Question for "straight" guys

I have another question (and sorry for derailing this thread if I am) but when a straight guy approaches a trans-woman and says "hi. I'm actually straight" isn't there some sort of confusion as to exactly why he's at the gay club?

The reason I ask is because I've read from many trans-women here that they want to be treated as any woman would be treated (and rightly so). But if a man is going specifically searching for a trans-woman in a gay bar is he:

firstly: treating the situation differently since he's basically affirming this a different type of woman
and secondly: running that "yeah right!" move where a gay guy tells you they are straight simply so they can have sex.

I guess what am getting at is: this definition of "straight" seems somewhat loose. How does one establish "straightness" when one is involved in semi-homosexual behavior?

Thanks for answering

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Originally Posted by crayons

So the gay populous is more welcoming to trans-women where as the straight crowd is more hostile? Is this a correct assessment?

Also, would the guy be considered desperate if he is willing to risk the stigma of being labeled "gay" by his peers for frequenting a gay establishment in search of a trans-woman with something "extra" to insert into his butt?

thanks in advance.

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You've a curious mind crayons...

Even Jeeves could tell u that the majority of straight people are hostile towards ts women. But the straight guys that like ts go to gay bars bc they are more likely to be there.

Some people don't give a fuck what their peers think...but then some do, so it just depends who ur friends are. But if they are just going to get it up the ass then im not sure they are straight in the first place!

You're welcome by the way :wink:

well, I am derailing that thread any further....

what is a "straight" club/place anyways????

I am an avid lover of nightlife, and I go to places/clubs that are mixed regarding race and "sexual orientation" (an umbrella term that I just utilized for my purpose....) those places usually seem to be the most interesting.

and second: do you folx just go out to get laid in the first place???

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Originally Posted by mbf

well, I am derailing that thread any further....

what is a "straight" club/place anyways????

I am an avid lover of nightlife, and I go to places/clubs that are mixed regarding race and "sexual orientation" (an umbrella term that I just utilized for my purpose....) those places usually seem to be the most interesting.

and second: do you folx just go out to get laid in the first place???

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Good question. But I don't think a club is a good place to look for a soulmate so I only go to get laid.

Thanks for answering my questions Night Rider.

mbf: I'd suspect a straight club is one facilitated to entertain members of the opposite sex eg. a majority of the clubs in any major city.

A gay club would therefore be for members of the same sex. I've been to a couple and I wouldn't necessarily say they're for entertainment. They seem mostly to be bars (straight up) for hooking up.

I've been to sex clubs which offered a place for gay, transsexual and straight members of the community, but the straight people were far outnumbered by gay people and bissexual men who often didn't care who they went home with. Although the club was for anyone regardless of sexual orientation: it basically had a gay vibe. Also the trans-women were more often than not crossdressers.

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Originally Posted by tonkatoy

I always hate when a gay guy starts buying you drinks, and then you feel like you have to go home with him cause it would be impolite not too, and then in the morning your butt hurts.

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"Tonka"...Where the hell you been, you're still just as crazy as ever!!!

ROTFLMAO :claps :claps :claps

To add: If you jump into a pool(with water in it = Honda), you're gonna get wet! If you can't swim, it sucks to be you! :shrug

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Originally Posted by crayons

mbf: I'd suspect a straight club is one facilitated to entertain members of the opposite sex eg. a majority of the clubs in any major city.

A gay club would therefore be for members of the same sex. I've been to a couple and I wouldn't necessarily say they're for entertainment. They seem mostly to be bars (straight up) for hooking up.

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I still dont get that "concept". I seem to be the odd person here I guess. a "Club" for me is a place that is crowded by sweaty people on a dancefloor, where peeps dance to some DJ, nick pills, drink alcohol and smoke marihuana. in fact, such a palce is rather asexual. neither "straight" nor "gay".

altho, I have to say,in the city I used to live there were "gay"clubs. so, per definition, ANY other thatn the "gay" club would be "straight" then.... :?:

I suppose it depends on which clubs you fashion to be in. I don't go to the type of club you described (crowded sweaty people yuck). I mostly visit clubs where music is playing, people sit around or stand around yacking and occasionally (on another level) dance.

These clubs are mostly for couples or people to meet others and strike find common bonds. They're not particular on whether you should be straight or not to attend and participate but you'll be hard pressed in find a gay couple- though I've seen a few lipstick lesbians ;)

Dumb question warning: Are lesbian clubs as rare as TS clubs, or do they not exist? If so, wouldn't that give guys like a 70% chance of getting a 3some going with two chicks?

more like 0%