normal, but the up front cost can will easily be the center of your life for a bit.

When puberty happens. It's personnel drama, hormone driven thinking and social adjustment that we all go through, but they go through it twice and often at ages when there is no one else to share it with. Makes it harder and last a bit longer... but again, once they get past, same as everyone else.

Social stigma and self image. Linked issue with why do you want to be with them and is for reasons they want. All girls have trouble finding prince charming... these girls have to check their charming twice to make sure everyone agrees on who's who. This is the only one that doesn't change to my knowledge.

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Originally Posted by pittsburghadmirer

I was in relationships with 2 different TGs when I was in my early to mid 20s. Both were around the same age as me. Both were very nice people, but both had rather complex issues, besides them dealing with the obvious in their life. It is true, looking back, that both were more money-oriented than any GG girl I have ever dated. Looking back, I am not sure where the love with money comes from, but most likely has to do with the hormones and such.

Both girls had issues that I wasn't ready to deal with at the time. I am now married to a GG and am about 10 years older, and looking back, am still not sure if I could deal with those issues now. At first, I thought it was me being immature and being caught up in a different world.

At times, both of the TGs I dated were really, really nice people and the sex was awesome, but the head games, the emotional outbursts, and the whole TG world were too much for me.

I am not saying a relationship with a TG won't work out, because there are thousands that do work out, but I was 0 for 2.

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Sounds like an interesting story that I loke to hear more of.

I love how men that only dated escorts...pass judgement on that experience.

You knew she was escorting, and unless you are going to compensate for the money she is missing out on, I highly doubt she is going to quit.

Doesn't take brains....

Ive posted a profile in a dating site before and met a few guys there and I was really shocked with what most of them said to me "Youre the only ts girl in that site that i keep in touch with who didnt asked any money from me".

Yes I think many ts girls who lurks in dating sites have secret agendas so careful careful careful for I think they also have expenses communicating and keeping in touch with ts admirer/chasers.

And just an added info I have many TS friends who posted an ad in dating sites and you know they are earning a lot just by asking money from guys in there. At first i didnt believe them but one of my friend showed me all her western union and bank transactions and almost every 3 days theres a guy from US or Europe or Canada or Australia who sends her money just by chatting with them and saying bullshit sweet words to them crazy. And the guys really think the TS girl really love them when in fact they are just after their money. My TS friend were even able to have SRS surgery in Bangkok for 10,000-15,000US$ just from guys who sends her money from all bullshit talks.

If you think escort girls are no way better than girls who advertise in dating section then think again lol

don't have a lot of money yet. but a relationship with a tgrl will be a dream cum tru 8)

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Originally Posted by raybbaby

It's best to deal with people, be they t-girl or g-girl on an individual basis. Your experience with one shouldn't inform your experience with the next. You can't accurately asses everyone in any group with a shared trait, be they transgendered women, or asians.

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Oh, balooney! He was right on the mark with his statement.