Would you have a relationship

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Originally Posted by suckseed

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

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Originally Posted by suckseed

Ok. then I'm a little confused still. You completely look and sound like an ordinary woman. I realize what you're probably saying is you're not advertising you're a TS, but not ashamed either, and he shouldn't be either.

Look, we all date people that aren't right for us sometimes. I've stayed on with women I knew weren't right for me in the past, and somehow, it wasn't just the sex, I felt something for them in spite of their flaws. I guess i know I'm not perfect either.
But a girl being ashamed of me? No way would I put up with that. If I were you I'd seriously consider this. Maybe talk to your mom?

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It's the stress of dating someone taboo I'm the first transexual he has dated and he is worred about someone finding out from media from word of mouth from someone else and he doesn't want them to think he is gay the truth is he can't deal with it

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Ok. Sorry not to know, but I haven't read everything you may have written; you may have already said whether or not you're preop and if so what your plans are.

It's easy for us to sit in judgement of your man. But in your case, his being ashamed of you seems particularly hard to hear about, because you've been such an incredible positive role model. If you love him other than this....would you consider going to counseling together? If this is just a fling for you, then why bother, but if you love him....maybe he just need to confront some things. Ask him if he would not come to the aid of a gay person being harassed if his friends were watching. If he's not man enough to be comfortable in that scenario, then he doesn't deserve you kelly.

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both people would have to be comfortable with going to counseling -- I am pre-op

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Originally Posted by corbomite

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

Would you have a relationship with a Ts or just sex

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Did. Would again. All depends on personality types. I`m mellow,prefer no drama. Sex is better when there`s a connection,not too luvy duvy mushy wushy about it, so i`ll stop there.

Here`s my number,call me when you`re single :P

555-5515.

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lol you're so silly

Not really since I don´t believe in all the different practical definitions of the term relationship. It seems very unnatural to me to be artificially tied with anyone that way. Relationships are made of creepy shadows that leave people living together blinded by their own created realities. Maybe I´m wrong but I don´t want to be a liar and want to leave my nature. I want to be a free individual and relationships are not part of my nature. But if there is a T-girl or GG with a wonderful personality who´d share the beauties and dark sides of life (unfortunately also the nature of life) with me, that means reciprocal understanding, individual respect and the will to devote ourselves for each other, then why not. It can only be the best solution or the worst. But the whole (public) kissy-kissy thing, everyday ego-boosting compliments and mindless and endless "I love you" - phrases are nothing for me.

Estatic, You are most certainly correct. There are several transgendered women in Orlando, Tampa, and Sarasota. Each is about a 5 hour drive for me. Miami is more like a 9 hour drive. Yes I would love to meet someone.....but I would not even know where to begin as for as clubs or what not. Plus how productive could a long distance relationship be.

Kelly, I have to agree with Suckseed, if you really love the man, and he loves you, you guys should try some type of counseling before you both lose the best thing that you have (Each other).

Given that my view of TS is the same as GG, yes, I'd have a relationship with one. I'm even an aspiring actor, and if I ever somehow became famous (which isn't important to me, I just love the craft), and someone asked me about it, I'd be open and honest and not treat it as some dirty little secret. Could damage my career, but I don't really care.

I only get one life, and it's a short one, might as well spend my time here (on Earth) being happy and not worrying about what people think of me.

Also, if your boyfriend is worried about his friends abandoning him because he dates a TS, they aren't his friends to begin with. Not real ones anyway.

For crying out loud, some decent guy just email Kelly or vise versa, or some damn thing.

Take the leap of faith and talk to each other.

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Originally Posted by Coroner

Not really since I don´t believe in all the different practical definitions of the term relationship. It seems very unnatural to me to be artificially tied with anyone that way. Relationships are made of creepy shadows that leave people living together blinded by their own created realities. Maybe I´m wrong but I don´t want to be a liar and want to leave my nature. I want to be a free individual and relationships are not part of my nature. But if there is a T-girl or GG with a wonderful personality who´d share the beauties and dark sides of life (unfortunately also the nature of life) with me, that means reciprocal understanding, individual respect and the will to devote ourselves for each other, then why not. It can only be the best solution or the worst. But the whole (public) kissy-kissy thing, everyday ego-boosting compliments and mindless and endless "I love you" - phrases are nothing for me.

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okay I understand wow lol

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Originally Posted by hotfireman69

Kelly, I have to agree with Suckseed, if you really love the man, and he loves you, you guys should try some type of counseling before you both lose the best thing that you have (Each other).

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But Matt would have to agree to it, it's more than just me in the relationship and I don't think he is ready to have me come out if it were to happen

See for me I've always had the dream of prince charming that he would love just for me and I may be a little girl for still believing in that but I am a hopeless romantic