WORKING GIRLS AND WHY

People tend to jude base on personal experiences and their idea of who and what we represend. We should know that u can judge a group base on what they do and how they are as a whole, but where individuality and characteristic comes in, it evolve into something very complex.

there are posts of world hunger and suffering and that we should do better, know better, work harder while on our knees with the wrath of society. we can not compare what we are going through to other misfortunes in the world. This is a war of emotional surviving struggle and matters of the heart.
(in regards to this subject of suffering..all guys that had seen and supported me...sleep well...some of your money did not just go to my shoes, clothes, bags or surgery. we, together been donating a lot toward a peace temple in cambodia as well as a school to educate a couple of the local villages...)

i'm writing this now at an airport after a night of crying myself to sleep. I met a man. Something about him and the way he stare into my eyes. It touch my soul. His heart, his tender touch, his gentle eyes...So I let my guard down and fell for him. I would stop this industry to be with him and I told him. Not because i think that it's wrong, but rather i understand how he feels about it and what i wouldn't do for the person i love. I was gonna look for a job when i get home. I already paid and sign up for school. we're gonna work hard a couple years, save up some money and he was gonna build me a hut in the east asia somewhere...

lots of luck to you Yasmin. I'm glad something positive happened to you on your trip to New York. drop into HA every so often and let us know how you're doing.

I don't see escorting as a good option either but some REALLY don't have very many choices! Just because their are laws that protect against descrimination doesn't mean companies won't still do it and get away with it! My girl works a pretty good job on top of me giving her money(I fortunately have a lot) and even though she has friends and people who support and understand her at work, her supervisors and bosses hate on her every chance they get. They make her use a "special" restroom cause she not a woman so they don't want her in there and she's not a man and refuses to use the men's restroom she give a "special" one on the "other" side of the company, plus the pay CLOSE attention to everything she does that's not up to company standards while other get leeway! She would have quit a long time ago if it wasn't for my support, and that's at mostly every "good" job she's had! So can you blame them for wanting to escort? Plus YOU ARE THE GUYS WHO SUPPORT THIS "AWFUL" LINE OF WORK!! How many times on this forum have guys asked how much Yasmin or other girls charge per hour? How many times have you seen them say they'd pay anything to get fucked by them or suck them til they'd cum in their mouth? Then those are the same who don't like what they do for a living! Why wouldn't she want to make that 2g's off of you for a couple of hours of fullfilling "your fantasy"! What are you going to do..sweep her off of her feet and take her home to meet moms...NO! You all can force feed that world hunger shit down their throats all you want...it's not going to make their strugle any better! Everyone has their own strugle..my black people are still tryna rise to the top... so we sell drugs and hustle in these ghetto ass streets!

Good luck Yasmin and everybody else who's struggling to make a better life for yourself!

I wish people could see beyond what we look like and what we were and so on and see how strong of a person it takes to be a transsexual! It is such a difficult thing to find that you are in the wrong body and mislabeled for being what you feel inside. I feel in so many ways noone can ever understand what it is to be us. To suffer everyday for just being who you are. People can say alot about people in porn or people who escort and guess what even the most normal t-girls with 9-5 jobs still have stuff said about them. But as i told Yasmine in very serious conversation yesterday, 95.9% of the world people are screwed-up and they are the ones that are tring to tell you how to run your life. I decided along time ago that only have one person in this world i can count on and i see her in the mirror everyday. Love will come and go, looks will come and go as well, but you will still have to deal with yourself in the end.

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Current American labor laws prohibit employers from discriminating against employees on the basis of their sexual orientations...

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Yet it does not stop them from doing so. One of the most blatant cases was Cracker Barrell, which had its anti-gay hiring policy clearly stated in writing. The fines and lawsuits didn't do shit and it went as high as the annual meeting where several proxy wars ensued.

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Here's something I read the other day, that I thought was pretty awesome.
http://blog.myspace.com/index.cfm?fu...5-be00f2bbe084

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That's all very Buddhist. Apart from the organized collective behaviors of wasting tremendous wealth throughout history to build giant temples, Buddha statues covered in gold and gems while people are dying on the streets, Buddhism is the most tolerate, least evil regilion of all. That's why the Thais are more relaxed towards Ladyboys. "You a man but want to be a woman? Poor thing. It's not the fault of 'the current' you. You must have done something wrong in your past life. Be nice this life and you won't be a ladyboy next life. Good luck. Poor thing..." That's the attitude. Now we are talking! Now let's all go to Thailand and party with happy ladyboys who want to be nice so that they won't be born into the wrong bodies next time... By the way, there aren't not so much social stigma associated with prositution either - it support a huge pillar of the country's economy any how. Respect for the whores for bringing in so much money for the family and the country.

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Current American labor laws prohibit employers from discriminating against employees on the basis of their sexual orientations...

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Yet it does not stop them from doing so. One of the most blatant cases was Cracker Barrell, which had its anti-gay hiring policy clearly stated in writing. The fines and lawsuits didn't do shit and it went as high as the annual meeting where several proxy wars ensued.

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And there is no law to protect the stereotypical McDonald workers. "Juan you are too slow! You are fired right now!" And Juan can't do nothing about it. We are talking about putting things in perspective here; we are not talking about that the world is so unfair, there are laws that people won't abide by - it's a given that the world is screwed up like this. Some people fight and gain their rights eventually, like the gay people; some people choose to whine and go escorting, like the transsexuals.

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By the way, there aren't not so much social stigma associated with prositution either - it support a huge pillar of the country's economy any how. Respect for the whores for bringing in so much money for the family and the country.

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In this country, our laws turn the world's oldest profession into an ineffective witch-hunt. Yet, ironically, sanctimonious people socially whore themselves shamelessly all the time. ;)

Imagine what a happier place the world would be if we could all just get laid properly? Beautiful women are high maintainence... Is this something new?! Well, big newsflash; beautiful TS's are even MORE SO!

It's the world's backwards attitudes and closeted sexual hangups that make prosititution a potentially seedy industry.

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Co-sign!
My proposal: All global citizens between the ages of 18 and 81 regardless races, sexes or religion beliefs shall be at completely free will to participate in prositution or become a prositution provider. Any discriminative behaviors against prositution will be prosecuted by law. All prositution providers shall be qualified and licensed by international prositution committee following set global standards. Qualifications for prositution providers are as follows:
a: complete 3 months course of reproductive system anatomy, hygiene, and contagious diseases courses.
b: pass the "prositution STD physical exam" that is held once every 3 months.
c: prositution industry shall comply to all WTO free trade treaties and terms. price fixing, exploitation, or "dumping", shall be subject to international investigations and country or region involved shall be economically politically sanctioned accordingly.
d: providers can be incorporated and manager-managed, but pimping behavior is strictly prohibited and will be prosecuted by law.
e: international prostitution committee holds global fairs and events to promote healthy sex and better sex. it is the industrys mission to do so.
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anybody has any additions? i will be able to come up with more after my nap :wink:

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Originally Posted by BeardedOne

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Current American labor laws prohibit employers from discriminating against employees on the basis of their sexual orientations...

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Yet it does not stop them from doing so. One of the most blatant cases was Cracker Barrell, which had its anti-gay hiring policy clearly stated in writing. The fines and lawsuits didn't do shit and it went as high as the annual meeting where several proxy wars ensued.

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And there is no law to protect the stereotypical McDonald workers. "Juan you are too slow! You are fired right now!" And Juan can't do nothing about it. We are talking about putting things in perspective here; we are not talking about that the world is so unfair, there are laws that people won't abide by - it's a given that the world is screwed up like this. Some people fight and gain their rights eventually, like the gay people; some people choose to whine and go escorting, like the transsexuals.

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What a lame blanket statement that is. You're talking out of your ass. There are far more gay cruisers in parks and rest stops than there are TS's. And THAT is the low-end side of prostitution; the type of solicitations that attract drugs and violence. But what two consenting adults agree to, privately, is no one's goddamn business.

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You are talking out of your ASS. Percentage wise, i have yet to find any one of my gay acquantances that has done any escorting while most of trannies that i eihter personally know or know of from my social network has done some kind of prositution. Honey it's a fact that was repeately mentioned here by other members as well that a disproportionally large percetage of transsexual community involves in prositution. Hey if it's between two consenting adults, I didn't say it's not good. It gets you what you want most, kudo to you - I'm repeating what I said here. I have nothing against it. But don't whine "oh I'm a victim of cirsumstances", or show it off as if it were the most glorious choice you can make in your life either. There is really more glorious things in life than that. If you love it, good for you. If you don't like it, quit it!

Unless the whole united states is converted to Thai Buddhism, large percentage of prositution in any particular demographic group only causes sense of degradation and more social stigma towards that group. Nothing wrong with prositution in my opinion - let me repeat it, but if you want to fight for respect and general improvement of your social-economical status in this country, or any country other than a few, prositution is hardly hardly the way to go. That's what I am saying here. In a perfect world, everybody should be able to be with a prositute, or be a prositute, freely, but under proper health and hygiene regulations! I wonder how the market demand/supply mechanism will affect the prices in that case though :wink: