Why are you single?

1.) Because studying and graduating college is more important than having a realationship to me.

2.) About 4 years.

3.)People here seem to be more respectful of ones feelings and preferences. ( i.e. more excepting)

4.)Probably not, but again I'm not really seeking unless that speacial some one comes along. :roll:

5.)N/A

6.)See number 4, second part.

7.)Not really, I come here to hang out, most people here are cool.

8.)Wait for that someone to approach me.

To be frank, I'm 22, got dicked over really bad by my highschool sweetheart, currently studying Electrical Engineering with a Physics minor so I really don't have time to dedicate to a realationship. Currently with the help of you guys I can determine whether to renew my hope in biological females or to act on my true feelings thus remaining a part of this site. :?

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Originally Posted by Unisex

TTT for Hara.

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Thanks Mike! :wink:

~Kisses.

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Why are you single?

Im wondering how many people on here can answer these question honestly:

1. Why are you single? (If you're attached, in a relationship or is married..then the question would be: Are you happily married or happy with your current relationship?)

Well, I often had bad luck with girls. Lots of the girls in Michigan are either rednecks, thugs, religious nuts or men-hating lesbians. When I do find a girl I like and ask em out, most of the time it's the "Ohh, why can't we just stay friends? I'd hate to ruin what we have now." and other smeg. So I often get put into the dreaded 'friends zone". Maybe cause I'm a nice guy and not some beer drinking, shit talking asshole with a criminal record. The girls around here pretty much want their bad boys, and if they treat the girls like crap, the girls keep comming back for more, like a beaten wife does. Whitney Houstan syndrome I guess one could call it. :roll:

I guess I also got soem bad luck, since when I DO meet a girl who digs me like I dig them, SOMETHING always happened; a cute goth girl I was dating and vanished with her entire family, new people in the house, her cell was disconnected, and her pager # was no longer in service. And she did not even tell me before hand. Plus some girls I was about to date would stab me in the back at the last second. One girl I knew in Georgia did that, we were planning to see each other after knowing each other for 4 years. Two weeks before I Was gonnago down to see her, I find out she shacked up with some asshole from the Army. And she did not even tell me this before hand, I had to work my way through and around conversation to do it. :frustrated So anyway, lots of times it pretty much bad luck or the chick ends up treating me like used chewing tobaco. :violin

2. How long have you been single? (If you're attached, in a relationship or is married..then the question would be: How long have you been in a relationship or have been married?)

Pretty much since 2000.

3. What are you seeking out on here (online or in real time)? If married or attached and in a relationship..What then seems to be lacking in your present relationship as the case may be?

Looking for a hot lil babe who knows how to have fun, I don't wanna be with some chick who looks, acts and dresses like she was raised by a nun, I don't want the Leave it to Beaver kinda thing :P I want someone who looks good, has a good time, ain't a prude and such. :peanutbutter


4. Do you think you'll ever find what you're seeking for within a few months to a year (timeframe) from now?


I have no idea. It's possible. :fc


5. If you've answered YES to No.4, How do you plan to go abouts finding what you are looking for?


See somone who gets my attention and start talking I guess. :shrug


7. Would you invest alot of your time on here (Online or in real time), money and what not to find it

Yep, I would.

Q1: Ok I think I am single, because my last girlfriend was never happy with anything she had, and could never make up her mind as to what she wanted to have or indeed be. Its very hard to be the person someone wants in their life, if that person is unsure of what they want, at one stage to please her I would have had to, stay at home all the time being creative, while holding down a well paying full-time job, be beside her at all times, while going it alone in developing new interests hobbies and friends, I should also have been a sensitive animal, and be a 5'2" sixfooter, I didn't mind trying, but the fact that she thought these conflicting demands were reasonable, well... Im single now...

Q2: I have been single for about two years

Q3: Well I always wanted to meet, a fully passable girl, that nobody would ever think was transgendered, because I like the idea that 'only the two of us would know' I know this is probably impossible, but a boy(lol) can dream.

Q4: I do not think I will ever find what I am looking for...

Q6: well I guess I am just not that lucky...


Q8: I am not inclined to spend too much time looking online, I am one of those that still has a suspicion and mistrust in online relationships, but I am trying to get over it..

~Bump! LOL. More please..;)

~Kisses.

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1. I am single because I thought I wanted to be. I had the best ts girlfriend ever, but I left her to be single (probably the dumbest thing I ever did). The problem was that she is post-op and I really wanted to find a pre-op girl (stupid huh).

2. I have been single for about 3 months now.

3. Just looking at the beautiful girls here. You never know, maybe I'll meete someone.

4. I hope to find what I am looking for within the next few months (or I'll go crawling back to my ex and beg her to take me back, but if she is smart she will just tell me to fuck off LOL).

5. Online dating (although that can be tough when you are looking for a ts girl). Clubs, social events (mostly gay social events like gay pride) etc...

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7. I do invest a lot of time and money looking for that special girl.

One more thing.... Are you single Hara Juku Tgirl? ;)

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Originally Posted by dan_drade

One more thing.... Are you single Hara Juku Tgirl? ;)

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Yes I am dan_drade..For over 3 years now actually. LOL No..Not by any shortage of men (I have alot of admirers and offers) but due to a few past bad experiences (one for 3 years - He was a recurring alcoholic and one for 2 years - He does drugs..i.e painkillers and cocaine)..I've decided put off dating guys for awhile (Im not hating men..I still like men but ofcourse!). Just simply dont want to go thru those BS again (theyre not my problems in the first place but theirs anyways). So you could say that Im enjoying life as a single T-woman. There are no restrictions, no curfews, noone farting near me or inside my room, no one literally telling me what I should and shouldnt do! What could be better?!? LOL :wink:

~Kisses.

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Originally Posted by Hara_Juku Tgirl

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Originally Posted by dan_drade

One more thing.... Are you single Hara Juku Tgirl? ;)

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Yes I am dan_drade..For over 3 years now actually. LOL No..Not by any shortage of men (I have alot of admirers and offers) but due to a few past bad experiences (one for 3 years - He was a recurring alcoholic and one for 2 years - He does drugs..i.e painkillers and cocaine)..I've decided put off dating guys for awhile (Im not hating men..I still like men but ofcourse!). Just simply dont want to go thru those BS again (theyre not my problems in the first place but theirs anyways). So you could say that Im enjoying life as a single T-woman. There are no restrictions, no curfews, noone farting near me or inside my room, no one literally telling me what I should and shouldnt do! What could be better?!? LOL :wink:

~Kisses.

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Don't hate sweetie :) LOL. I guess I can underestand you being single especially after a couple of bad trips. I too am sisngle for some of the very same reasons as you (but I do miss having a girl fart for me LOL).
And wow, I just saw some of your pics, you are a very beautiful woman.

I really should be getting to bed since im working tomorrow. LOL. My eyes are tired but my mind is still worked up. So anyways, going back to the topic at hand..Im not hating! LOL I just am taking my time and being cautious. I know I said this the last time and I ended up dating the druggie. LOL

But thanks for understanding where Im coming from and also for the compliment. :oops:

~Kisses.

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Originally Posted by Hara_Juku Tgirl

I really should be getting to bed since im working tomorrow. LOL. My eyes are tired but my mind is still worked up. So anyways, going back to the topic at hand..Im not hating! LOL I just am taking my time and being cautious. I know I said this the last time and I ended up dating the druggie. LOL

But thanks for understanding where Im coming from and also for the compliment. :oops:

~Kisses.

HTG

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I am going to sleep too. It's 1:30 in the morning. You have a great evening and a great weekend.
Oh, and if you start dating again, just find a good guy (like me!!! LOL).