We're Not Gay And We're Not Straight

The way I look at it is I gave up trying to figure it out because it really didn't matter. Those are labels. As far as I am concerned if you are with someone and you are happy then the rest doesn't matter. My gf and I have discussed this and we finally said f*** it and live our lives the way we want to without trying to figure out what I am. Her transition journey would be a much heavier trip than anything I could come up with. Just my thoughts.

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Originally Posted by Ms.Stepford

Anytime!

So what's not straight about how you see the curve of my waist to my ass and want to fuck me?

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Nothing...but I would want to give you head first...

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Originally Posted by Tim&Erin

The way I look at it is I gave up trying to figure it out because it really didn't matter. Those are labels. As far as I am concerned if you are with someone and you are happy then the rest doesn't matter. My gf and I have discussed this and we finally said f*** it and live our lives the way we want to without trying to figure out what I am. Her transition journey would be a much heavier trip than anything I could come up with. Just my thoughts.

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i think that's a great way to live, but i'm just curious: what do you write when you get forums that request your orientation? do you just write "i don't care what i am" or something like that?

So if a woman has an enlarged clitoris (like 2 to 3 inches) is going down on her gay?
If you have vaginal sex with a trans man is that heterosexual?
If your gg partner fucks you with a strap on what's that?
Or if your gg girlfriend is intersexed with a vaginia but has testicles internally?
You see how stupid shit like this is smh

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Originally Posted by nysprod

Nothing...but I would want to give you head first...

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Nothing wrong with a gentleman making a lady happy ;)

Actually never had that happen. This is the only one I am on. Good question though. If they had a box for whatever I would hit that one. Lol

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Originally Posted by bluesoul

i don't think gay means you are interested in male persona. there are actually many types of gay identities such as bears, twinks, effeminate/flamboyant or gay guys that look/act straight (i.e. you'd never know).

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Yes, but they all personify as male.

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Originally Posted by bluesoul

being gay means you're attracted to someone with the same sex or gender as yourself.

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Exactly my point...TGirls are not the same sex or gender as me (us). I (we) are unquestionably male.

We are unisex:banana:

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Originally Posted by Ms.Stepford

Nothing wrong with a gentleman making a lady happy ;)

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Oh, don't get me wrong...I'm quite happy with myself and where I am...

Asked of me "Ed are ya gay?"

Me: "If you knew everything I have done you would run screaming....I am a damned sight beyond gay"

I ain't gay but I sure as hell ain't straight!