Re: Would you Date a Ts? hmmm
Hey Jane,
first I'ld like to apologize for some miswriting, I'm dutch, so english is not my first language. I was reading your story and it made me write my first reply on this board ever. I totally agree with your views and I think you explain lots of stuff very clear, how can anybody disagree? The thing with sex and love can be quite complex, especcially if you consider sex (partially) as your profession.
I think most people get taught a certain picture of people living together, mother and father, the perfect life, the hetero relationship. It's an image most people in the world get accustomed to from birth by their parents (hopefully if they are lucky to be raised by happily married, loving parents), but this image is mentained for most part of their life by the enviroment they live in, kindergarten, primary and high school etc. I think also in this period, people start to develop a certain type of person they fall in love with. But often this type of person does not turn out to be the partner people share the rest of their lifes with. I think in losts of cases haircolor, but also length, level of education, age, color of skin etcetera differs from this image. In some cases perhaps also the gender of the person they love.
I grew up with two proud parents, but the age-gap between them (16yrs) turned out to be something that crossed their paths in being happy for the rest of their lifes; they divorced when I was about 14 yrs old. Some years later my mother fell in love with somebody, a girl. She said to me she never ever thought about that being possible, but it happened. I was raised to not judge people by how they look etcetera, but that moment made me realise that it is not the looks you fall in love with, it's the person inside, it truly is.
Why am I here then, on this board? There is a lot of nudity on this board, it's mostly the outsides, the looks that is to judge. I have to confess: I'm a 36 yrs old male with a college degree in architecture, have a full-time job, lots of friends and acquaintances, single and yes I'm highly attracted to transsexual people. It is truly not only the looks, but most of all it is the determination of making your body match your mind, being happy with yourselves, bending your lives into a direction trying to achieve a higher level of happiness. I have utmost respect for all of them, just for being brave enough to go through this process. I love to read the posts everyone makes, especcially the ones telling stories about experiences etc. and yes, I certainly do get turned on by the pictures and videos!
Would I date a TS? I can't imagine myself getting myself in a situation where this question is relevant. Yes it is a fantasy of mine, but would I pay for it? Dunno. I've never hired somebody for sex and I don't think it is likely I ever will. But as it goes for judging people by color, or gender, the same counts for judging people for selling their bodies. For sure, I would never pay for sex with somebody, whose choise to be selling their body is not a voluntary one. Like I say, I would only have peace with myself doing so, if the person I like to hire, made this decision on her own and with no push from others (who exploid them), and who likes having sex and is in the oppertunity to decline sex with persons they don't want to have sex with, even for money. But then again, I'm not into the hiring for sex procedure, how can I judge all of this.
Meeting with a TS is like you say: I don't want to be with a TS because she is a TS. I like to date a person and if she turns out to be a TS? SO WHAT, I was already attracted to her in the first place, it would be my fantasy come true. If she was on hormones already or not, pre- or post-op? I hope it wouldn't matter to me if I was to be in that situation. Would I introduce her to family and friends? Ofcourse. I would introduce her with her name, it would be up to her and my friends and family to get to know eachother, like I do with everybody.
Should we ever meet, I'm looking forward to it, you seem to be a likeable person.
ps. I'm not quit sure how to sign off this message, I always like to use my real name at the end of a post on the internet, but not sure it is wise to do so now ... I guess I would be one of the few on this board.
