It's getting to that point with me as well. And I treat her like any woman should be treated...with respect.Quote:
Originally Posted by simon13
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It's getting to that point with me as well. And I treat her like any woman should be treated...with respect.Quote:
Originally Posted by simon13
Are you serious? You need to look in the mirror baby you're a beautiful woman that needs to work on your self esteem but beautiful non the less.Quote:
Originally Posted by blonde_sweetheart
I'm sorry, but that sounds like a load of self-loathing bull crappies. I'm not claiming you haven't been through some seriously rough patches, but you're still young. I just don't think you're being fair on yourself coming to the conclusion that you'll remain single the rest of your life.Quote:
Originally Posted by blonde_sweetheart
Everybody gets screwed over. I've been cheated on twice and I couldn't ever put anyone else through that because I know first hand how much that shit sucks. I feel for ya. It seems as though society as a whole has completely given up on the idea of a monogamous relationship, but that's pretty easy to say when you're content staying single. I just don't imagine that contentment is going to last forever.
All guys aren't the same, but I'll give it to you. Most of the guys who would profess an interest in you are chasers with exploitative fetishes. I really can't offer any advise on how to avoid creeps, but that's what you need to learn. Good luck with that, lady. lol.
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Originally Posted by GrimFusion
Relax dude. Did you notice the date on that post? Or the guy who has been resurrecting really old threads like this one all day? All it took was moving to Chicago to cheer her up. She's a real sweetheart IRL.
I wasn't uppity to begin with, and no... I didn't notice the date. I usually just assume that since it's on the front page, it's open discussion.Quote:
Originally Posted by JoePitt
Good to hear, though.
i wish i had a bf... still looking for mister right...sigh.. :-/
I'm sorry that most of the girls on here have had bad experiences with guys. But many guys have had bad experiences with girls. As for me, never dated a tgirl or been with one, but if I choose to so, I would do so without regret or shame. What are people gonna call me.......gay??? Wow, I'm scared. LOL!!
As far as treatment, why would I date someone who I consider a woman and treat them like a man?? or different from how I would treat an ordinary gg?? For BLONDE SWEETHEART no, all men are not all the same you couldn't be further from the truth. As a matter of fact when "I" swim, go out etc, I leave my shirt "on" because I hate the way women look at my body and I never go shirtless in public either. And no I'm not fat,ugly etc. I'm a bodybuilder and in great physical shape, also drug free. It's funny to me because they stand there gawking, waiting like I'm just supposed to show all my goodies; because they assume that men in my physical condition want to show off their six packs. LOL!! I also refuse pathetic female advances in the gym(and I have heard some pathetic advances..... my goodness) it happens quit often, as a matter of fact I'm totally against fraternization in "many" parts of my social life. In short, I involved myself with the opposite sex only when truly necessary and it better be truly necessary.
It's funny, you see these women walking around in those "see more" clothes/shirts etc. With them so tight that their breasts have turned purple and they'd pop a button if they bent over. (Personally, I find this very offensive). Then they have gall to get offended at men when they start acting like "MEN" or when they get ogled or the men want to see them undressed to find out what else is there......??? Most little boys have peeked under a barbie dolls skirt at one time or another. I guess that's why I just stay to myself, who needs that garbage?
I have dated 2 transsexuals and 1 crossdresser
im also looking for a bf/husband always been my dream ;)
I'm in a relationship with a transsexual now, and last month we celebrated our 2 year anniversary. We have our ups and downs just like any other relationship. The main things (in my own opinion) you need in any relationship (Straight, Gay, lesbian, etc....) are:
1. Trust
2. Communication
3. Honesty
4. Respect for each other
The list could go on and on, and in no particular order. But you will never be able to have a long lasting loving relationship if you don't love yourself first. No I'm not talking about being in love with yourself (nobody likes an arrogant, self absorbed, narcissist). I mean if you don't like/love your self how can you expect someone else to. Easy thing to do is look in the mirror, and if you wouldn't date you - why would someone else?
I'm not bashing anybody here either. For and example (if I were single) I'd love to date Alyssa Luxor. I find her to be intelligent, honest, open minded, and very attractive. Then again there are girls on this bored I would not touch with a 10 ft pole.
So just remember the next time your out a a club, a bar, or any where you run into somebody. People aren't pieces meat, a random hole to stick your dick into, some mindless unemotional meat sack for you to get your rocks off on, or walking dollar signs. That goes for all genders. Treat the people they way you want to be treated, and in turn they will treat you the same way. If they don't...fuck 'em and get them out of your life. If you can follow these small simple things aka "common sense" you will be able to look in the mirror like what you see, and then be able to find someone.
Sorry I had to rant on and on like that.
Last post very true. It is all about mutual respect. However if you go to any of the parties in NYC, you see the polar opposite. Men are looked at as fools to be separated from their money and the ladies are treated and act like meat. (Just look at the clothes, or lack there of) No one goes there to meet someone for more than a hook up. I have tried to engage in conversation and get to know the girls and been laughed at and I am a young good looking guy with an established career. The scene is still taboo and underground and that makes it hard for genuine relationships to develop. Anyone interested can contact me.
So . . . why doesn't this thread have any cock pics?
I live with a TS friend
Alexy
Pleeease Ashley. All ts girls want is a rich guy. They are unique and in demand so they use it. I have met many Ts girls and the prettier they are the more they wantQuote:
Originally Posted by blonde_sweetheart
SL
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Originally Posted by susi1045
Code for "I only date super hot rich guys."
Never heard a truer word. The last ts I was seeing was exactly like that, constantly moaning "Why aren't you rich?" "Coz i'm 31 duh!" I'm an architect but thats not good enough it seems. Once she asked how she was different to regular women so I had to say "well they aren't obsessed with money, even the super hot ones." She still refuses to admit obsession with money is a tranny thing.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sexylad09
I'm free :)Quote:
Originally Posted by alyssaluxor
Come out to one of the parties tonight-would love to meet you!Quote:
Originally Posted by susi1045
At the minute I don't have a girlfriend, whether TS or otherwise, unfortunately... :(
As for a TS girlfriend, the one transgirl who makes me go all fizzy inside, well, I'm enough of a realist to realise that it would take a miracle for my dream to come true... :heartbroken::heartbroken:
I've been with a GG for two years now. The screwy deal is that she's far more of a chaser than I am. She's all for donating and having a three-way, and I'm the one saying no. It's just my experience than when you bring a third person into a relationship, even if it is just a sexual deal, it only works to confuse and complicate things.
I know it's a bit off topic, but I thought I'd share.
very true!!! :iagree:Quote:
Originally Posted by yogi2002
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Originally Posted by yogi2002
so sweetie! ill date you in a heartbeat and good fukc after :wiggle:
Alyssa I taught him everything he knows Lol :geek::yingyang:Quote:
Originally Posted by alyssaluxor
ay yo pretty how you do! lol :jerkoff youre such a nerdbomber and need to get out of Texas...Quote:
Originally Posted by bridgetbbyxo
Really......your psychotic if you think you taught me. I have forgotten more than you will ever know.Quote:
Originally Posted by BLKGSXR
Too bad we aren't in the same country :heartbroken:Quote:
Originally Posted by alyssaluxor
If we were though it would be a GREAT FUKC :fuckin: before, :fuckin: during, and :fuckin: after
lol asshole well you are winning the thursday bets >_<:fu:Quote:
Originally Posted by yogi2002
i live with a tgirl and we are very compatible
I was fortunate to have recently been in a relationship with a transgendered girl. It's something that I yearned in my heart of hearts for for over a decade and it finally happened almost by chance..We met at a TS club and clicked instantly..Neither of us were looking for a relationship but it just happened.. She has a regular career, has never been a sex worker, and is a caring and loving person. Being with her has given me a better understanding of the *enormous* challenges that she has had to overcome in her life to be who she is and the courage that it demands. I deeply admire her for that. I've been interested in TGs for many years but never had a regular "non commercial" relationship with a TG before. It's been one of the best experiences of my entire life, and I've experienced the heights of passion with her.
The sad part is that as of last week my work has taken me away from her and we will only be able to see each other very rarely..She is such a good person, and I hope that she will be able to find someone local and have a great life with him.. If I was able to stay, I'm fairly certain that our relationship would have gotten quite serious..
I was always very happy to take here out on the town on normal dates, as she is smoking hot and quite passable.
I'm happy for the time we had together and I'll never forget her!
She's not my girlfriend...but she is my BEST friend...
there is. yepQuote:
Originally Posted by blonde_sweetheart
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Originally Posted by blonde_sweetheart
Nothing like some sarcasim..
I suppose it's time for my story...
5 years ago I joined a dating site, got chatting to a TV and we really hit it off. She lived a good 200 miles away so we we agreed to meet up one weekend and see how thing went but a couple of days before I was due to go down to see her I went on a date with a GG who was frankly horrible. She really knocked me for 6 and I felt pretty terrible for the company I'd kept that night. So while feeling rotten about myself I called the TV and said I could make it due to feeling ill.
A couple of days later I admitted to her I just didn't want to meet her anymore and she was pretty upset(I was still feeling rough about the previous date)
Coupe of months later we'd not spoken. She'd started seeing somone and so had I. Still feeling rotten how I'd treated her I txt'd her to apologise and just try to build bridges. I knew I'd never see her now, but I was just didn't want to let such a wonderful person drift out of my life. So we started keeping in touch and still do now.
She's had relationships that have come and gone and mine of 5 years seems to be sinking like the titanic. We've been in touch pretty much throughout the last few years I've spoken to her about her relationships and she's been a virtual rock through my struggles.
The minute I'm single I want to ask her if she'd want to pick up where we should've been 5 years ago.
A few of questions for you guys.. and my answers.
Q) Do I deserve her?
A) Yes. I Deserve to be happy and if I think we would make each other happy then yes I do deserve her. Vice versa if I can do the same for her then she deserves the same. I just know if we we do become a couple I need to be the most awsome bf ever, and will try to achieve that.
Q)Is this just some fetish.
A)No, if I've wanted to have sex with a TS I'dve paid for it by now.
Q)What happens if to tells me to get fucked(which I'm guessing alot of you want her to do)
A)Thats life. I'l survive.
my thoughts exactlyQuote:
Originally Posted by Wordzy
Yes and i live with her since 7 years.
Alexy
Yup you're right and the only people who have a problem with that are broke guys. Not my type.:)Quote:
Originally Posted by Sexylad09
I have a lady in mind, I just don't believe we'll ever get there.
that's bullshit and you know it. there's plenty of wealthy guys who dont want a girl who's just interested in his money. i'm pretty wealthy but i NEVER show or flaunt it, because i want ppl to like me for who i am, not for what i can buy them. of course i'm willing to pay for all the necessary things in life because i know how hard it can be for a TS to get a regular job (although i know plenty who do have one), but gold digging is really a no-no, also for the wealthy and successful.Quote:
Originally Posted by blonde_sweetheart
as for me, i've always fell from one GG-relationship into the other GG-reationship, so didnt really get a chance yet to get into a relationship with a TS..
but if the opportunity, the timing, and the person would be right, i totally would! in fact i'm kinda starting to look around now as i'm starting to get fed up with my current gf but it's very challenging.
it's just VERY hard to find a TS who has the right balance between being physically attractive (i'm very VERY picky, i just have sensitive eyes lol) and being girlfriend material (because i'm also a sensitive guy on the inside). almost all the beauties with nice personalities are in the adult industry in one way or another, which is fine since i have some very close casual friends who are as well and i totally respect that, but as long as they're doing that, i couldn't start anything serious with such a girl.
so yeah, i think tt's gonna be a long quest...and since i'm not the kind of guy who spends a lot of effort or time 'looking' for someone, i'll probably end up with another GG before i know it..... :violin
started a relationship and it looks promising-MANY attributes that I am attracted to, some concerns but when is that not the case? wish me luck, i'd like to make this work
we got another one:sleepQuote:
Originally Posted by blonde_sweetheart