Why does this still feel "Unnatural"?

Get over it!

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Originally Posted by trish

We are all of us part of nature. We are just one piece of the natural world. There is nothing else. Everything we do is natural. Everything. When people who understand this make the distinction between natural and otherwise they are usually alluding to the distinction between wild and domestic. I suggest that when you say that it feels "unnatural" you mean it feels civilized; something that is only done in domesticated societies. Sure enough without civilization the treatments and surgeries that make transgenders possible would be non-existent (outside the world of amphibians that is :) ). Welcome to modern civilization. Hope you're able to acclimate without too much difficulty.

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:Bowdown::Bowdown: Tell the truth!!

I never got people who felt 'guilty' for being turned on TGs. It's about the same as those folks who feel guilty about masturbating.

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Originally Posted by giovanni_hotel

You have hangups if you feel guilty for being sexually intimate with a TG. A therapist IMO isn't going to make it feel more 'natural' for you. Either it's something you can accept and feel comfortable about or it's not.

Your hangups IMO are really about what OTHERS have told you is 'right' or 'wrong' to do sexually. You've got too many people in the bedroom.
TGs are most of all PEOPLE. Forget focusing on just the sex. The more comfortable you are with the person in your bed, the less you'll be caught up by what others on the outside think.

Yes someone is going to call you a faggot in denial. Goes with the territory.
Time to grow up.

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Well said! Allowing others to dictate who and what you are leads to self-destruction.

it only feels "unnatural" because you're letting what others think affect you. Live for yourself!

Just because it is not natural, that does not mean it is a bad thing. There's nothing natural about wearing clothing, taking a bath, brushing your teeth, cooking food, wearing glasses, having an annual doctor's checkup, living under a roof, drinking filtered water, typing on a laptop, or watching television. Most of what we live in nowadays is not natural, but not necessarily a bad thing. Probably only some of the most isolated animals live in an all natural way.

You are not alone. I once had similar feelings. I wanted to block the attraction to TS women. I was lying to myself. I deleted all of my TS porn and tried to avoid going back to it. In a matter of days I went back to it and never looked back. It's apart of me. It's who I am. I enjoy TS porn and would like to experience sex with a beautiful TS woman. I've happily accepted it and embraced it.

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Originally Posted by Flaco

I honestly don't think it has anything to do with Parents, society or religion. If I truly wanted something and I felt it was right to have it, I wouldn't let anything stop me from getting it. I'm just a conflicted individual, there's a part of me that thinks Transwomen are fascinating, beautiful women (They are). And there's another part of me deep inside that feels like it's very wrong for me to partake in that kind of lifestyle. And that's why the whole thing feels like a dilemma to me. Something I find funny is that people say once you discover Transwomen you can't go back? But I wasn't born liking Transwomen though, If I was then it would be a different story. I was born liking Genetic Women and Vagina. Discovering Transwomen led to those feelings reducing but they never went away and never will go away.

I honestly think I will really consider therapy on this issue because I'm just tired of the war that goes on in my mind almost daily because of this. Thanks to everyone though for your opinions and support.

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Franklin has the right attitude towards this, Flaco. Before paying someone 75 to 125 dollars for listening to you for 45 minutes every week if not twice a week, why don’t you just start by taking a break? Just stop watching ts porn altogether for a while. Take some distance to reflect. Make a pause. You will see much better after, with a little perspective, no matter what the problem is. Don’t even come to this site for a while. Clean your environment from any mention of the subject if you can. Try to completely forget about it.
Start by freeing yourself of the dilemma and things will appear much more clearly eventually.

Life's too short to worry about this stuff!

You like what you like - it's not really anyone else's business...

Hey everyone, I took a short break from the site to get my mind right. I'm doing ok for the most part now, still confused and angry about a few things but I think i'll be ok. Anyway thanks to everyone for the support

i read your threats and you seems like your a quite stupid idiot kid that needs to mature ... XO