Should a Post Op TGirl tell a man she had an operation?

Let me ask you a question. What if a man notice small scars around the Post Ops pussy, he ask what's that not knowing about SRS, and she tells him a lie saying she had an operation of cancer so they cut her there. He falls for it because it's a good excuse. We know the TGirl would be wrong, but do you think lots of men would by into that?

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Originally Posted by danoblue

they should tell them.

I've been with a post-op girl and it was fun.

If you see the pussy up close you generally can tell that's why it's probably best to not shave down there, the hair covers up and makes it look more real.

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Originally Posted by jamesedwards

Should a man who thinks a TGirl who is post op know she had an operation?

I think she should because if he wants children and then a doctor tells him she can't have children beeeeeccccaaauuuuussssseeeee !!!!

That could get really ugly.

I read recently where a female had a Fallopian tube and no uterus and she was born with a cock. Once you have a Fallopian tube you are born a woman it's just a mishap. She lived as a woman and looked like a woman. but when you have an operation that's different.

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If your not trans it's simply not your right or call. Want say? Go take some estrogen and testosterone blocker. Pre/Post genitalia doesn't mean shit. This imaginary woman if you will was a woman the day she was birthed. it's completely her decision to live stealth or be open. She doesn't have to tell anyone. Why would she? She's been a female since day one. Stick to your tube sites and shut your pie hole. :thumbsdown

I think the canary passed out around #29.

What needs to happen is to get society to be understanding enough that there is almost no fear or risk of harm in telling. Should a person identify if they are a virgin or had 100 partners before sex. I would recommend but not required.

Should someone tell that they have a lousy credit score before the relationship gets deep - probably and it is going to be found out.

If a partner isn't aware enough to notice it was SRS initially, but finds out after 5 years, will this event go over better at year 5 than before the first time - gee I am not sure. That is probably a question for the detectives.

Should the partner be adult enough to accept and continue forth when told at the appropriate time, a full yes. He should be very supportive of the woman he loves. Will she be happier with that loving support - i hope so.

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Originally Posted by Rusty Eldora

If a partner isn't aware enough to notice it was SRS initially, but finds out after 5 years, will this event go over better at year 5 than before the first time - gee I am not sure. That is probably a question for the detectives.

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As has been pointed out earlier, you'd have to be pretty dumb to not notice, but, let's assume...

If someone dropped a bombshell like that on me. Lying to me all that time. No discussions, their bag would be on the doorstep and their arse following it, quicktime!

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Originally Posted by jamesedwards

I read recently where a female had a Fallopian tube and no uterus and she was born with a cock. Once you have a Fallopian tube you are born a woman it's just a mishap. She lived as a woman and looked like a woman. but when you have an operation that's different.

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Aha, why is it "different"?

Is it possible you guys are afraid you could not tell if a woman is gg or post-op,

In opposite to what lots are posting here... ?

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Originally Posted by Jericho

As has been pointed out earlier, you'd have to be pretty dumb to not notice

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And why is all the discussion here?

I think you re not too shure if you will notice it.

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Originally Posted by natina

most guys do not know what a postop transsexual is and they will get fooled.

I WILL NOT OUT A BUNCH OF STEALTH MODELS NOW ONLY RECENTLY HAS JESSICA RABBIT BEEN OUTED ANDTHAT WAS AFTER SOMEONE SEEN PHOTOS OF THEM ON SITES LIKE THIS AND THE GIRLS(gg) WAS GOING TO ALL THE NEWS OUTLETS AND OUTING JESSICA RABBIT.

there is a few TS from some famous lingerie magizines I know that no one knows except for a very few people.In met them in beverly heels at an event.

there are TS THAT ADVERTISe IN EROS AND a few other sites and have modeled for play boy and know one has figured them out yet.

if they marry someone famous people go digging up there pass and then they are OUTED like TULA

I bet many of you don't remember the TS that fooled the world in hustler magizine!!

these guys mostly have never seen a postop pussy up close and they would not know really what to look for unless its a very bad job and not a work of art!

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I didn't think the Victoria's Secret catalog could get hotter. Just did! Awesome!!!! If it's the S. American model I'm hoping it is, I will be a very happy man!

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Originally Posted by Anika

And why is all the discussion here?
I think you re not too shure if you will notice it.

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Oh, I'm pretty damn sure! :rolleyes:

What? It's not about me being afraid. It's about having the RIGHT TO KNOW! That's it, I seen some clown say the TGirl have all the rights, yet that same clown isn't thinking about the person's rights that has a long relationship in the dark. That's it, it's not complicated!

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Originally Posted by Anika

Aha, why is it "different"?

Is it possible you guys are afraid you could not tell if a woman is gg or post-op,

In opposite to what lots are posting here... ?

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Natina hit it on the head, we showed facts that all men don't know the difference between a Post op pussy and regular pussy. Men how have absolutely never known a TGirl and don't even Plan to may not know the difference, these type of men are deemed stupid, and they are not stupid.
But that's not the question.

The question is should the TGirl tell the truth because the man has the right to know, and people keep talking about the TGirl has all these rights and keep forgetting about the man as if he has no rights! He isn't the one changing his physical form the TGirl is, if she is keeping it in secret ok, won't be mad at that but be prepared for the consequences of that. The man who is not looking for a TGirl and he is thinking she is a GG that's his right.

I am a lover of TGirls but I must be fair and logical!

It's irrelevant to me. I don't need to know although I would hope that at some point she would feel secure enough to mention it. However, it really comes down to the character of the man and whether he's the type that needs to know and the reasons he would need to know. If there are things you think you cant tell your partner because of their bigotry or intolerance its probably wiser to just find another partner. No way should it be divulged at the beginning of the relationship as it's something that could either kill it or have it progress for the wrong reasons - i.e.: pity or empathy. Better to gauge the man and make the decision later.

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Originally Posted by jamesedwards

What? It's not about me being afraid. It's about having the RIGHT TO KNOW! That's it, I seen some clown say the TGirl have all the rights, yet that same clown isn't thinking about the person's rights that has a long relationship in the dark. That's it, it's not complicated!

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Nnnn.. NO. Post op trans women don't need to discuss some medical problem with anyone. It would be as simple as a broken finger beyond that point. As far as she is concerned shes female. Your right it's really not complicated at all. Shes been female all her life and shes packing a vagina. A relationship in the dark? He married a woman and fell in love with her. Look your a chaser your gunna stay that way. We understand you cant wrap your tiny brain around trans issues so how about you just stop. Here you go. Some tube porn for yah. See you in 2 minutes. ლ(ಠ益ಠ)ლ

Have fun ^^

In my humble opinion, a successful relationship requires full honesty between the two partners. If you want to have a long-term, healthy relationship, you need to be able to trust and fully understand your partner. With that in mind, it would be hard to fully understand what makes your significant other who they are without knowing about their childhood, their past, etc.

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Originally Posted by jamesedwards

What? It's not about me being afraid. It's about having the RIGHT TO KNOW! That's it, I seen some clown say the TGirl have all the rights, yet that same clown isn't thinking about the person's rights that has a long relationship in the dark. That's it, it's not complicated!

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If you are shure you can tell a post-op from a GG everytime, you know it anyway.

So whats the point of your big letters?

Hmmmmmmmmm did you just say medical problem and don't need to discuss it to a guy in a relationship in the same sentence? :confused:

All you people is doing is talking and haven't showed any facts, it's just opinions, I don't want that show facts! I have shown there are problems with this if the man expected to get with a woman but turns out to be a TGirl who transformed into a female in her point of view. Stop worrying about what I feel, and worry about the guy for once. You all are trying to make it seem like I have the problem but it's really you!

So riddle me this smart ass, TGirl married to a man who don't know anything about TGirls, don't like them, she has SRS then he finds out 10 years later by someone else. He's mad as shit, and he is ready to kill the TGirl, how do you solve this old wise one? hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

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Originally Posted by AdaBlackXXX

Nnnn.. NO. Post op trans women don't need to discuss some medical problem with anyone. It would be as simple as a broken finger beyond that point. As far as she is concerned shes female. Your right it's really not complicated at all. Shes been female all her life and shes packing a vagina. A relationship in the dark? He married a woman and fell in love with her. Look your a chaser your gunna stay that way. We understand you cant wrap your tiny brain around trans issues so how about you just stop. Here you go. Some tube porn for yah. See you in 2 minutes. ლ(ಠ益ಠ)ლ

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Asking me that question is nuts!

Ask me:

"Should a Post Op TGirl tell a man she had an operation?"

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Originally Posted by Anika

If you are shure you can tell a post-op from a GG everytime, you know it anyway.

So whats the point of your big letters?

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Baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaam! Profoundly said!

The key word he said was "honesty between two partners"!

All I have been seeing is one sided views for the TGirl not to say nothing. I accept that if the TGirl didn't, buuuuuuuuuuuuuuttttttttttttttt! Accept the consequences that come along with that if the guy gets really upset.

The reason I started this because who knows someone might be going through this. I am getting bashed basically for starting a thread that might could help someone through a serious situation. The FACT is TGirls are getting KILLED! Those that say she don't have to say nothing aren't realizing TGirls are getting killed behind this very subject.

Thank you Dreamon for that profound presentation!

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Originally Posted by dreamon

In my humble opinion, a successful relationship requires full honesty between the two partners. If you want to have a long-term, healthy relationship, you need to be able to trust and fully understand your partner. With that in mind, it would be hard to fully understand what makes your significant other who they are without knowing about their childhood, their past, etc.

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erm...ok..

so i've seen arguments like "well if the guy is dumb enough not to tell the difference, then he's a fucking dope and deserves what he gets!!"

Ok...lolool.. so the man must go to medical school, and be a practicing gynaecologist, to not be deemed a dope now? i think this would "fool" many men who don't have that medical knowledge..and through no fault of their own. to assert that any man is dumb not to tell the difference is...well retarded and dopey....

And let's put the shoe on the other foot....he fucks hi gf/wife in her pussy or arse, she gets a rash and he says "oh, sorry babe, but then my semen has an infection, nothing serious to me though, i live with it without much trouble..." and say she needs to go to the hospital to get special antiobiotics to clear it....still OK to lie then?

Some here have mentioned the appearance of a post-op pussy in comparison to a GG vagina as a telltale sign somebody has had work done downstairs.

Well, I have seen post-op vaginas - in pictures, unfortunately so far not in real life - that were positively a beautiful work of art by whatever surgeon created them. But in the end, I think I would spot a post-op vagina any day, any odds.

Would it put me off if it came to a real life sexual encouner? I don't think so. If I am turned on enough by a person to land between the sheets with them, it would probably be a detail where I would think "oh... now that's something...!" - but in the end, I would very probably just keep doing what I have been doing up to that point... ;)

Good post. Now for you, you already have a head start in the game to know TGirls vs a guy that don't know anything about TGirl's life, or a SRS, not all people know about this in depth. So the Average guy won't tell, especially if the surgeon was that dam good!

Thanks for your post happy new year

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Originally Posted by mrwiseguy

Some here have mentioned the appearance of a post-op pussy in comparison to a GG vagina as a telltale sign somebody has had work done downstairs.

Well, I have seen post-op vaginas - in pictures, unfortunately so far not in real life - that were positively a beautiful work of art by whatever surgeon created them. But in the end, I think I would spot a post-op vagina any day, any odds.

Would it put me off if it came to a real life sexual encouner? I don't think so. If I am turned on enough by a person to land between the sheets with them, it would probably be a detail where I would think "oh... now that's something...!" - but in the end, I would very probably just keep doing what I have been doing up to that point... ;)

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THANK YOU! thumbs up! See now I am seeing who is actually the dummies here in HA.

Another profound thought, that was right on the money!

Have a happy new year!

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Originally Posted by holzz

erm...ok..

so i've seen arguments like "well if the guy is dumb enough not to tell the difference, then he's a fucking dope and deserves what he gets!!"

Ok...lolool.. so the man must go to medical school, and be a practicing gynaecologist, to not be deemed a dope now? i think this would "fool" many men who don't have that medical knowledge..and through no fault of their own. to assert that any man is dumb not to tell the difference is...well retarded and dopey....

And let's put the shoe on the other foot....he fucks hi gf/wife in her pussy or arse, she gets a rash and he says "oh, sorry babe, but then my semen has an infection, nothing serious to me though, i live with it without much trouble..." and say she needs to go to the hospital to get special antiobiotics to clear it....still OK to lie then?

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Ima say this, you sound stupid as fuck!

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Originally Posted by AdaBlackXXX

Nnnn.. NO. Post op trans women don't need to discuss some medical problem with anyone. It would be as simple as a broken finger beyond that point. As far as she is concerned shes female. Your right it's really not complicated at all. Shes been female all her life and shes packing a vagina. A relationship in the dark? He married a woman and fell in love with her. Look your a chaser your gunna stay that way. We understand you cant wrap your tiny brain around trans issues so how about you just stop. Here you go. Some tube porn for yah. See you in 2 minutes. ლ(ಠ益ಠ)ლ

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I see the people here that would lie in a heart beat and pass it off as " It's my business, I've been a woman from birth". smh no logic what so ever