Well JF thanks again for your kind thoughts. I hope you find happiness and peace in your life.Quote:
Originally Posted by Jamie French
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Well JF thanks again for your kind thoughts. I hope you find happiness and peace in your life.Quote:
Originally Posted by Jamie French
It's what society expects. Folks get married because that's what you do once you're done with college or whatever. Then come the kids. Our society doesn't really provide a respectable alternate path.Quote:
Originally Posted by saifan
No offense to the OP--who I am sure is a smart guy, but a lot of people will just be like "I guess I'll get married" without thinking about it--it's like the "default" destiny of a man. You need to have a keen ability to think for yourself to choose another way.
How you gonna do that?Quote:
Originally Posted by summer 69
Gayasian, he's going to do that by using condoms.Plenty of punters ( and a famous one in the escort section) have hundreds of liaisons , and never get a scratch.All this is just scaremongering and a perverse morality .
BTW is that your real photo?
And, also there are a lot of great TS service providers that see married men ...And I know for a fact ( the ones I know)go for regular check ups and screenings .Don't you think this thread is somewhat disrespectful to those girls that specialise in this area .or do you think all the service providers should stop seeing married men?
And I hope you die of AIDS, or at least pass it on to your wife so her family murders you for killing their daughter.
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Originally Posted by summer 69
Why so hard on him Jamie. It's not like everyone can have an open relationship such as yourself. I don't agree with his choice, but I always use empathy as a way of understanding people.
You have to have empathy to use empathy .Otherwise it's like asking for bread at the shoe shop.
I think , Jamie is just being punk rock - she doesn't meant it .
Don't pick on punk rock as an excuse. What did punk rock ever do to you, lol.
You don't need to be in an open relationship to be open and honest to your spouse. The only person who deserves empathy is his poor wife who is wasting her time and love and doesn't even know it.Quote:
Originally Posted by lifeisfiction
Good luck. Like how many people would be comfortable telling their wives they have seen escorts. Or what porn they watched. You should be honest an open, but don't make it sound like it's easyQuote:
Originally Posted by Instrumental
If you aren't comfortable being forthright with a woman, you shouldn't be marrying her in the first place. And not entering a committed relationship with someone you feel you have to keep secrets from should be quite easy.
I'd love to heat , Jamie's music , I get a feeling it's punk ...
Jamie , where can I hear your music?
Instrumental, I admire you :) as a woman, whom seeks honest love, your wonderful relationship material! If a guy came to me bravely, and admitted his attraction to TS girls, I'd help him explore his attraction and accept him for his respectful truth! You're right! His wife is wasting her precious time! She only gets 1 life and it is up to him to be honest, and allow her to choose what she is alright with. Hopefully, he will take and use your advice! It just may save a whole lot of heart ache on both sides! He is using her and justifying his trickery with the facade that the truth may "hurt her." I personally see why people hide their sexuality in today's society, but if more people followed your advice the TS world wouldn't even be known as a TS world! It would just be common to see couples who are involved in Transgender relationships! As it should be! Because let's face it, more humans are attracted to Transgender than people think!
In my city the population is barely over 1000, and I personally know over a dozen men who frequent this site from my circle. The secret is theirs to keep, but I hope for a day when we can all be honest like you are saying and no wife, husband, or significant other will have to deal with the abuse this man puts his family through.
I wish him well