I think I have met the man of my dreams.

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Originally Posted by trannybanger

ok, let me get this straight... a corporate lawyer for a large company that probably has a stable life and makes a good living would be interested in going on a date with a transexual (debatable use of term) that he is in the process of evicting through a court proceeding....

yeah this is completely possible.... :roll:

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Actually a young lawyer like him is not in as stable of a position as you may think. The way he tells it to me there are too many lawyers in the world, he is very replaceable and his bosses let him know that every once in a while. But hey at least he has a job with real potential, a future possibility of the real big bucks.

The bank in this case is not huge so he's not their direct employee. He works at a law firm. Forcible detainer is usually a simple matter and so an relatively inexperienced lawyer would be assigned. It's just thanks to my defending myself and keeping good records I could make a case against the bank in court every bit as strong as theirs against me. Perhaps that also impressed him on a intellectual level. That is possible you know to some people it's just as important as the body.

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Originally Posted by Alyssa87

loka try not to live too much for the boys.

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AMEN...!!! BOYS DO PLAY A ROLE,, THANK GOD I COULD SEE A ACT WHEN ITS INFRONT OF ME.. AFTER HE'S DONE I CLAP..... AND WALK OFF!


Being that im a Libra and a Hopeless romantic. I tend to to feel that the older i get relationships tend to get harder & harder,, thats not to rule love out completely, I belive in love even, throughtout the sour times i've had in love, what keeps me going is the Idea of love, not to mention having found the one true love of my life.......ME!

Here is what happened to me yesterday!
I was on the Red Line train going to The Baton to pay for my table for the Miss Continental Pageant. I noticed a cute latino papi eyeing me and smiling. So I proceed to get off at Grand, and am on the escalator going up and listening to my Ipod. Out of nowhere I feel a tap on my waist,it was the young man from the train. He introduced himself, and ask me my name. I was all wrmn and fuzzy inside. We alighted the stop and are now on the street. He puts his arm around my waist as we walk down Grand to Clark, he asks me where I am going and if he can walk with me. We chat and laugh walking down the street, his arm around me the whole time. He tells me he would love to hang out with me and puts his number in my phone. He gives me a quik kiss on the lips and I go take care of business. He called me a few minutes ago, asking why I had not called him yesterday when I was done.
Now is this love???????????????????

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Originally Posted by BrendaQG

@ Tomfurbs and Beardedone.

I have the canceled checks that show how I actually paid rent. I paid $3200 twice and was due to pay another $4000 at the end of the lease to the original landlord. Pay to him out of student loan funds. (Where if anyone's curious working goes towards paying off other smaller bills, utils, credit cards, savings and "walking around money".)

I met the lawyer. The landlord is now a bank, the bank that gave the old landlord a mortgage, so they send their lawyer to represent them.

It ain't something until it's something. But It was just so nice to get those kind of vibes from a young, successful, man who knows my T and does not care.. So there is hope for meeting such a man, for any of us.

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What vibes!!!!!!!!!!!
Do tell!
Was it how he gazed into your eyes??

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Yes.

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Did he rub your leg under the table??

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We did not sit at the same table. He is council for the plaintiff and I am the defendant.

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Did he give you ANY clue as to HIS interest in YOU???

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Yes. All I can say is body language and the tone of his conversation with me. I mean we are on opposite sides of the case. He is not my laywer. He is council for the plaintiff and I am the defendant.

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Lawyers and clients go to lunch all the time.
Thats not a conflict of interest.
I mean you are paying him right?

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He is council for the plaintiff and I am the defendant.
He is council for the plaintiff and I am the defendant.
He is council for the plaintiff and I am the defendant.
He is council for the plaintiff and I am the defendant.
He is council for the plaintiff and I am the defendant.

That is why there would be a conflict of interest.

Is that crystal clear now?

I can understand why it may not have been clear. I mean who would think I could just go to court represent myself and do a good enough job to force a corporate lawyer to advise his client to cut a deal with me? (People tend to skim when reading boards like this. Then miss details.) Well that's what I did. That was all by email and court filings, never spoke to the guy, never saw the guy until today.

Perhaps I could have made my first post more understandable.

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So it was like the scene in that movie where Sharon Stone crossed and uncrossed her legs and flashed her vee-ganina??
How did you dress??
Tight pencil skirt?
Low cut blouse?
Stilletto heels
glossy red lips?
Chanel No.5 perfume??
So you are a female fatale after all!!!!!!!!!!!
Wow!

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Lol girl. Fatale me? If you say so. I think they settled because I had a reasonably strong case to present a jury.

Well for court you have to go a bit conservative. So I wore this tight blue sweater dress from banana republic, flat black slippers, the wig of course, and no stockings. I just made sure to shave then moisturize my legs before I went. That dress shows allot of leg so maybe he's a leg man? I painted myself with my usual foundation , eyeliner, lip liner, and eye shadow, no lipstick. (My foundation is IMAN "clay" #5 and I wear eye shadow of the same brand. It's made to look good on women of color and can be found at Macy's and Walgreen's in black neighborhoods. )

He was wearing a steely grey business suit, cotton by the feel of it and some Italian loafers I can't identify the brand. Since we could conceivably been before the jury this same day I'll bet he wore his best and that the suit was tailored for him it fit so well. Though to be honest I have a thing for men in suits I find. Even a fat guy in a suit looks twice as good to me.

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Well girl, that where your problem was. You didn't wear lip gloss!
If you would have glossed those lips, instead of typing here on HA you would be in a nice htel room having mad passionate monkey sex!
Gloss girl!!

Brenda congratulations on your new found relationship ...
now th next time you go to court and meet him wear the dress that i wore to do jessica rabbit in and have a hat cocked to the right ... a big huge hat with a veil and some fire red lipstick
5 inch pumps and a ciggy in one hand and let him have it :)
i am sure he will go up for you in more than one way if you catch my drift

here is an example of what you should wear :)

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Even a fat guy in a suit looks twice as good to me.

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Ah, so even =I= have a chance, eh? :P

Even if you have the hots for a *Kaff* *Gag* lawyer, you can sweep aside the conflict of interest thing once the case is decided. As neither of you would be in a position to sway the decision at that point, it is free game.

Good luck.

Deardedone is correct, once this is settled, there's no possible conflict of interest.

does he know the dirt ????
because here where i am now ...there is this boy that happens to be from chicago THAT DOES NOT KNOW and i am terrified of him finding out so i have just stayed to myself in my hotel suite .

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Originally Posted by mimiplastique

does he know the dirt ????
because here where i am now ...there is this boy that happens to be from chicago THAT DOES NOT KNOW and i am terrified of him finding out so i have just stayed to myself in my hotel suite .

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Oh girl, they know, he just called me and said he didn't know why you were acting funny. He TVO'd your recent Jerry episode. So if anybody ever had a doubt, Jerry and Tevis cleared that up today. You may know life without worry. EVERYBODY knows! Be free! And find a lawyer. Maybe you can be a witness in Brenda's case and secure a verdict in her favor :wink: