Why is it so hard to start a relationship with a T-girl?

You know ladies, it's nice when a guy is first and foremost attracted to your intellect and chocolate chip cookies...but since except for message boards, we tend to see people before we meet them, it's kind of wishful thinking for many to expect that a guy isn't going to have to be aware or at least fine with
the minor detail that you used to be boys. I understand not wanting to be used for sex, but must you run to the other side of the spectrum and demand that we not care about sex with you at all? Do you think that's the way it works for gg's?
If all the other person's interested in is looks or genitals, obviously then that's not for anyone who wants something deeper. And that goes for us men as well.
Whether it's the personals section of CL or the transgendered dating sites, the customers seem to be the same. Mostly cd's, escorts and cockchasing men.
If you have a deeper need, trashing us men with a bit of knowledge and experience is throwing out the wheat with the chaff.

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Why is it so hard to start a relationship with a T-girl?

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answer: 'cause you need to cross the t AND dot the i.

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Originally Posted by peggygee

Always a good topic to revisit, for even though
there are more than a few who are only
intersted in transwomen for 'fetishitic'
reasons, there are indeed those who are
seeking LTRs. :wink:
http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l2.../stairsex2.jpg

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I'm glad some girls realize that.

That said, it's all about persistence really....well that and living in a place that has more than one t-girl. From there it's a growing process, but realizing you want a real relationship with a transexual is a good start.

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Originally Posted by TomSelis

I'm glad some girls realize that.

That said, it's all about persistence really....well that and living in a place that has more than one t-girl. From there it's a growing process, but realizing you want a real relationship with a transexual is a good start.

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Sort of a rhetorical question, and not really directed to anyone
in particular.

I have heard of a one horse town. :roll:

But I wonder how it must be for the one transwoman in the town.
Is it a good thing for her, because everyone is at her life. Or does
she feel very isolated.

And Tom, I have heard your comment from many men that it is difficult
to meet women in places with few transwomen.

I have lived in relatively small towns, and it was interesting http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l2...ley-faces1.gif
Though I am much more of a city kitty.

What has been other folks experience in a 'one tranny town'?

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Originally Posted by peggygee

Always a good topic to revisit, for even though
there are more than a few who are only
intersted in transwomen for 'fetishitic'
reasons, there are indeed those who are
seeking LTRs. :wink:

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And those of us who are drawn to transwomen for friendship as well as for fulfilling sexual desire. Having celebrated my silver wedding anniversary last year, I am not seeking an LTR (though I would be were I single), but I am always seeking more good friends and am proud to count many transwomen among my friends.

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Originally Posted by Arianna

Imo, it's because most men approach us with too low a level of sexual self-awareness, and plenty of misconceptions about ALL women; both GG and TS.

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So very true, Ari. Well said, indeed.

i had a relationship with a t-girl once and it was pretty sweet. and literally was just like a relationship with any other girl, except i hoped t-girls would be more apt in understanding the inner workings of american football, but to no avail, 'what's the point'' is all i heard when i was watching. but you know what, you just have to treat them and approach them like you would any other person you would want to date. we're all human, we have the same emotions regardless of our physical shell.

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Originally Posted by Ecstatic

And those of us who are drawn to transwomen for friendship as well as for fulfilling sexual desire. Having celebrated my silver wedding anniversary last year, I am not seeking an LTR (though I would be were I single), but I am always seeking more good friends and am proud to count many transwomen among my friends.

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My problem is that of the girls I know, I got too many friends and no lovers. :banghead :censor :thumbsdown :crap :angry :cry: :crazy :violin :boring :anon :| :smh :frustrated :smoking

Trogdor, you need friends with benefits!! (Or at least friends who also escort, so you can have it both ways with them for a fee....)

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Originally Posted by Ecstatic

Trogdor, you need friends with benefits!! (Or at least friends who also escort, so you can have it both ways with them for a fee....)

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No such thing over here as friends with benefits in the midwest, dude. You even HINT at such a thing, and the girls are gonna write "Men are pigs!!!!" on the street in man blood, and usually the blood of the man who suggested it, if they did not crucify him yet that is :roll:. Cause in the midwest, especially in Michigan, the only hot chicks that are not disgustingly monogumus or taken are the ones that will not let you even touch them untill you put a ring on their finger. :roll:

:arrow: And I'd prefer not to look for an escort, having to pay for sex ain't my thing, makes me feel like Bud Bundy or something, ya dig?

I'd rather spend several hundred dollars on something like a nice TV, a year of kick-boxing classes, a vintage Pac-Man arcade machine, or whatever.......least I'll have something to say for afterwords. :P

i took kickboxing, then a female crippled midget attempted to steal my wallet and i figured i shouldn't use my skills. the moral quandry sent me to the psych ward