Do you feel it's wrong?

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Originally Posted by SarahG

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Yeah I don't see the big deal either, however I have had a coulple guys get real mad at me. Saying I made them gay now cause they thought a dude was hot and all that other hoopla that comes with it. So it just made me wonder if maybe I am in the wrong.

I have never had a guy get mad... in talking before hand, they will go offline or off the phone but thats it.

Now I am bi and my profiles etc state as much and I have found GG lesbians are quicker to get mad about it than guys... but thats just personal expirence.

lol I had them get mad but I'm in the sticks lol Oh girls really they always are thats so cool etc

I do not think there is a right or wrong answer to this scenario. Different people handle things like no other person. It's all about using good judgement at the right moment or time.

Can one of the individuals that answered to yes its wrong..give their insight. I'd like to hear it.

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

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Originally Posted by Vala_TS

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

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Weird.

So what do you tell them? That you are a male/formerly a male or that you are a woman with a dick or what exactly?

Vala,

No we have our real conversation...and then when they say would you like to meet..I'm like well I'm different than other girls sweety I don't think you'd be interested....then they are like what? And then they see what I've typed on my profile and they are like well I know you are different most girls are annoying. And I'm like noooo lol I mean really different...then I say I'm a pre-op transexual I don't say anything about I'm a dude or a man I'm not a crossdresser :lol: and just by saying I'm a Dude would be a turn off lol

And they know what a pre op transexual is?

And what is up with the spelling of transexual with an extra "s"? I hate that spelling.

Vala,

Well no not typically, but I'll explain it by saying I have the same anatomy as you do till I go through the post op surgery. But I don't say You know I'm A man baby lol or I'm a Dude

So you want SRS in the future or are you just telling them that for comfort?

Vala,

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Originally Posted by Vala_TS

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

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Originally Posted by Vala_TS

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

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Originally Posted by Vala_TS

Weird.

So what do you tell them? That you are a male/formerly a male or that you are a woman with a dick or what exactly?

Vala,

No we have our real conversation...and then when they say would you like to meet..I'm like well I'm different than other girls sweety I don't think you'd be interested....then they are like what? And then they see what I've typed on my profile and they are like well I know you are different most girls are annoying. And I'm like noooo lol I mean really different...then I say I'm a pre-op transexual I don't say anything about I'm a dude or a man I'm not a crossdresser :lol: and just by saying I'm a Dude would be a turn off lol

And they know what a pre op transexual is?

And what is up with the spelling of transexual with an extra "s"? I hate that spelling.

Vala,

Well no not typically, but I'll explain it by saying I have the same anatomy as you do till I go through the post op surgery. But I don't say You know I'm A man baby lol or I'm a Dude

So you want SRS in the future or are you just telling them that for comfort?

Vala,

Omg of course I do..It's been 12 years of waiting and still waiting! I definitely don't want to keep it.

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

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Originally Posted by Vala_TS

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

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Originally Posted by Vala_TS

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

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Originally Posted by Vala_TS

Weird.

So what do you tell them? That you are a male/formerly a male or that you are a woman with a dick or what exactly?

Vala,

No we have our real conversation...and then when they say would you like to meet..I'm like well I'm different than other girls sweety I don't think you'd be interested....then they are like what? And then they see what I've typed on my profile and they are like well I know you are different most girls are annoying. And I'm like noooo lol I mean really different...then I say I'm a pre-op transexual I don't say anything about I'm a dude or a man I'm not a crossdresser :lol: and just by saying I'm a Dude would be a turn off lol

And they know what a pre op transexual is?

And what is up with the spelling of transexual with an extra "s"? I hate that spelling.

Vala,

Well no not typically, but I'll explain it by saying I have the same anatomy as you do till I go through the post op surgery. But I don't say You know I'm A man baby lol or I'm a Dude

So you want SRS in the future or are you just telling them that for comfort?

Vala,

Omg of course I do..It's been 12 years of waiting and still waiting! I definitely don't want to keep it.

I thought you didn't, because you said you liked to use your dick.

I am definately not getting SRS, I like having a dick. Functional or not, I still like having one.

I feel like it's something special to be a transexual and that keeping it is a statement, at least for me anyway. I have no desire to have a pussy.

Vala,

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Originally Posted by Vala_TS

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

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Originally Posted by Vala_TS

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

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Originally Posted by Vala_TS

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

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Originally Posted by Vala_TS

Weird.

So what do you tell them? That you are a male/formerly a male or that you are a woman with a dick or what exactly?

Vala,

No we have our real conversation...and then when they say would you like to meet..I'm like well I'm different than other girls sweety I don't think you'd be interested....then they are like what? And then they see what I've typed on my profile and they are like well I know you are different most girls are annoying. And I'm like noooo lol I mean really different...then I say I'm a pre-op transexual I don't say anything about I'm a dude or a man I'm not a crossdresser :lol: and just by saying I'm a Dude would be a turn off lol

And they know what a pre op transexual is?

And what is up with the spelling of transexual with an extra "s"? I hate that spelling.

Vala,

Well no not typically, but I'll explain it by saying I have the same anatomy as you do till I go through the post op surgery. But I don't say You know I'm A man baby lol or I'm a Dude

So you want SRS in the future or are you just telling them that for comfort?

Vala,

Omg of course I do..It's been 12 years of waiting and still waiting! I definitely don't want to keep it.

I thought you didn't, because you said you liked to use your dick.

I am definately not getting SRS, I like having a dick. Functional or not, I still like having one.

I feel like it's something special to be a transexual and that keeping it is a statement, at least for me anyway. I have no desire to have a pussy.

Vala,

Just because I like utilizing it doesn't mean I don't want to get rid of it. I want the fairytale life..I want to be normal. I see great guys go so much not because of me but because I still have a penis. If I didn't have that setback I'd be with who I wanted right now. And yes I do mean set back...I am not into tranny chasers.

You should always be honest about yourself Kelly. You are a beautiful woman in your own right, let them judge you on that

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Originally Posted by Lone Wolf

You should always be honest about yourself Kelly. You are a beautiful woman in your own right, let them judge you on that

Exactly they will judge me from what they see in the media not because of who I am..If they don't see that side at first they take the time to get to know me. Rather than be like EWW thats a Chick with a Dick sorry for the rudeness on that.

I guess I can understand that. But personally, I feel it's a huge cop-out for a Tgirl to get SRS then deny any accounts of formerly being a TS anywhere, of course, this is a given in real life but on the net, not so much but it still happens.

Vala,