Tops and Transbians??

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Originally Posted by arnie666

Well if all trannies were bottoms I would not be wasting my doe on them put it that way. To put it bluntly if it was about anal ,girls have buttholes and I can get that for free.

Besides there are girls who enjoy putting a strap on on,there are girls that enjoy dominating men ,who are you to judge how they should behave and what is masculine ? Should all of them transition to men because it doesn't fit your view of things?

Just because you like taking a role in the bedroom doesn't mean you do so all the time, either.And if the business with girls with c0cks makes you so uncomfortable, why are you on the site?

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Nice to see someone who can see things for how they are instead of being so closed minded.

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Originally Posted by slingblade

To a point yes it's different, but within genders people have certain roles they are expected to fulfill.. The social norms for women aren't to be fucking guys with strap ons or dicks when they're in bed.. you can say what you want to, but people who do stuff like that are going against the grain and usually just doing some fetish bullshit or the women are just with DL gay men ...

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Its actually i that is going against the grain for wanting to experience life as a female while i was born in a male body, not them.
They are perfectly well adjusted tgirls for serving men with gender issues, and special sexual desires. Lol

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Originally Posted by AmyDaly

Tell me. Is being attracted to someone with a cock masculine? Yes or no?

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Depends if you're attracted to the person and take the appendages for granted, or the other way round.

you don't have to call someone a bella belluci. that's going too far

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Originally Posted by DL_NL

Depends if you're attracted to the person and take the appendages for granted, or the other way round.

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I personally don't care what a man wants to do. Like I've said before. Your gender and your sexual preferences have nothing to do with each other, which makes this whole thread pointless. It just sounds like there are a lot of closed minded people who think what you like to do in the bedroom determines what gender you are or should be, which isn't right.

Also, do we really know what is normal behind closed doors? Would a man be feminine for having a girlfriend massage his prostate? I mean come on...

I sort of agree with you- this thread is about black and white truths that don't exist in human sexuality. Everyone has his or her view and there's no debating those for truth, because they're personal views. Whatever your gender, whatever your role in bed, whatever your sexual preferences- you're always right when it comes to you and nobody else.

It's when you start judging others by your standards and taking a black and white stance that things go horribly wrong...

I know a girl that flirts with me once in a while, she is bisexual and admitted that she likes pre op tgirls and has fantasies about them, she is married and very masculine, she walks like a man :) im intrigued with people feeling attracted to me for all kinds of reasons but mostly not stuff that actually has to do with me. This comes with being a tgirl, people have fantasies about you coz they want you to be a certain way. Its rare for me to meet up with someone thats actually interested in what i love and like, and someone that actually waaants me to be a woman for them.

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Originally Posted by AmyDaly

So.....is that a yes or a no?

I just want to know, because slingblade is telling us not to call ourselves women if we don't want to be 100% feminine as defined by the social norms. I don't think liking girls with dicks is 100% masculine. I think he should stop calling himself a "real man" if he doesn't want to accept complete masculinity.

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You can be a masculine gay top, masculinity has nothing to do with sexual pref. But gender and sexuality for the majority of people simply match and are not seperated. Any woman wanting to be male in bed, at least is entertained by the idea of dominating, role reversal and penetration, its not something most woman want. I dont know woman like that, even most dominant ones dont want to penetrate their boyfriend. There are gender and sexuality issues going on, which is fine, btw, but it has little to do with male/female sexuality and romance, its different. That is what slingblade is trying to tell us. And i think he is right.

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Originally Posted by TsVanessa69

Bitch we are transexuals not females.
If a man doesnt like cock, he should stick to pussy
if a tranny hates her cock, cut it off.
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Is that what you say when you educate the masses about transgendered people?
If they dont "like" their penis, they cut it off? Lol!!!!

Its you btw that claims to be a woman dating straight guys since you are 17, and happy with being fabulous and special and with using your cock in the way gay men would, and letting your romantic boyfriends pay for their time with you, and yet you claim you are a woman and that you are in a position to educate the world about it, in my view you are doing so only to be the centre of attention, not to educate anyone... i never claimed to be a woman, and am not even offended when someone thinks of me as gay lol.
I just have a very rational view on stuff...
And i dont think its normal male on female love around this forum, it is NOT what is discussed here, and Slingblade has the right to adress that, even if he does it in a clumsy way.

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Originally Posted by Birgitta

But gender and sexuality for the majority of people simply match and are not seperated. .

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lol right

who gives a fuck anyway ... you are what you are . enjoy what makes YOU happy not what other TS, other girls, guys TELL you what you should or shouldnt be ...

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Originally Posted by LibertyHarkness

who gives a fuck anyway ... you are what you are . enjoy what makes YOU happy not what other TS, other girls, guys TELL you what you should or shouldnt be ...

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:Bowdown::Bowdown::Bowdown:

life is far far to short to be concerned with such trivial things as what genders should and shouldnt do in bed ..

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Originally Posted by slingblade

For the trannys out there who call themselves tops and transbians if thats even a word.

Why on earth did you even bother with transitioning to a woman if you only like fucking men or fucking only girls and other trannys?

I dont get it and I dont think I will understand how someone can say they feel like they were born in the wrong body and then claim they like men but only like to be a top with them? That just doesn't pass the common sense test and if you were really born in the wrong body wouldn't the norm be that you actually liked getting fucked in the ass by a man and not the other way around? I know there are lots of guys who like being bottoms for trannys too, but I think those guys would also love getting fucked in the ass by another man too and they're just gay!!

The I feel like I was born a woman thing just ain't registering here when I see trannys who like to play the man role with other trannys or men. Hell just save your money and time and don't bother with transitioning if it's like that..

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First off just because YOU DON'T GET IT others do. Second, I am a bottom and a top, I love women that are dominate and use strapons and I love Tgirls that look like women. I wouldn't dare go near a man like me, yuck! So not all are like what you said. There are Tgirls that only wanna top because they have a deep dominate side. That's like telling a GG who loves to fuck men only in the ass and she don't like getting fucked "WHY DON'T YOU JUST BECOME A MAN" wtf! You must understand the different levels of sex, you must be young and brand new, of course you do remember a Tgirl doesn't have a pussy unless she gets operated on, you do know that right? So if a TGirl chose to top and fuck a man's ass that's her right without being humilated by someone like you. This nonsense keeps popping up, first with Daryl Washington, Then some other nut now you.

If you don't like Tgirls just get the hell on!

If a sexy Tgirl like the one in my Avatar puts her ass in my face we fucking and we fucking like some nasty ass animals. Ima suck that black asshole, fuck it and suck her cock and she will do me back, give me the wild nasty Tgirls that loves to fuck!

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Originally Posted by slingblade

No not really, i'm jus saying why waste the time and the doe when in the end you're still trying to pull of a masculine role?

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What would you say to a Dominate woman that loves to put on strapons and fuck a man and not let him fuck her? In your book it's masculine in the Tgirl book it's her rules and she is more on the dominate side and she is not wasting time because SHE IS FUCKING SOMEONE WHO LOVES THAT SHIT! If she couldn't get anyone that's a waste of time.

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Originally Posted by AmyDaly

So why do guys like you like girls with cocks? Don't you grow up to be a man to like girls with Vaginas? Why don't you just be a woman slingblade. Such a feminine trait to be attracted to someone with a cock.

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:dead-1::iagree::Bowdown:

That was a good one lol

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Originally Posted by jamesedwards

If a sexy Tgirl like the one in my Avatar puts her ass in my face we fucking and we fucking like some nasty ass animals. Ima suck that black asshole, fuck it and suck her cock and she will do me back, give me the wild nasty Tgirls that loves to fuck!

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Been watching too much porn lately? Lol
it must be a relief for you that you are not gay, thank god these tgirls are crazy enough to call themselves woman Loool

I seriously think a lot of tgirls and lovers live in a fantasy world..
This has very little to do with the experience of being a woman, or even feeling like a woman.
I certainly think most tgirls arent woman, this has nothing to do with genitals, but with personality and attitude. I dont claim to be a woman, but what i see happening around here arent woman being attracted to men and vice versa...
This is an entirely different universe then that of the straight population...
I know its not politically correct to say, but i think a lot of tgirls are transsexuals but NOT woman.

That goes for straight masculine men that get a pussy as well as tgirls with a gay attitude...and yes slingblade is right, thinking like that is commen sense

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Originally Posted by Birgitta

Been watching too much porn lately? Lol
it must be a relief for you that you are not gay, thank god these tgirls are crazy enough to call themselves woman right? Loool

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Are you being sarcastic or are you serious? You saying transwomen who consider themselves women are crazy?

I can smell the sarcasm miles away...

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Originally Posted by Birgitta

He is not being rude and i think its his right to express his opinion, i personally think he is one of the few guys that wants to treat us like girls/woman....and i respect guys like that and certainly wont spit him in the face....i sometimes think tgirls and lovers want sociaty to accept their norms, almost like gay people that say that every man is or should be gay...a reality check is needed then, just because you are different does not mean everybody else is too, and just because you think you are normal does not mean that you are normal....

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Do you think all Tgirls want the same thing?


List:
Tgirls that like to bottom only
Tgirls that like to top only
Tgirls that like to top and bottom
Tgirls that like only men
Tgirls that like only women
Tgirls that like men and women
Tgirls that won't fuck another tgirl
Tgirls that will fuck men, women and other Tgirls

The list can keep going on and on, there is no one type of Tgirl, even if a Tgirl tops only can be treated as a woman. There is enough variety to go around like what you like and if someone is not compatible to you move on and say fuck them and get a Tgirl that match you.
Cause on the real if a Tgirl says she bottoms only and has a cock, naturally her cock need stimulation, lets just be real. If she jacks off by herself or whatever. If she is trying to reach this real woman goal it will never be achieved in a million years! She can try to get close but it won't happen. I tell people Ima Tri-sexual because I will try some real freak shit because I know Ima nasty freaky motha fucka and I love that shit and I love a Tgirl that's like that too.

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Originally Posted by Birgitta

I think you are soooo right about this!!!
Im suprised im the only one that sees it lol!

I try to embrace womanhood but even i dont present myself as a woman on message boards like this, i simply state that i feel like one, not that i am one.

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hahaha.. You're a smart chica baby, and I think men that really love and are attracted to women will always gravitate towards girls like you.....

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Originally Posted by AmyDaly

Are you being sarcastic or are you serious? You saying transwomen who consider themselves women are crazy?

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I edited my post to clarify lol hope it helps lol

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Originally Posted by DL_NL

I can smell the sarcasm miles away...

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Well lol, i have a very odd opinion about tswoman lol...
Myself included btw lol

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Originally Posted by Birgitta

I edited my post to clarify lol hope it helps lol

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nice

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Originally Posted by AmyDaly

Tell me. Is being attracted to someone with a cock masculine? Yes or no?

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I think it depends on how the person looks with the cock.. I'd say if a guy is attracted to someone who looks like Bailey Jay, Vanity, Sarrena, or just a feminine looking TS is very masculine, but if you're a man and your attracted to Brad Pitt, Will Smith, George Cluney then i'd say that's not masculine at all..

Guys see a woman external beauty first, its not like anyone walks around nude anymore or that i'd want to see that.. So I think I can say most guys would still want to fuck Scarlett Johansson if she had a cock or not.. Probably like most guys would do you too..

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Originally Posted by jamesedwards

What would you say to a Dominate woman that loves to put on strapons and fuck a man and not let him fuck her? In your book it's masculine in the Tgirl book it's her rules and she is more on the dominate side and she is not wasting time because SHE IS FUCKING SOMEONE WHO LOVES THAT SHIT! If she couldn't get anyone that's a waste of time.

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What would I say to a dominate woman that loves to put strapons and fuck men and not let them fuck her.. Not on my watch, if she ain't giving up that pussy she ain't getting in my bed, so I would never even waste my time with someone like that..

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Originally Posted by AmyDaly

I personally don't care what a man wants to do. Like I've said before. Your gender and your sexual preferences have nothing to do with each other, which makes this whole thread pointless. It just sounds like there are a lot of closed minded people who think what you like to do in the bedroom determines what gender you are or should be, which isn't right.

Also, do we really know what is normal behind closed doors? Would a man be feminine for having a girlfriend massage his prostate? I mean come on...

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Oh i'm sure you do care what a man wants to do Amy... I've watched quite a few of your movies and one good thing I can say about you is that i've never seen you fucking a man.. Even when you're with another ts you're getting fucked, so I venture to say that even though you won't admit it you proabably enjoy being a lady in bed which is how it should be and I doubt you'd be all that comfortable with a guy wanting you to fuck him....

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Originally Posted by slingblade

I think it depends on how the person looks with the cock.. I'd say if a guy is attracted to someone who looks like Bailey Jay, Vanity, Sarrena, or just a feminine looking TS is very masculine, but if you're a man and your attracted to Brad Pitt, Will Smith, George Cluney then i'd say that's not masculine at all..

Guys see a woman external beauty first, its not like anyone walks around nude anymore or that i'd want to see that.. So I think I can say most guys would still want to fuck Scarlett Johansson if she had a cock or not.. Probably like most guys would do you too..

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from my experience it is not only about looks, guys like their woman to be like woman on the inside too, that is what makes chemistry possible...

When i was in the gay community boys did not like me, not only because i looked feminine but even moreso because i was not male on the inside

Ask any woman on the street if she wants to fuck you with a strap on that is not lesbian nor has gender issues, and she wil say no thanks,
Thinking that her being more open minded about it will change that is just being naive!

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Originally Posted by Birgitta

from my experience it is not only about looks, guys like their woman to be like woman on the inside too, that is what makes chemistry possible...

When i was in the gay community boys did not like me, not only because i looked feminine but even moreso because i was not male on the inside

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Well yeah it's how they carry themselves too.. Like for instance I like seeing women wearing dresses too, but I don't expect them to wear one every day of the week but I like it when they do.. It's the little things, sometimes GG don't do the little things that guys like seeing and sometimes TS do and it makes them appear to more in touch with their fem side thand some other girls are..

That's intresting that they gay community boys didn't like you... From what i've heard it's a lot of gay guys who don't like transseuxals because they sometimes like the same kind of guy but the guys that they like will more often than not choose a TS.... I don't know how gay guys could even think that they could compete with a TS really.. .lol..

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Originally Posted by slingblade

Well yeah it's how they carry themselves too.. Like for instance I like seeing women wearing dresses too, but I don't expect them to wear one every day of the week but I like it when they do.. It's the little things, sometimes GG don't do the little things that guys like seeing and sometimes TS do and it makes them appear to more in touch with their fem side thand some other girls are..

That's intresting that they gay community boys didn't like you... From what i've heard it's a lot of gay guys who don't like transseuxals because they sometimes like the same kind of guy but the guys that they like will more often than not choose a TS.... I don't know how gay guys could even think that they could compete with a TS really.. .lol..

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Some gay friends are very sweet and some even feel sorry.for me, they perhaps would not be if they knew how easy it is to get sex with attractive guys as a ts...

But i dont care for all that, i care for love and love only, then sex is great too! Thats how it works for me. Thats why i appreciate guys deeply that are very straightlike in both character, attitude and sexuality that have the guts to date a tgirl when having to deal with the prejudice.

I also respect men that want us to be woman, in my view those are the one's that truely support me and im eternally greatfull to those men.

A guy like slingblade for instance, i personally would have thought that girls would be fighting over him instead of showing him the door, at least you could have tried to understand his point of view and treat him kindly.

But it doesnt matter, leave the real men for girls like me and you stick with the masochistic admirers with gender issues or weird sexualities :)

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Originally Posted by slingblade

Oh i'm sure you do care what a man wants to do Amy... I've watched quite a few of your movies and one good thing I can say about you is that i've never seen you fucking a man.. Even when you're with another ts you're getting fucked, so I venture to say that even though you won't admit it you proabably enjoy being a lady in bed which is how it should be and I doubt you'd be all that comfortable with a guy wanting you to fuck him....

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Even though you are mostly right in regards to me, it doesn't mean I don't respect other people's sexualities. I have also learned to differentiate between someones gender and what they like to do in bed, regardless if it may be feminine or masculine. If I see a really hot girl, I prolly will want to fuck her. But I have to work with what I have and was born with. Its all I got. I don't think I should be ridiculed and told that I'm not really a woman because I don't want to derive myself of pleasure. When it comes to men, I want a man who can fuck me bad like I'm his woman. Its not all clear cut and dry.

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Originally Posted by Birgitta

Some gay friends are very sweet and some even feel sorry.for me, they perhaps would not be if they knew how easy it is to get sex with attractive guys as a ts...

But i dont care for all that, i care for love and love only, then sex is great too! Thats how it works for me. Thats why i appreciate guys deeply that are very straightlike in both character, attitude and sexuality that have the guts to date a tgirl when having to deal with the prejudice.

I also respect men that want us to be woman, in my view those are the one's that truely support me and im eternally greatfull to those men.

A guy like slingblade for instance, i personally would have thought that girls would be fighting over him instead of showing him the door, at least you could have tried to understand his point of view and treat him kindly.

But it doesnt matter, leave the real men for girls like me and you stick with the masochistic admirers with gender issues or weird sexualities :)

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Dont you get tired from your own drama?:dancing:

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Originally Posted by Mayrah

Dont you get tired from your own drama?:dancing:

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if being honest equals being dramatic in your eyes, you still have a lot to learn about life lol

This topic is as stupid as asking "why do lesbians use strap-ons".

It's all about personal opinions and preferences. Nobody's going to change theirs because somebeody doesn't agree. You're not going to convince me that I have to like whisky when I prefer beer.

There is no right or wrong here.

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Originally Posted by Birgitta

But i am saying that i think a guy like slingblade should be treated with more understanding,,,,,

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Seems you managed to turn the world upside down, Birgitta. I would say it's singleblade (and you) who need to show other people a little more understanding.

I am the only and real transbian :rock2

Question: if you don't like shemales using their cocks, then why do you have an interest in shemales at all? I'm legitimately curious, not trying to attack you at all, I do see your point though.