for the escorts on here with boyfriends

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Originally Posted by RubyTS

he hates it

but he knew my profession when he asked me to b his girl

i love him very much and it sometimes makes the work hard for me knowing how he must feel, and also wanting to be only with him. I find myself talking to my clients a lot about him and our relationship

If i quit, it will be for me, and my own happiness

We are considerring going to school together, i dont plan on escorting for the rest of my life, i am capable of so much more, but the fact remains that TS = SEX OBJECT and with the demand for Ts wmen being so high, its a gr8 business opportunity, with so many guys in need of discreet fun. Im very independant, my own boss, make my own hours etc and lets face it surgeries are expensive and i dont wanna be 50 yrs old before im finally happy with my "shell"

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Im glad you posted because I felt the originator of this thread had you in mind when he made it.
I fell like there are a lot of trade-offs in life should you choose to indulge them....one being an escort.
Just because your a TS does not make you a sex object unless you want it to.
You can choose NOT to do sex work or you can choose to do sex work and deal with what comes with that.
Since you say you want "surgeries" and whatnot you have made your choice...its not a necessity of life to escort.

Currently single ! Me , Myself,, i could not have a Boyfriend and do this. Why you ask ?,.. I have done it before and i just feel so wired about the whole thing, 1, it will become an issue sooner or later, 2, If he is accepting of it I would feel iffy that he is accepting,,,,, I would think he is some what of an asshole for doing so,,;loll.. I know it's a contradiction on my part, but that is my honest response. Honestly i have had guys tell me they don't care that they are very, understanding,,,but the point is ...I CARE,, AND COULD NOT BARE TO BE WITH A GUY I HAVE FEELINGS FOR OR LOVE AND DO THIS, I PREFER TO BE SINGLE TILL THEN...!

I cant sleep w/ a girl unless i have true feelings for her and love her ... thats why i'm a virgin. I wouldn't be happy if she was escorting ... i'd take a second job if it was money related.

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Originally Posted by rockabilly

I cant sleep w/ a girl unless i have true feelings for her and love her ... thats why i'm a virgin. I wouldn't be happy if she was escorting ... i'd take a second job if it was money related.

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Thats sweet!

You do know your probly on the minority on this one right,,loll....

and that is another thing.... I could not be with a guy and have him take care of me. I know many girls on this forum will kill me and look at me like im crazy, but its true, i dont want someone saying " YOU OWE ME, OR I GAVE YOU OR ETC,... i do what i do, I work for it, and no one can say they gave me anything free. I have always been very stern on myself to achieve what I want and never depend on anyone, but myself!

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Originally Posted by RubyTS

he hates it

but he knew my profession when he asked me to b his girl

i love him very much and it sometimes makes the work hard for me knowing how he must feel, and also wanting to be only with him. I find myself talking to my clients a lot about him and our relationship

If i quit, it will be for me, and my own happiness

We are considerring going to school together, i dont plan on escorting for the rest of my life, i am capable of so much more, but the fact remains that TS = SEX OBJECT and with the demand for Ts wmen being so high, its a gr8 business opportunity, with so many guys in need of discreet fun. Im very independant, my own boss, make my own hours etc and lets face it surgeries are expensive and i dont wanna be 50 yrs old before im finally happy with my "shell"

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ts=sex object, r u fucking kidding me. how do you equate the 2. is your self esteem that low? someone decides they are born into the wrong body and wants to change, that somehow makes them a sex object. we wonder why as a community are not taken serious? your transgender thats it. that does not make u a sex object, whore or anything else. you are a person worthy of love and respect as any other human being. man does this piss me off. she use to say what else can i do? work a job, go to school, be happy and not cry yourself to sleep because of what u did that day. thats what i would tell her, we can save our money and live together and be happy. she use to look at me like i was crazy. ts can have a normal life. you dont have to fuck men for money. why is so fucking hard to understand. its up to you. you wake up and make choices on how to live your life. sure its hard. a lot of things are hard in life. so what. i lost my father, best friend, fought a disease and won, almost lost a child. thats hard. im still here and trying to do the right thing. its called self respect and believing u can do anything. sorry to rant, im just so tired of hearing ts saying they have no choice or what else can i do. if your lazy and selfish just admit it. please. ts, gg whatever, love can exist and last forever, its up to you.

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Originally Posted by IMISSHER

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Originally Posted by RubyTS

he hates it

but he knew my profession when he asked me to b his girl

i love him very much and it sometimes makes the work hard for me knowing how he must feel, and also wanting to be only with him. I find myself talking to my clients a lot about him and our relationship

If i quit, it will be for me, and my own happiness

We are considerring going to school together, i dont plan on escorting for the rest of my life, i am capable of so much more, but the fact remains that TS = SEX OBJECT and with the demand for Ts wmen being so high, its a gr8 business opportunity, with so many guys in need of discreet fun. Im very independant, my own boss, make my own hours etc and lets face it surgeries are expensive and i dont wanna be 50 yrs old before im finally happy with my "shell"

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ts=sex object, r u fucking kidding me. how do you equate the 2. is your self esteem that low? someone decides they are born into the wrong body and wants to change, that somehow makes them a sex object. we wonder why as a community are not taken serious? your transgender thats it. that does not make u a sex object, whore or anything else. you are a person worthy of love and respect as any other human being. man does this piss me off. she use to say what else can i do? work a job, go to school, be happy and not cry yourself to sleep because of what u did that day. thats what i would tell her, we can save our money and live together and be happy. she use to look at me like i was crazy. ts can have a normal life. you dont have to fuck men for money. why is so fucking hard to understand. its up to you. you wake up and make choices on how to live your life. sure its hard. a lot of things are hard in life. so what. i lost my father, best friend, fought a disease and won, almost lost a child. thats hard. im still here and trying to do the right thing. its called self respect and believing u can do anything. sorry to rant, im just so tired of hearing ts saying they have no choice or what else can i do. if your lazy and selfish just admit it. please. ts, gg whatever, love can exist and last forever, its up to you.

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TRUTH!!!

Hi Janira , I know i'm a rarity ... a relic :( most guys will bang anything that moves ... i need to have an emotional connection , i'm not into casual anything.

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Originally Posted by TsJANIRA

I could not be with a guy and have him take care of me. I know many girls on this forum will kill me and look at me like im crazy, but its true, i dont want someone saying " YOU OWE ME, OR I GAVE YOU OR ETC,

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I know how that is, I was with a piece of shit guy about a year and a half back. When I first met him, he was really nice and sweet. He showered me with money and gifts. Then he turned verbally abusive and became a controll freak. I was lucky to get out of that situation before it got even worse.

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Originally Posted by rockabilly

I cant sleep w/ a girl unless i have true feelings for her and love her ... thats why i'm a virgin. I wouldn't be happy if she was escorting ... i'd take a second job if it was money related.

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You're the best baby. :love1

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Originally Posted by IMISSHER

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Originally Posted by RubyTS

he hates it

but he knew my profession when he asked me to b his girl

i love him very much and it sometimes makes the work hard for me knowing how he must feel, and also wanting to be only with him. I find myself talking to my clients a lot about him and our relationship

If i quit, it will be for me, and my own happiness

We are considerring going to school together, i dont plan on escorting for the rest of my life, i am capable of so much more, but the fact remains that TS = SEX OBJECT and with the demand for Ts wmen being so high, its a gr8 business opportunity, with so many guys in need of discreet fun. Im very independant, my own boss, make my own hours etc and lets face it surgeries are expensive and i dont wanna be 50 yrs old before im finally happy with my "shell"

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ts=sex object, r u fucking kidding me. how do you equate the 2. is your self esteem that low? someone decides they are born into the wrong body and wants to change, that somehow makes them a sex object. we wonder why as a community are not taken serious? your transgender thats it. that does not make u a sex object, whore or anything else. you are a person worthy of love and respect as any other human being. man does this piss me off. she use to say what else can i do? work a job, go to school, be happy and not cry yourself to sleep because of what u did that day. thats what i would tell her, we can save our money and live together and be happy. she use to look at me like i was crazy. ts can have a normal life. you dont have to fuck men for money. why is so fucking hard to understand. its up to you. you wake up and make choices on how to live your life. sure its hard. a lot of things are hard in life. so what. i lost my father, best friend, fought a disease and won, almost lost a child. thats hard. im still here and trying to do the right thing. its called self respect and believing u can do anything. sorry to rant, im just so tired of hearing ts saying they have no choice or what else can i do. if your lazy and selfish just admit it. please. ts, gg whatever, love can exist and last forever, its up to you.

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