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Don't want to suck your shecock - but would love fuck you
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Originally Posted by djs
Congrats on your relationship... YOu two look like a great couple
On 25th of November this year I married my wife. She is a pre-op tgirl who may or may not ever have SRS. We are deeply in love. I believe that though many admirers are 'fantasists' there are some who can, and will, make good on the dreams of love in a genuine sense. But they are likely to be the ones who see past the 'girl with a cock' and see a person even if it is a sexy person.Quote:
Originally Posted by Vicki Richter
I signed-up to this site to link with others and share thoughts. I'd like to know what's going on out there too. Admittedly, we both have an interest in some porn but not in the case of endless picture posts.
Congratulations to you and your bride, djs. It gives us all renewed faith in the power of people to find each other. How wonderful it is that yourfamilies were there and supportive. Hope you post wedding pics and then on each anniversary.
Didn't see this thread the first time around. But that may be the wierdest, oddest, sexiest, most romantic thing I've read.
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Originally Posted by Vicki Richter
Dude, thanks for that. I'll remember it for a while.Quote:
Originally Posted by ragendude
I respect women that are not whores. Escorting is merely another term for prostitution. TS girls use it to make money so they can turn themselves into little divas, which in turn lets them charge more for se... Err, I mean escorting. I appreciate the porn, but that's where my lust goes. I reserve love for the women that don't merely put out and are interested in more than simply my pocketbook.
You get from life what you put in. If you focus so much of your life on making yourself look pretty or charging for sex, you'll draw more and more shallow people that only care about that.
Looks matter, I won't deny that, but if that's the only thing you show, it affect how people will treat you.
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Originally Posted by Vicki Richter
I have to say that I have enjoyed your posts over the years Vicki even going back to your yahoo group but this is the stupidest thing I have ever seen. So in-between having and adult website and preforming in porn videos to the point of being named ts-performer of the year and escorting you are really looking for true love like your grandparents supposedly had? You turn yourself into a sex object to make money and now your pissed that guys are only interested in the “fantasy” of having sex with you. Well duh the reality is that you would never be in a relationship with most of your fans who fantasies about you even if they were willing to deal with the shit they would get for openly being in a relationship with a transexual because you like most women wether they are genetic or trans use the word “love” as a code word for what your really looking for which is a provider. You would never consider being in a relationship with a guy who made less than you. Look at the lengths to which you have gone to make money that is what is really important to you. You want some stiff to be a provider for you because you know you cant stay in the business your in forever or if you get srs your income would probably drop. There are plenty of guys who would probably deal with what ever they had to if they had a chance with you or a ts-like you but they know they will never ever get that chance because they will never make enough money for you. Hot chicks like money period. Donald Trump didn’t get all the hot chicks he has been with using his youthful good looks, great hair and wonderful personality NO he is and Old ego maniac with a fucked up comb over who has a lot of money.
Expecting men to want to be in a relationship with any woman now a days is pretty stupid what the hell would we get out of it what benefit is there to a man? You get the expectation of making more money the risk of losing more and paying more in a divorce and getting to only have sex with one women when she will let you.
Forget it Vicki, there are men who like transsexuals and men who don't.Quote:
Originally Posted by Vicki Richter
The men who like them want to have sex with you, want to suck you cock, lick your ass, get fucked by you etc etc but when the sex is over do they want a realtionship with you? Probaly a few but the question is do you want them?
Then there are the men who are not into transsexuals, if they see you at first they might like what they see, maybe some of them will fall in love with you but the minute they find out what you are they are gone.
A good example here is Kelly who was in the Dutch Big Brother, no one knew she was a transsexual, she already made the transition. Ok she is tall over 6 ft but a lot a Dutch women are over 6 ft. In Big Brother she secuded a guy, the kissed in front of the camera and the guy was starting to fall in love with her. But when he found out...game over!!
I know Kelly very well, she lives close to me, she wrote a book about her transsexual life so far. Very very good looking girl but for her finding the right man is like mission impossible.
Kelly is beautiful, but she would tower over me :cry:Quote:
Originally Posted by Kurdy M
Tommy112277
I agree with your sentiments if not your conclusion.
In addition, please get your ass to a dentist and, while you are there, read a book on punctuation, LOL
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She is 6ft1 and that is tall.Quote:
Originally Posted by Kabuki
In her book she describes her childhood were she was disgusted by her penis who only got bigger by the years.
She is a woman born in a wrong body.
Read my post here...Quote:
Originally Posted by Vicki Richter
http://www.hungangels.com/board/view...hlight=#144900
We dated about 4 years, finally broke it off for a variety of reasons...
I was in an airport a few weeks back, waiting for a plane. I had my laptop out and was doing various things, work, surfing, etc.Quote:
Originally Posted by Unisex
So this guy comes by and comments on my laptop. We then start talking about laptops, dual-core processors, Vista the OS, smartphones, VOIP, and a variety of other 'techy' subjects.
We took a break from that for a while, and digressed to travel. We spoke about the countries that we had been to, and that we would like to go to.
We talked non stop for hours. What interested me in particular about this individual is that he was very intelligent, had a great sense of humor, and seemed to be a man of integrity. I found myself feeling giddy as a school girl :oops:
Then yesterday, on a totally different matter I found myself in a Borders bookstore for half the day. I meandered around the various sections, but spent the most time in the technology and travel sections, where I struck up mini conversations with various people.
Then too when I go to trainings, seminars, or conventions, I find many kindred spirits.
My point :roll:
Well, if you are looking for people that you have something in common with, then you should go where they are likely to be. And of course your odds of finding a transwoman in this sea pf people are slim to none. But at least you might meet a person with whom you have common interests.
And when you do meet this person, you most assuredly will need the interpersonal skills to engage them, and perhaps have a LTR result.
From what I have seen of you on this board, you appear to be a intelligent, sweet young man.
If I was a little younger or you a little older we might be talking about some peer to peer networking. :wink: cause you know I ain't down with client - server :lol:
I usually don't comment about these things, because I am one of those "unobtainable" married males who utilize this website for personal gratification, therefore, I am more part of the problem than the solution to this issue. I have had “encounters” with TS women, both escorts and not, but have no desire to “come out” with my love of the TS.Quote:
Originally Posted by Vicki Richter
I do agree, however, that the ability for a TS to find love and a long term relationship is not an easy road. A good percentage of men attracted to TS women are in general “straight” men, and I think that these are also the men that TS women are attracted to as well. Outside of a small group of progressive thinkers, this attraction and/or coupling of a “straight” man and a TS is still considered a “gay” and therefore unacceptable union. A man risks being alienated from family and friends, as well as unaccepted in the business world (depending obviously on his vocation) if he is open about this type of union. This may not be fair, but it is unfortunately still true.
On top of that, the comment on the “Sex Worker” issue is also true. I understand that all women have past relationships, but as Vicki said, only a minute group considers past or current sex outside the relationship a turn on. In fact, to most it would have the opposite effect.
It is difficult for any person to find and sustain a long happy relationship, period. I sympathize with Vicki and all other TS women, because theirs is a longer road than most to find happiness.
To Vicki, in the short time I have been on this forum I think I have developed an appreciation of you as both a sex object and a person. You are everything a man could want in a partner, intelligent, witty, charming, and of course sexy as hell. I hope you find what it is you are looking for and that the man you choose really appreciates the catch he has made.
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Originally Posted by Unisex
:) No darlin', I got 'da digits', I haven't called as I have been very busy.Quote:
All that and you give up your number to him? Sigh....another geek rejected.
Yes that's a good start. And now comes the part about theQuote:
I understand what you mean. I've been to Barnes and Noble @ Prudential and Boarders Downtown Boston. It's very difficult for me to read outdated magazines though (they are outdated with info as they are a month behind internet). Even white women seem to be non-existent in this area for dating. Even the women in my IT department don't seem interested in that. Most of their boyfriends are the "tuff guys". I tried to search around RCC. But, let's just say that is not a place to meet women of interest.
interpersonal skills, the ability to 'schmooze', to commiserate,
this is the part about engaging the woman. What seperates
or differentiates you from the pack. How are you different
from the other men that have hit on her that week. What
about you would make her consider having you in her life.
And when I say 'you', I am not referring to you specifically
but to any man that might read this.
Let me say this: back in the day men had rap, the gift of gab.
Today the young men think 'wassup', or 'yo shawty' will have
panties dropping to the floor. :smh http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l2/magi43/pant22.jpg :smh
Yeah that may work on the 'hood rat', but if you are stepping to a 'classy broad' you better bring your A game.
Well I will concede this, you did score points with that. Very goodQuote:
Why should age matter? It's just a number anyway. There wouldn't be any packets loss once we get the pinging each other. :)
word play, intelligent, witty remark. And yes, I have a weakness
for smart, witty men, but as I have often said there are other
qualities I need in a mate, and these usually only come with life experience.
You need some friends on MySpace 8)Quote:
Originally Posted by Unisex
I hope no one minds me delurking and dredging this topic back up because I was reading it with a lot of personal interest and was thinking about what to say, then the holidays happened. I don't type much online (which is why it took me a while to think about what to say), but here goes...
First of all, for the girls: where do you think you're going to find a successful, happy LTR? A webpage called Hung Angels? Possibly, but is it very likely? The guys here seem like a cross-section of guys in general - some nice, some not-so, but places like this are sex-, not relationship-oriented so it seems like the "all the wrong places" sorta thing.
Ok, so how about the real world. People meet lots of places - supermarkets, clubs, parks, shops, etc. But even if those chance encounters spark the interest to go out, get to know each other, etc, eventually comes The Talk. There are a few guys who, after resuscitation, are able to actually say "Ok, we can work around that", but they are *very* few.
So, where would you expect to meet a potential mate?
Ok, guys: First of all, same question as for the girls. Would you really expect to spark a LTR from a site like this? If not, then where would you look?
2) If you're interested in a relationship with someone here, then you're already narrowing your focus by a physical attribute. People do this all the time by preferring a certain hair colour, breast size, etc, but how would you deal with the fact that the attribute you're focussing on is one many of the women you're interested in are planning on doing away with? Does the "LTR" end with that?
3) I see a number of comments about the guy's possibility of being alienated, or losing friends/family if they find out about their preference. On the other hand, there are some who say that they'd be proud and open about their relationship. For those, how would you react to a relationship with someone who *didn't* want you to be "proud and open" but just as quiet about and protective of her past as she was? Would it be the same? Better? Or is having people know that you're into the "exotic" more important to you?
Anyway, these questions aren't meant to be judgemental, but are ones I have a genuine personal interest in. I'm old and cynical, but I think I'm like some here in that I have hope that there are some happy endings out there someplace. I came across this site by accident a while back, but have hung around since the conversation has often been way above the norm for such things, so would really be interested in your thoughts.
I have been burned so many times not sure I believe in love anymore.
I will be the one wishing and wanting to suck shemale cock, because from being burned I admit I am too chicken to take the chance anymore.
I have been burned so many times not sure I believe in love anymore.
I will be the one wishing and wanting to suck shemale cock, because from being burned I admit I am too chicken to take the chance anymore.
VickiQuote:
Originally Posted by Vicki Richter
This whole thread you started is easily the most poignant, touching thread I've read on this site. I thoroughly enjoy the site but this is a heavy area that really needs to be touched upon. I had several relationships, which were loving, passionate and wonderful -= but always short-lived. I'm reminded of that wall that Travis Bickel runs into, in his own warped mind, where he falls in love with Iris, who is only a teenager just starting her adult street career. She doesn't want to be saved - he wants to save her and there is zero communication but both are hungry for a connection. It's that connection I've found so fulfilling with the beautiful tgirls I've known and that have changed my life. Perhaps one day I will find the right girl and she will find life with me totally satisfying. Bravo, Vicki, for your tres cool post.
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Originally Posted by Vicki Richter
I don’t know why so many guys think t girls only care about money. I seriously don’t care about money, I just want to live a simple life with a man I love.I hope it is not really too hard to find a job as a pre-op. I mean, I really wouldn’t want to get into sex work at all.
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Originally Posted by Arianna
Precisely----and this in part stems from 100,000 years of evolution of men as the hunters in the society--when the hunt was over or a failure the men's minds went to jelly---but during the hunt the senses were keen---a useful adaptation when you need to hunt and catch food for survival. Foodwise, it's useless today--but the vestiges of the adaptation exhibit themselves in men's pursuit of sex---during the hunt--the chase--all keen all attractive--all deceptive to lure the prey...
And then when the prey is caught--or the relationship commences for the purpose of the analogy----mind turns to jelly, peevishness begins---and baby you become the psychiatrist.
Of course this is a simplistic generalization---but 100,000 years of biology cannot simply be dismissed by three decades of progressive thought and the invention of the cellphone.
Hi all
Just to add my penny's worth.
Not all TG girls I have met want money, in fact none of them. I have had 3 relationships with TS's over 18 years and have always found them to be fulfilling and loving. I have never made my partner into something I want them to be, and have accepted and loved them for who they are, not what they look like and they have done likewise, it is a pleasure to find love with someone who shares the same view of life as you do. Sometimes times are good and sometimes not, but the bond of love keeps you together. I have aways been proud of my partner and my family and friends accept the person who shares my life, again looking beyond the actual person and seeing they pleasure the relationship bring to us both.
I have not been on this site long but can see that it doesn't appear what was intended.
I also agree many here seem to be looking for a cheap thrill with posts like how big is yours, who is this person, etc. I guess some people need to grow up a little.
The posts I like reading some may find boring because I am not really interested in seeing pictures of cocks. There is more to a TG girl than her cock, to me it is the person inside that counts the most.
Yes sex is great but there is more to a relationship than sex. The person maybe the greatest lover in the world, but that count for nothing if they are useless at forming and contributing to a relationship.
My previous relationships have always been on equal terms and decisions have been made jointly after careful discussion, never one sided.
So Girls..... us men are not all the same, some of us are looking for friendships on mutual ground, where we can talk about how our days have been, the weather, whats going on in the world. Subjest many may find uninteresting, but life is about sharing the boring things as well as the more interesting
I hope many of the girls here find friendships like that, and if they blosom into something more all the better.
Thats my penny's worth anyway
Take care all
Moon
Great reply and read olite71. And so TRUE! ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by olite71
~Kisses.
HTG
I've never been a part of the whole sex worker world. So i can't make any comments about that. Hell i've never even been to a strip club.
I've gone out with a lot of people.
One thing is for sure: Dating is very difficult.
Not just for me, but for everyone!
There's so many stupid variables and emotion that goes into the whole thing. It's pretty frustrating.
So none of us are alone on that front. Don't ever feel like you're the only person in the world who can't find a decent partner.
I've been looking for the right ts girlfriend for over a year. I haven't found the one yet for a ltr. I'm a fairly young good looking guy who makes a decent living. So I don't think I would have much of a problem. I just need to be sure the one I find isn't in the relationship to use me for my money.
OK, Vicki, Here's your love story. I met Robin about a year ago, when I was still married and living with my wife. We were swingers and so was Robin, so it was just a sex get together. We had a wonderful time, and I became very fond of Robin and kept in touch. In the succeeding months the marriage went south, and so did the wife. Robin came to town to visit me one weekend, then another and another..... We came to be closer and more of a couple very quickly. Next week she is moving in with me and I have asked her to marry me as soon as my divorce is final.Quote:
Originally Posted by Vicki Richter
So, Yes!, there are real love stories out there; not just cock fantasies and pictures. I got the brass ring and feel that I am the luckiest guy in the world.
hey Vicki heres the thang some of us live in small city in no where areas. i mean unless you live in big citys like houston, dallas, Baton Rouge New orleans your kind of fucked. which i'm not really complaining i love living in southwest Louisiana we have the best food and parties