Men on dating ts women

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

I have loads of friends - FEMALE friends lol

And then I have Jesse and Foxxy who are fun, sweet, and just no drama...

I choose to surround myself with people aren't negative and hateful towards everything...

I mean most of the ts I have hung with complain about men 24/7...it's like shut up!

I don't need more fans..the fans I have are true to me and have stuck by me...I don't really care about that..

I was bringing up a valid point...

Just like I was gonna make a thread why trans women hate each other so much..from beginning to veteran girls..so much hate..

I try to bring up valid points on this forum...instead of the whose hotter than who and whose this and whose that crap...

I like social debates and I like opinions on topics..whether they be touchy or not...

I use all this for my blog..

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Transexual are part of the human race, and are thus subject to all the pitfalls of the rest of humanity. We all need to be careful about being around too much negativity from those around us. It part of what is sometimes called "group dynamics". It's one thing to be upset about the behavior of an individual, and another to generalize that behavior to a group of people, such a labeling someone a "chaser', in this case. What happens in group dynamic thinking is the people lose the ability to see the qualities of the individual, thus missing out on, potentially, great people, and overall happiness.

I have heard t-girls on this forum, say the guys on here are all 'losers', etc. But ther have been litterally thousands of men, who have posted here, that have expressed a mulitude of opinions on every subject. On a deeper level, when you label people "losers", you are the one who really loses. It seems to me that Kelly's original post, was about that negative group dynamics that t-groups sometime get. Years ago I went with a group of t-girls to one of their places, after meeting one at a club. I was suprised at how negative they were towards men, that liked them. I come to the conclusion that they did not love themselves, when they expressed contemp for those that did not live up to their version of 'manhood'. So I understand Kelly's original post.

What I see, is that t-girls sometimes get so emershed in the issues they face, they fail to see the bigger picture; that is, they have common issues with all women. All women, have to be aware that most men want sex more than anything at first, but they learn to use that to find who better, or best for them. It could start off with pure physical attraction, but turns into something much more, when the man starts to see a future together for them.

I do understand that trans people deal with lots of negative things from the greater society, so much of the negativity comes from a defensive mindset. There is a path to happiness that does not include acheiving society's standards of physical beauty. One key is to better understand what inner beauty is about, and the other is about giving Love to others in the world. But people usually have to taught these things. Not enough is taught to trans people, about their own inner beauty, and value to humanity. But this is slowly coming to pass.

Thanks Kelly, and everyone else for your thoughts. Amen!

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Originally Posted by Nicole Dupre

I only like men with cocks. So I want a guy who only likes women with cunts.

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You have a perspective most girls don't on this site.

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

Umm I never have ever claimed to be the hottest

Nor have I ever acted like I was..

I have always been the fun, nice, and silly girl

I take looks with a grain of salt.. I got surgeries to match how I felt inside...

Not to be paraded around like a show poodle..I did porn at one time for money for surgeries..I was always honest with my fans about that..

Now I'm doing porn cause it's fun to do with my husband...And I'm an exhibitionist..

It has nothing to do with oh do you think I'm hot...

Again I don't expect you to know that...

nor do I need to ask anyone else to say that's what I do or am...

But sweetheart you got me pegged all wrong

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So you couldn't get your face with your phyc degree?

Or your beauty dermatologist whatever you call it degree?

Show your credentials I will tell my family on here...

SWEETIE!!!

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Originally Posted by giovanni_hotel

Escorts all have a distorted view of men in general.

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Only some men. Escorting does dot define who I am.
My clients are not self-defined, by visiting me either....
People are more complicated than that.

Kelly...is it to late to say that I love you and you are the best!!! I may not agree with your views all the time but at least u speak you mind...and I respect you for it

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Originally Posted by EvonRose

So you couldn't get your face with your phyc degree?

Or your beauty dermatologist whatever you call it degree?

Show your credentials I will tell my family on here...

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No honestly I couldn't..you want to know why?

Cause my pay check went to rent and basic living and paying back my loans...

I didn't have extra money at the end of the month...

If I did it went to going out sometimes or paying for hormones/laser/electro...

My parents died young..I put myself through school...

So NO I didn't have extra money for surgeries..

And I went years and years with out any just hormones...

That's why I got into porn...

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Originally Posted by Jslimnj10

Kelly...is it to late to say that I love you and you are the best!!! I may not agree with your views all the time but at least u speak you mind...and I respect you for it

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thanks :)

Just like men on here ts are not perfect

Some ts are very jaded with men, as men with ts.. it goes both ways....

You need to deal with it fairly as oppose to making only one side bad.

Ts women love men who understand, and care for us. Even though it is hard to date a ts, if there is tremendous effort a ts will see it, and will be a great lover...

Dont listen to the tranny bashing Kelly speaks of...

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Originally Posted by yodajazz

Transexual are part of the human race, and are thus subject to all the pitfalls of the rest of humanity. We all need to be careful about being around too much negativity from those around us. It part of what is sometimes called "group dynamics". It's one thing to be upset about the behavior of an individual, and another to generalize that behavior to a group of people, such a labeling someone a "chaser', in this case. What happens in group dynamic thinking is the people lose the ability to see the qualities of the individual, thus missing out on, potentially, great people, and overall happiness.

I have heard t-girls on this forum, say the guys on here are all 'losers', etc. But ther have been litterally thousands of men, who have posted here, that have expressed a mulitude of opinions on every subject. On a deeper level, when you label people "losers", you are the one who really loses. It seems to me that Kelly's original post, was about that negative group dynamics that t-groups sometime get. Years ago I went with a group of t-girls to one of their places, after meeting one at a club. I was suprised at how negative they were towards men, that liked them. I come to the conclusion that they did not love themselves, when they expressed contemp for those that did not live up to their version of 'manhood'. So I understand Kelly's original post.

What I see, is that t-girls sometimes get so emershed in the issues they face, they fail to see the bigger picture; that is, they have common issues with all women. All women, have to be aware that most men want sex more than anything at first, but they learn to use that to find who better, or best for them. It could start off with pure physical attraction, but turns into something much more, when the man starts to see a future together for them.

I do understand that trans people deal with lots of negative things from the greater society, so much of the negativity comes from a defensive mindset. There is a path to happiness that does not include acheiving society's standards of physical beauty. One key is to better understand what inner beauty is about, and the other is about giving Love to others in the world. But people usually have to taught these things. Not enough is taught to trans people, about their own inner beauty, and value to humanity. But this is slowly coming to pass.

Thanks Kelly, and everyone else for your thoughts. Amen!

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Your posts are always spot on and help immensely

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

No honestly I couldn't..you want to know why?

Cause my pay check went to rent and basic living and paying back my loans...

I didn't have extra money at the end of the month...

If I did it went to going out sometimes or paying for hormones/laser/electro...

My parents died young..I put myself through school...

So NO I didn't have extra money for surgeries..

And I went years and years with out any just hormones...

That's why I got into porn...

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Understood and commend you on your struggles...

But that goes with questions to me too you cannot ask me why i didn't do things just because my family are famous millionaires... I had my struggles too.. And had no right to demean my comment about my family.