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Okcupid and transgenderdate seem to be the best IMO.
Transgenderdate is pretty bad though....most guys don't even fill out their profile (which means I don't bother replying).
I think I tend to run into more guys I would more likely date just through networking for work though (facebook or other places like that).
In reply to ts red vex(I forgt to include the quote where you said those of is on sites have no lives) I believe you and Kevin dong share this view. However take time to consider some if us who are really "passable" ( I hate that word it's like it discredits any trans woman who didn't hit the genetic lotto or opt for surgery) but yes some of us who are passable don't want to have the conversation with someone we are interested in about the fact we have a wierner. I an an introvert. An INFP personality type. I don't go to clubs and I don't like be hit on by strangers.
In my expierence these dating sites can be nice in the sense that it takes away the need for the "I have a wierner" talk. And on transgender date your can even choose to state weather you are a top bottom or versatile. That can also be awkward wen trying to date the conventional way, imagine u meet a Man U like him and a few dates in you find out he's a big ole bottom and so are you.
So say what u want about those of is on these sites. Say we hve no lives if you feel the need to do so. But just know you would be wrong in your assumptions.
For the rest of you interested in these sites they aren't so bad. The amounts of messages you may get from people so far away can be daunting. But sometimes there's a team diamond hidden among the riff raff.
"Behind every good man is a great woman. Unless he's a bottom. That's too literal for me."
I am not saying the sites are bad in general, only that it's just about what you are really after and that the sites are a waste of time if you ask me. As the saying goes: "All roads lead to Rome" and aparently I choose one that's not being attended by many these days...
In response to Steven...I have no idea what you mean in your statement "We've a white label at Tlovers.com which we've had a lot to do with the designing and terminology"
How can one call it a dating site and yet have actual models from Porn Sites right on the front sign up page? Sienna Grace isn't looking to date anyone, she has a boyfriend already. So with that right there, I call shenanigans lol. Maybe if they put actual "REAL" singles as the cover models for the site, it would be more believable, and hence get more signups..
okcupid.com.....
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Originally Posted by Ts RedVeX
After having seen your profile pictures I believe that is a major loss for the "many" cause you are absolutely stunningly beautiful. Good fortune to you RedVex and to you also aUnicorn may you both find whatever it is that you are seeking.
Thanx but if my looks is all that any of "the many" are after, they might as well hire a local girl for a date.
I don't imagine looks are all you have to offer - judging by your posts here I'd say you also have intelligence, wit and charm - these are qualities that for me at least surpass physical beautyQuote:
Originally Posted by Ts RedVeX
In my experience with TSDating I found it quite disturbing that most of there "trans members" are man hating transvestites. They abuse guys and lower there self esteem on the TSDating forum.
Just my advise, stay away from TSDating.com
Like I said when they first brought it up.... if you want to attract non sex working trans women (or those who dress up just for kink), then you need to make the site look "normal" and not overly sexualized.Quote:
Originally Posted by ashlyn
The landing page on TSDating.com has half naked porn stars and sexual expressions...that is going to send any non sex working trans woman running away (finding a guy who wants to just hook up isn't hard, but for a DATING site, they want a different message).
That, or rename the site "TSHookup" to be more accurate.
Trans woman grow extremely tired with the creepy types of guys who just want to have sex. If they wanted that, they would go be escorts and make some money off it at least. They want a site that promotes actual decent dating behaviour (like normal hello message...or being asked on dates, instead of asking to "hang out" at their place).
My guess is the guys on that website have (at most) headless pictures right? That should tell you what type of guys are joining and what type of site they think it is...and what types of girls are joining as well.