I view t-girls as women. They act like women....well...i guess all the ones *IM* attracted to do, they look like women, and they want to be treated like women.
No real man has is insecure about committing, unless his girl gives him reason too.
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I view t-girls as women. They act like women....well...i guess all the ones *IM* attracted to do, they look like women, and they want to be treated like women.
No real man has is insecure about committing, unless his girl gives him reason too.
I have an Aussie friend who refers to all my models as "Blokes trying to fool him"..He is a bright guy,very opinionated,and not nearly a day goes by when my involvement in the TG community doesnt come up (or my sexuality etc... as well)
As has been said by Hondarobot,most common ham and eggers think of TS as gay men.They think of me (a very straight TS admirer) as a gay man...hell my own dad thinks im gay,but he's a bozo so who cares.
For me,I view TS as women,assuming they live 24/7 as women.Plain and simple,whats between your legs isnt the only thing that makes you fit a gender identity.
If I meet a p/t dresser,TV or female impersonator,and he prefers to be called a "she" or referred to by his alter-ego's female name,out of respect for him I will do so to his face,when in his female form.However iin referring to him in conversation he will be a he,in my eyes at least,until he decides to go f/t or not.
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Originally Posted by hondarobot
As far as my avatar goes, ummm this is HungAngels a sitededicated to Shemale porn, and duh I am in the adult industry, so my presence here would represent that. Does that mean I have to be juged by my occupation 24/7? And yes I am a transexual girl I knowthis but the key word is "girl" does a dick define a man. All it takes is a dick to make you a man? Is that what ur saying? I think not. Takes a whole lot more to be a real man than a penis baby.
All Im saying is I want to be treated how I carry myself, and thats every inch a lady baby. Im not worried about labels or being judged, most transexuals arent, that carfreeness is what gives us the courage to live a women in society. U tink if i cared about being judged id have made it this far as a TS? You try it, and see if u could make it, didnt u post once that u were a girl or something? Or wanted to be?
Anyway im not debating just sating my opinon, this has always been a place where i could get sum POSITIVE feed back, and the answers that i needed.
Thanx everyone for your replies.
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Jade, I view you as being 100% woman. But a TS woman. I don't like living in fantasy land anymore then I have to, and working in a GLBT club leads to a lot of goofy thinking.
I really do find this a great topic. I don't fully understand the TS thing, but I've worked with, partied with, and just hung out with more TS girls then most people on this board. I myself am one chromosome away from being a girl, and I'd be a pretty fricken hot girl (I'm just saying), I'm right in the middle of things as far as gender is concerned, but not TS myself.
Everytime a honest examination of this topic comes up, people start to get defensive.
I'm just curious like everyone else, trying to figure things out.
For what it's worth, I think we all enjoy your posts. They tend to be interesting, offbeat, and heartfelt. So far as your beginning question in this thread is concerned, I think it's all about the man you chose. The guy you mentioned sounds insecure and uncertain. Seriously, if you look like a woman, comport yourself like a woman, and feel like a woman, then that should be enough for him.Quote:
Originally Posted by SexxxyJade
Speaking for myself, the only transexuals that I think of as men are those few who act like men (trying to be all gangsta, etc.). The rest are women.
-Quinn
First and foremost- when someone disrespects you, you must stand up for yourself. It seems like this person was doing it on purpose-and to be ignorant on purpose is almost completely unforgiveable.
People in life will percieve in many different ways (that goes for all of us). As a transsexual woman, I have had all kinds of reactions from people as to why I am, who I am. However, it's been a very long time since anyone used a masculine pro noun to reffer to me. I think when you present yourself a certain way- and with self respect, people will ultimately respect you, even if they do not like you.
Since I have been living like this for over a third of my life, I really do not second guess or think about my transsexuality when I go out in public or deal with people in day to day situations. I know what, I am and which way I was born- but in my mind I am simply a woman. Yes a transsexual woman, but still a woman.
Not to get too off topic but I had a similar discussion with my therapist about this recentlly. And he pointed out something really interesting. Its the difference between a transsexual woman who is clearly obvious and one who passes in society. The transsexual woman who is obvious has to deal with that from the get go- while the one who passes faces a diferent problem, which is ofen second guessing- 'do they know?'. Different kind of problems, and obviously the second one is the better, but still issues we face daily as transsexuals.
If a man who is into me sees me as a man- then there is clearly a problem.
The buttom line is if someone is not evolved enough to understand you, accept you, or respect you- they are not worth your time and you should not grant them the pleasure of having it.
For me, I see TGirls as women. That's how you are living your life and except for the fact that you have "that something extra", you are women.
Why doesn't everyone else get this?Quote:
Originally Posted by AllanahStarrNYC
Awesome post, Allanah.
I've always just supposed that it's polite to refer to and think of a person as their preferred gender. So I do.
I see you all as girls and nothing more