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Originally Posted by TrueBeauty TS

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Originally Posted by JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel

It ain't just thugs. From what I've seen in the past couple of years women (whether they were born a woman or decided to become one) have this infatuation with being with a man they can't control. Not trying to take away from the initial topic of this thread, because I feel this is a GREAT thread and all the replies have been well written but I just wanted to put that out there. I have seen a few thug-imaged fellas come through the parties and they sit quiet as a church mouse until some girl approaches them, rarely do i see those guys become regulars. Yet some of the Steve Erkel type of guys that have become regulars are smothered by many of the women in the clubs. Women are funny, they will fuck that guy they can't control but shit on the guy they THINK they can control who also picks up the bill they might be late paying. Fucking hilarious.........................

Old School philosophy no one ever likes to bring up but it holds til this day: Treat a broad like shit and she will keep coming, treat her like a queen and watch that bitch bounce................................

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So... is this the way you all really feel? It either sounds like every guy on here has been hurt, or you guys really hate women or both.

I couldn't imagine treating someone badly that I was in love with. Would you really treat someone you love like shit just because of a philosophy? Or are you going to treat her like shit and hurt her because you are afraid she's going to do that to you? Either way, that's messed up. How are you ever going to find love?

That's not hilarious, that tragic. :(

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1st off props to Giacallme and Beardedone almost having the same sayings as the one I quoted, different words, same meaning, glad to know great minds think alike

True......................I don't hate women at all, I love women, I go out of my way sometimes for women, and I put up with alot of shit that women pull, I was raised to never hit a woman, or ever disrespect a woman unless she disrespects me; with that said I don't want you to think I am battered or abused, it's just my interpretation of what I've seen over the years. I'll give you an example, the other night my boy & I were at a club and these girls who have been all over him for years walked up to him late in the night and said that he & I were acting shady towards them. In reality we weren't even paying them ANY attention, we were laughing at some shit we saw elsewhere, but because they weren't the FOCAL POINTS of our attention and we exerted loud laughter they assumed they were the joke. Bottomline was they were really shitty towards other men so we didn't set ourselves up for the same response. And it turned out that they wanted our attention in the end. Neither of us are "thuggish", I mean we probably exude some level of "mess with me and I'll fuck you up" but the whole "50 cent G-Unot" routine doesn't come from either of us.

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.....its the company u keep and crowds u hang in and the people u surround urself with..hey if u meet ur girl in a club late at nite and end up with her, dont forget where u met her ok..

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Understood, if you hang out in a biker bar, you're gonna end up meeting biker chix. My laundry list of bad relationships crosses the spectrum from blind dates, chatroom meetings, girls from professional relationships/tradeshow meetings, banquets/dinner parties, friend-of-a-friend, etc.

Hell, the only venue I =haven't= tried is a biker bar, and I'd most likely end up going home with one of the men. :shock:

Granted, I did spend several years in a rather incestuous social circle (Where it was not uncommon to end up dating your ex's ex or your ex's ex's cousin's ex - See The L Word episodes with the relationship flowchart for an example), but jeezleweez, the sanest one I found in the bunch was still going through heavy duty therapy for self-esteem issues (Caused by bad relationships).

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if she likes thugs now, she did back then, u only chose to ignore the obvious and hoped u would suffice or override that desire...

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Trouble is, I never once saw evidence of this in any of them. Sure, there were a couple that I ended up with after they'd come out of sorry-ass relationships or divorce, but I can honestly say that I saw no sign that they'd set themselves up for it. There's only one that showed historical psychoses (And I ain't just saying that - It ultimately came to light that she'd been institutionalized in the past), but not at the time we met/dated.

And it's not always 'thugs', per se. Some mighty well-dressed businessmen can beat a tune on their girl's face just as easily as a drugged out stooge. :x

Holy Shit Mystique & I actually agreed on something......................LMAO

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Originally Posted by J

mmmm u know something, im not over 6 feet tall, i dont pick up heavy things and put them back down often so i bulk up (thats what god created gentiles for) and im almost sure, hold let me check again, yeah im quite sure my cock isnt 10 inches, but u know what, im reasonably attractive, in shape and well groomed, im personable, witty and very affectionate and while i havent posed on any video covers or been in the marines, i did go to law school and am doing alright for myself (not by a jewish mother's standards of course)...and guess what.....ive never lost a girl to a thug, ive never even been in a relationship with anyone who would give a thug the time of day...in fact if a thug approached any girl that i ever had a relationship with or shared a kiss with in all likelyhood she would laugh so hard at his routine her drink would come out of her nose...so maybe its the girls u guys are finding attractive that are the problem, and not the thugs that these girls leave u for or desire...come to think of it, my friends have had girls cheat on them and leave them and all, but i really cant think of anyone whose lost a girl to a thug...mmm...interesting..and im not exactly living in salt lake city.....its the company u keep and crowds u hang in and the people u surround urself with..hey if u meet ur girl in a club late at nite and end up with her, dont forget where u met her ok....theres a reason u met here there...im not judging anyone, well maybe i am, but i dont think im better than anyone, ok maybe i do a little, argh, ok bottom line everyone likes what they do and most people dont make a secret about it, if she likes thugs now, she did back then, u only chose to ignore the obvious and hoped u would suffice or override that desire...stop chasing girls who dont desire what u offer and u wont later regret losing out to her true desire....

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That is 1000% correct.

You know, the other thing guys never mention is that they usually try to go after the HOTTEST looking girl in the club. Guess what? Most of the time they are the ones with the crappiest personalities.
TS or GG. (It's the same with guys too, but girls usually remember that, guys don't.)

BeardedOne, heh...your posts are always the best:)

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BeardedOne, heh...your posts are always the best:)

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Awr, shux. <Digging toe into the carpet and blushing> Thanx guy. :oops:

I tend to express myself much better in writing than in person. If you were to talk to me face-to-face you'd find that "Uh" is the most common word in my vocabulary. :)

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You know, the other thing guys never mention is that they usually try to go after the HOTTEST looking girl in the club.

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Even plain girls can be crazy. Someone tried to determine my "type" once and was completely lost. Tall, short, thick, thin, blonde, brunette, prim & proper, goth and kitchie, butch, femme, and 'tweeners. I guess I kept going back to the buffet on the assumption that eventually I'd find the combination that worked.

Then I bought a therapy house and got a cat and a lot of stamps and DVDs instead.

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Originally Posted by BeardedOne

Even plain girls can be crazy.

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co-sign

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Originally Posted by J

guess what.....ive never lost a girl to a thug, ive never even been in a relationship with anyone who would give a thug the time of day...in fact if a thug approached any girl that i ever had a relationship with or shared a kiss with in all likelyhood she would laugh so hard at his routine her drink would come out of her nose...so maybe its the girls u guys are finding attractive that are the problem, and not the thugs that these girls leave u for or desire...come to think of it, my friends have had girls cheat on them and leave them and all, but i really cant think of anyone whose lost a girl to a thug...mmm...interesting..and im not exactly living in salt lake city.....its the company u keep and crowds u hang in and the people u surround urself with

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Cosign.

-Quinn

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Originally Posted by BeardedOne

Someone tried to determine my "type" once and was completely lost. Tall, short, thick, thin, blonde, brunette, prim & proper, goth and kitchie, butch, femme, and 'tweeners. I guess I kept going back to the buffet on the assumption that eventually I'd find the combination that worked.

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So your type is "with a pulse"? :wink:

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Originally Posted by TrueBeauty TS

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Originally Posted by BeardedOne

Someone tried to determine my "type" once and was completely lost. Tall, short, thick, thin, blonde, brunette, prim & proper, goth and kitchie, butch, femme, and 'tweeners. I guess I kept going back to the buffet on the assumption that eventually I'd find the combination that worked.

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So your type is "with a pulse"? :wink:

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Yah, pretty much. It helps if they can count to two without having to remove their shirt, too. I like to have a reasonably lucid conversation now and then, and a partner that is more than monosyllabic in their replies is certainly appreciated.