We all pay in one way or another....
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We all pay in one way or another....
Well I pay for dentistry, I guess I could do it myself. I take golf lessons which seems OK with us. We are taught everything in life except probably the most important thing for our happiness - sex, romance, and relationships. There we don't even get a decent instruction book.
I'm in my late 50's, have paid for sex for 10 years, best thing I ever did. I used it as a tool, my friends were 90% male before, now 80% female. OK now I have a mix of hourly rental and lease (mistress &/or girlfriends), I long ago did the Own thing - I still can't seen to get anyone to take it off my hands, even though she lives 3,000 miles away.
The variety is good for me, hourly rental as they are paid to go away at the end actually is quite good. Leases have some hassle, but no complaints. The Own thing should only be to have kids (and grandkids). They all have costs
Provider < Dating < Girlfriend << Mistress << Fiancee << Wife <<<<<<< Ex wife.
The Ex wife has a very high cost /performance ratio - no sex but you are really fucked.
There are some very nice people that provide, it can be a good career. Just with Tgirls, I have met 3 already that I am friends with and am glad to call them my friend.
yes. Why?
- It's easy sex
- It's fun, and sex is fun
- I usually have money left over every month after bills, utilities, savings, etc. that needs to be used up lol..
I don't see it as "immoral" (morals don't exist IMO, anything goes in this life), though if they don't find me attractive who cares? they are offering a service, i am paying. It's a misconception anyhow that only men who are bad looking and can't get dates pay for it. It's no more immoral IMO than buying a loaf of bread or a cinema ticket. to say it cheapens sex is bullshit, since friends with benefits is just sex for pleasure is it not? lol...
I haven't up to this point in my life, in general I subscribe to the George Costanza theory - "Why should I pay for it when if I apply myself, I might get it for free."
That said, I have zero problem with it and have been considering taking the plunge for awhile now...
Yes ive paid for male escort and no problem with it.
Ive also tipped massage guys who suck my cock lol
I dont feel anything wrong with it i even feel good that im having fun and helping someone with financial needs for their life
:salad do you pay for salade ?:mad:Quote:
Originally Posted by Dino Velvet
I think Charley Sheen may have said it best when asked about paying for prostitutes ... "I don't pay women to have sex with me ... I pay them to go away after I'm done."
I guess it depends on your perspective :-)
I haven't paid for sex, but wouldn't be necessarily opposed to doing it. We've all paid for porn at one point, which is really the same thing. Only difference is now we get to participate.
And if someone wants to offer their services at a reasonable rate for a guy like me who wouldn't have a shot with them otherwise, then what's the hurt? As long as its safe, and consensual then have fun. People have sex for much more awful reasons than to make money.
If its a pornstar escorting as well, then think of it like the ultimate 'fan service.' Way more rememberable than an autograph or one of those staged photo ops.
I used to pay... as most of us according to the previous posts ;-)
I only paid for TS escorts - never for GG's - as this is the only way to reach quality in terms of good looking and "service"... though I've always tried to consider my relationships with escorts as "regular dates" implying respect and, as much as possible, pleasure sharing.
I do not pay anymore mostly due to increasing fares... my wallets really did thank me !
I never had any moral problems with this but maybe I've no moral at all !!
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Originally Posted by alyssaluxor
Yeeeaaaahhhh!!!! Bow Chicka wow wow.
Sounds like a great porno I would want to see.
Small girl comes in gets a massage from a guy. Guy has no idea. He finds out and after some initial hesitation blows her.
She busts a nut in his face and pays him and kicks him out of her hotel room.
When are you coming to the US??????