It's sad to see you go, but I guess it's not appropriate to make you change your mind and have to deal with these people. Some people are just sad and lonely and just needs attention - whichever way they can get it.
Good luck!
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It's sad to see you go, but I guess it's not appropriate to make you change your mind and have to deal with these people. Some people are just sad and lonely and just needs attention - whichever way they can get it.
Good luck!
Farewell Debra. You will be missed.
Hey Debra,
Truly sorry to see you leave. You really added something in your participation here. I would like to make a couple of points about site management. These are strictly my observations and don't necessarily reflect the truth about NYCE, Flabbybody, JWBL, and 1 or 2 other mods whose names are escaping me at the moment.
The site, I believe, is coming up on 10 years. It really is indestructible. It's went through just about every existential crisis that one could imagine, and yet it flies on with no real problem. There's a natural turnover of girls that occurs, and much of this can be attributed to nasty boorish behavior from some of the participants. That's sad. There were some really cool girls on here 2, 3, 5 years ago. Girls I know you would have really liked. One in particular I miss to this very day because she was so prolific and yet so clever and funny that I always looked forward to opening HA just to see what she might have come up with. Sadly she got tired of the b.s., especially the stuff that was directly thrown at her, and bowed out. Then again, she never said forever so maybe someday she'll be back.
And note, I'm sure there were other cool girls around here 7, 8 and 10 years ago. I just wasn't around then to read their posts.
The moderators have tried a lot of different managing scenarios. They've banned a lot of members in the past. They've edited and deleted a lot of posts before. They've tried to use chat rooms to deflate conflict. Seriously, they've tried a lot of things. But ultimately they settled on an upgrade of the site which included an ignore button. If any participant dislikes what he/she is reading from another participant, they can shield themselves from 95% of what that person says. It's not a perfect solution but then nothing is.
What I would recommend to any member is to take a break, occasionally. I've been absent for 6 to 9 month stretches, and it's done me good.
Anyway, I understand your decision and I thank you for coming onto Hung Angels even for a little while. You've thrown some pretty flammable fuel on some pretty active imaginations, including mine. And, again, I thank you for that.
Odelay
I miss Debra already. Strong contributor here for just a short time. Girl has looks, brains, and fire. She'll be missed here. How do we keep the next girl from leaving? This won't end well...
I like Debra and it's a shame if she's leaving, but I can't get my head round all these people making their dramatic exits!
If I decide I'm done with HA I'll just leave, but it won't be because of anything anyone says or does here. That's some crazy sensitivity and seems pretty weak. The real world is much tougher than a few pixels in a forum!
Debra apparently lurked for months and now can't take anymore cos a few people said they wanted to fuck her?? ok.
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I don't disagree with that, but I also understand that we're heading down a path where the only time we see gurls is when they're selling something. I have no opinion on Debra, she seemed nice enough but here's the problem....She saw fit to jump right in my shit her second day when I was rippin' Freddie. She was perfectly entitled to do that...this is a public forum, and I'm perfectly entitled to respond to her in kind... I never addressed her directly until she laid into me. Since it's not in my DNA to let shit slide....I gave it right back. My point is...Don't jump into the middle of a nasty bar brawl and expect to be treated like a princess. How do you moderate something like that?
Or as Bella put it....can't stand the heat....get out the kitchen.
We all know how it can be done...there's a dozen gurls on here that never have an issue with anyone, they stay out of the mud and above it all....so it can be done.
Having said that...I do understand the difference between heated ( sometimes overheated) differences of opinions, and outright harassment, and there does seem to more of the harassment lately.
You did say one thing that is not true. You said she jumped you first. But it was YOU that hi-jacked her welcome thread for a personal attack on Freedie who said nothing about you. Her thread was going great with some good conversation and fun with no arguments. Until you came along to boost your ego with personal attacks. Debra had a perfect right to respond to your blatent disregard for her. After that you constantly jumped her shit anytime you wanted. Stop being such a rightwinger, always passing the blame to the wrong person. You threw the first punch, and Debra had a right to respond. And she did so properly. Anyone can easily scroll back in this thread and see that I am telling the truth.Quote:
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This site lost a nice person who was just being herself. She was not pretending to be anyone else, and she never hid behind her keyboard like you do. She proved that not all TGirls have to sell their asses or work in porn to be noticed. She left because of some assholes who treat all women of the earth like whores because it makes them feel like big shot thugs.
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She didn't make a dramatic exit. She leveled a very good complaint because it was the truth. She was threatened by an Aussie asshole, for fucks sake. The mods make money on this site so they don't care who clicks on those links. Even if it is assholes threatening the girls lives. All the mods have to do is ban them. If they come back, ban them again and again and again. They could also ban the persons computer IP address. That would prevent them from coming back on the same computer. But they won't do that because there is money to be made, even from the assholes threatening girls lives.
I don't blame Debra one bit. Anyone who has been here a while, can see this site is getting worse for the girls, and it is inexcuseable.
Did u get a tempurpedic deb??Quote:
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