Am i the only one

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Originally Posted by muh_muh

things become truely bizarre when people try to define gender and sexuality in ridiculously simplistic and exclusive binary catergories while not even seeing the irony that they cannot possibly fit into either

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Not true, i am veeery aware i do not fit anywhere. All the assumptions people make lol pffew

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Originally Posted by BellaBellucci

I wasn't going to comment at all anymore, and I won't argue with Birgitta point for point, but... I do find it interesting how quick everyone is to to defend her all of a sudden simply because she rephrased the fucked up things she said... and has a pretty avatar. Don't believe the hype boys: Birgitta could look like big bird for all you know.

Men. Such simple creatures. And as to Birgitta, I have a newfound respect for her as I'm impressed by her manipulation of this board. I couldn't have done it better myself. :lol:

~BB~

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Haha yeah i thought that was funny too! Maybe i should put the picture with the bird up again...i dont feel like posting my picture just because it could end up anywhere once i do. And i am afraid nobody knows me irl on this board so big bird it is i guess lol

I don't think the majority of the people on this board care if anyone else on it has their best interests at heart, honestly. Maybe the majority of the girls here appreciate your efforts Bella, maybe not, but overall I'm fairly certain that this isn't something the majority of the board values.

As to the defense of Birgitta... More of the men here will defend her because more of them want to sleep with her than want to sleep with you, and I don't mean that as an insult. You see, very little is known about Birgitta just yet, as you've said, but people here have formed their opinions of you by now. Thus, if only by virtue of being new and little known, she's going to be defended by men who have decided that they do not have a favorable opinion of you, especially if they believe that is really her in her avatar. It's that simple.

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Originally Posted by BellaBellucci

Wrong. I take life seriously, the scope of which is not limited to myself. And I didn't malign anyone. I just thought we all had a right to know something about the background of the person, the n00b person, who has come here to stir the pot. I don't think that's an unreasonable request, but most importantly: why is it that nobody on this board seems to believe that anybody on it has the best interests of the majority at heart? Is it because, like I pointed out on the escort rate threat, people find transsexuals selfish and wasteful? Well, that's all well and good, but it still sounds like stereotyping to me. :wiggle:

~BB~

PS: Only the men seem to be defending her. That's fascinating, but not surprising. :rolleyes:

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So what do you want to know bella? I tell stuff about my background and i do understand that my opinion is not loved by everyone lol, and that it is not true for everyone, but it is for me psychologically and emotionally.

Again did not mean to hurt you and i am not manipulating anyone, im way to busy damaging any reputation i might have for sharing my thoughts lil

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Originally Posted by Birgitta

Haha yeah i thought that was funny too! Maybe i should put the picture with the bird up again...i dont feel like posting my picture just because it could end up anywhere once i do. And i am afraid nobody knows me irl on this board so big bird it is i guess lol

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That's fine. I'm not judging your decision, but you need to realize the consequences of that. Namely the fact that nobody knows who are you or from where you're coming from and the only people who defend you want to fuck you, sight unseen. :geek:

~BB~

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Originally Posted by TJ347

I don't think the majority of the people on this board care if anyone else on it has their best interests at heart, honestly. Maybe the majority of the girls here appreciate your efforts Bella, maybe not, but overall I'm fairly certain that this isn't something the majority of the board values.

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Well then I guess I should be the one to leave instead, if that's the way everyone feels. And to be honest, it could save me a whole lotta grief. I don't benefit any from being morally upstanding anyway. It seems that nobody, seemingly anywhere, puts value in it anymore. :geek:

~BB~

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Originally Posted by TJ347

I don't think the majority of the people on this board care if anyone else on it has their best interests at heart, honestly. Maybe the majority of the girls here appreciate your efforts Bella, maybe not, but overall I'm fairly certain that this isn't something the majority of the board values.

As to the defense of Birgitta... More of the men here will defend her because more of them want to sleep with her than want to sleep with you, and I don't mean that as an insult. You see, very little is known about Birgitta just yet, as you've said, but people here have formed their opinions of you by now. Thus, if only by virtue of being new and little known, she's going to be defended by men who have decided that they do not have a favorable opinion of you, especially if they believe that is really her in her avatar. It's that simple.

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I think Bella is being genuine when she says she has another's best interests at heart. She flys off the handle but I don't think she's vitriolic like some others. She's also a conspiracy theorist but that helps keep others honest. I'm sure she and Birgitta would get along quite well IRL.

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Originally Posted by TJ347

I don't think the majority of the people on this board care if anyone else on it has their best interests at heart, honestly. Maybe the majority of the girls here appreciate your efforts, maybe not, but overall I'm fairly certain that this isn't something the majority of the board values.

As to the defense of Birgitta... More of the men here will defend her because more of them want to sleep with her than want to sleep with you, and I don't mean that as an insult. You see, very little is known about Birgitta just yet, as you've said, but people here have formed their opinions of you by now. Thus, if only by virtue of being new and little known, she's going to be defended by men who have decided that they do not have a favorable opinion of you, especially if they believe that is really her in her avatar. It's that simple.

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Guys defending me for my looks is enjoyable but really i am not here to show off, or for the guys, it would be nice to make friends, but i am not looking for romance or sex coz i am in a relationship, if i was not i would have tried to be more charming lol
That is marianne faithfull in my avatar.

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Originally Posted by runningdownthatdream

I think Bella is being genuine when she says she has another's best interests at heart. She flys off the handle but I don't think she's vitriolic like some others. She's also a conspiracy theorist but that helps keep others honest. I'm sure she and Birgitta would get along quite well IRL.

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Yes i am sure of that too, i like her lol. But the feeling isn"t mutual but i understand why.

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Originally Posted by Birgitta

Not true, i am veeery aware i do not fit anywhere. All the assumptions people make lol pffew

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then why do you still insist on pigeonholing people in these silly categories of what youve decided to be either feminine or masculine when you should know best that human gender identity and sexuality just isnt that simple?

whats worse is youre either intentionally or unintentionally implying that anyone who doesnt fit into that worldview loses her or his right to be seen as a true man/woman (yes im aware that this is ultimately a circular argument of absurdity) which from what i can tell is ultimately what bella is rightfully upset about

and for the record no one fits anywhere and any attempts to pigeonhole humans is ultimately doomed to fail
or you end up with 6 billion (or whatever the current world population is) pigeonholes