Conflicted about liking trannies

Amber and Sunshyne, both of you have the 'looks' that go beyond a dude just wanting to sex you.
Hypothetically, if we had sex and I caught feelings and there was a possibility of a relationship, I would not be able to ignore those emotions. At that point a man has to know the full extent of his feeling for tgirls.

For some guys it's not that serious = no future in it, just sex.

For others, it's the same as being attracted to a GG. If everything is cool you simply go with it.

IMO most trans-attracted men just don't meet enough pretty, passable girls to make contemplating dating one a reality.

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Originally Posted by SunshyneMonroe

i know right then there mad cuz they have to pay?

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exactly.men and theyre insecurities.i tolerate it in clients but i dont know why they think we would but up with that dl stuff in our personal life

Hey brah,a secret is a secret and you said you wouldn't want him to follow your tranny path lol.Unless you get caught,THERE ISN'T A PROBLEM.

My mom knew my ex is a TS. I think she thinks I'm bi now. Oh well lol

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Originally Posted by giovanni_hotel

Amber and Sunshyne, both of you have the 'looks' that go beyond a dude just wanting to sex you.
Hypothetically, if we had sex and I caught feelings and there was a possibility of a relationship, I would not be able to ignore those emotions. At that point a man has to know the full extent of his feeling for tgirls.

For some guys it's not that serious = no future in it, just sex.

For others, it's the same as being attracted to a GG. If everything is cool you simply go with it.

IMO most trans-attracted men just don't meet enough pretty, passable girls to make contemplating dating one a reality.

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aww thanks hun.thats one of the sweetest compliments. your my new fav :D

but yea its just alittle upsetting to hear some of the things guys think of us, and these are the guys that are supposed to be in to ts girls.hard to feel more than one dimensional these days lol

I gotta a kid too and I feel ya on the not wanting him/her to grow to not love you and what you stand for. But you have a say in what they accept and what type of person they are.

I try to expose my daughter to a variety of people and things and she will occasionally say uncomfortable things. She has met some of my trans friends as well.

In the last month she has asked a person in a wheelchair why they don't walk, an Indian woman why she has a dot on her head and loudly asked me what happened to that woman's neck where the lady was in a brace. I used each of the incidents as a teaching moment and she seemed to understand and accept people are different.

Over the years I have discovered a great many things about my pops and my uncle (my best friend) and they were/are some wild mf's. Never will forget when a stripper hired for a bachelor party asked me was I related to my uncle....man was I proud.

Keep some things secret because not everything that is known needs to be told. Also use common sense with your ex as babes can be vindictive.

Last, remember HA ain't the real world, and neither is the world of escorts and porn stars. It's more like a xxx Disney Land but remember there are people out there in school, at work and living normal lives. HA can skew your perspective. Good advice and fun can be had here but this ain't really real.

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Originally Posted by ed_jaxon

I gotta a kid too and I feel ya on the not wanting him/her to grow to not love you and what you stand for. But you have a say in what they accept and what type of person they are.

I try to expose my daughter to a variety of people and things and she will occasionally say uncomfortable things. She has met some of my trans friends as well.

In the last month she has asked a person in a wheelchair why they don't walk, an Indian woman why she has a dot on her head and loudly asked me what happened to that woman's neck where the lady was in a brace. I used each of the incidents as a teaching moment and she seemed to understand and accept people are different.

Over the years I have discovered a great many things about my pops and my uncle (my best friend) and they were/are some wild mf's. Never will forget when a stripper hired for a bachelor party asked me was I related to my uncle....man was I proud.

Keep some things secret because not everything that is known needs to be told. Also use common sense with your ex as babes can be vindictive.

Last, remember HA ain't the real world, and neither is the world of escorts and porn stars. It's more like a xxx Disney Land but remember there are people out there in school, at work and living normal lives. HA can skew your perspective. Good advice and fun can be had here but this ain't really real.

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AMEN to That.

Do You! I discovered, my Step Father is attracted to TS, when i found his porn collection as a teen. Never looked at him any other way, thats the reason im attracted to TS, but i still never talk to him about that, and never felt the need to want to.

well i wasn't around for the first 1 and a half of my son's life, i was locked up. i wasnt there when he was born, i didnt see him walk for the first time or wasnt there for his first word. When i got to hold him for the first time he didn't even know who the fuck i was, it's taken a lil while but he knows who i am now....but i see alot of his personality already and he's very similar to when i was a young buck. he's a lil wise ass and has a temper but he's my lil man. i love him to death and i dont wanna lose him again. he hasn't gotten to that stage where he's curious about the world around him yet. which is a good thing, but when he does it's gonna be a challenge and i know i'm up for it.

Why don't you stop tying yourself up in knots by worrying about hyperthetical situations that may or may not happen. The more you worry about it, the more chance you have of getting a totally fucked head and a totally streesed out body. :( If you just live life as it comes and deal with situations as they arise, life should be easier. Also stop worrying about what other people think - it's nothing to do with them.

I say this and mean it, but maybe I'm lucky with my situation. The majority of my family, all my close friends and most of the people I work with know I like T-girls and nobody gives a damn. :)

Give him something to be proud of and admire and he will become just like you. Give him something to be ashamed of and more than likely he will still become just like you.

Do great things then challenge him to live up to your example. Being into transgendered babes doesn't change this.