Fucking Black Men!

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Originally Posted by RubyTS

and haze is black so there u have it! u guys dont see it because u are not their target

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So because he is black he is now the authority? In case you haven't noticed I am as well. To use 1 man as the authority for an entire race is dumb.

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Originally Posted by deee757

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Originally Posted by RubyTS

how many of you people that are sitting here typing racist this and racist that have actually involved urself in black cullture OUTSIDE of a professional setting? Most u guys work ur 9 - 5 and go home to the wife... you've never even experienced when "they bring the black out" And to those of u who thing THATS racist BLACK people are the ones who say it.

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Ruby, at least feel me on this..... If you go into the areas where u live and they "bring the black out", You can not make this a representative of an entire race. This is your experience, with a group of people who happen to be black. I know the media shows u other wise, but we are a very diverse race just like any other. Black culture is not some giant living in the mountains, its very diverse.

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Absolutely correct.....

aww yoshi u such a cute lil puppy dog mmmuah

HAH!

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Originally Posted by deee757

And there it is, when you have to go through your "black friends" spill, you know its an issue. I have never in my life had to justify my stance on race by recalling how many white friends i have.

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It's only an issue in your head cos you make it an issue. It's not an issue in mines. And I don't really need to justify or prove anything to you or anyone. You can interpret it any way you wish. :roll: People that has known me at this forum knows.

Despite the bad experiences I've had, that still does NOT change my relationships with each one of them nor has stopped me being friends with others.

~Kisses.

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Originally Posted by SarahG

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Originally Posted by RubyTS

i dont see anyone disproving anything! i see people sharing their stories and experiences and i see other people WHO DONT KNOW ANY BETTER calling them racist. Its like you guys are arguing just to be right.

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Isn't that why most people argue?

Not very many people argue thinking they're wrong.

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Well thanks to you, playing devils advocate and fanning the controversy even more by linking another thread, this one just spun out of control. But you never said your piece about the 'touchy' subject, now have you?

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~Kisses.

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Originally Posted by Hara_Juku Tgirl

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Originally Posted by SarahG

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Originally Posted by RubyTS

i dont see anyone disproving anything! i see people sharing their stories and experiences and i see other people WHO DONT KNOW ANY BETTER calling them racist. Its like you guys are arguing just to be right.

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Isn't that why most people argue?

Not very many people argue thinking they're wrong.

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Well thanks to you, playing devils advocate and fanning the controversy even more by linking another thread, this one just spun out of control. But you never said your piece about the 'touchy' subject, now have you?

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I wasn't trying to get turn this into a bash Hara thread.

I was simply showing that there is a double standard here.

When certain people say things, everyone goes and complains.

But when other people say them? No one says a damn thing, certainly don't react as passionately or belligerently.

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Originally Posted by Hara_Juku Tgirl

It's only an issue in your head cos you make it an issue. It's not an issue in mines.

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in other words : racists are those who choose to be racist.
those who don't tolerate poeple that are different from them.
those who preter to generalise races instead of judging poeple individualy.

there are assholes in every race , and there are good poeple 8)

Ok Ok, lets take a different approach... We can all presume that a racist is a person who dislikes or judges people based on their race......so all of the people who refuse to offer their services to certain races, explain why this is not being a racist, and give some examples of what you think racism is. (please don't refer to your three black friends you have tolerated for humanitarian reasons) Next thing....Are there any positive experiences with black man that can be shared on this forum....please speak up. I once heard a man say, nobody oppresses like the oppressed.......

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Originally Posted by deee757

Ok Ok, lets take a different approach... We can all presume that a racist is a person who dislikes or judges people based on their race......so all of the people who refuse to offer their services to certain races, explain why this is not being a racist, and give some examples of what you think racism is. (please don't refer to your three black friends you have tolerated for humanitarian reasons) Next thing....Are there any positive experiences with black man that can be shared on this forum....please speak up. I once heard a man say, nobody oppresses like the oppressed.......

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@deee757

On point One, I'm NOT offering services (I work in health care full time). And back then when I lived back east and I did bdsm session 3 nights a week (for 3 years) at an NYC fetish club, I've always been an equal opportunity dominatrix. Money talks, bullshit walks! If anyone who's seen me work at the club, they know I mean business. Sure, I've been stiffed inside the club by a black guy no less. But that didn't stop me from entertaining others that came in.

Point Two, That's never been done (I don't think)..a feel good thread..why don't you initiate it and see where it leads?

;)

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