Why can't people see me as a woman

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05-06-2009
FREEFALLL666

Alternative..
Maybe you are just so feminine that when they saw the original Male on your records the woman thought FRAUD and used the "bad attitude about X" thing to check you out..

(Unrelated, I would love to see you and Alyssa87 up to naughty things)
05-06-2009
tstv_lover

Some people just have closed minds and not prepared to think outside their comfort zone.

If their "mental model" of the world is that everyone is MALE or FEMALE, depending upon what's written on their borth certificate, then they're unwilling to look at the evidence of an attractive WOMAN trying to explain her situation.

The problem lies with them, but sadly the consequences affect others. Their inability to think laterally and accept CHANGE will always make them small. Rise above their weakness. YOU are a BEAUTIFUL WOMAN!
05-06-2009
Tika

She sounds like a hateful person that felt threatened by you in some way. It's not your fault. It's hers for being an asshole and a power-tripping bitch. It's up to you as to the course of action you want to take, but I would definitely suggest filing a complaint with her superiors and/or getting a lawyer involved.

Never let them grind you down. Live a good life, hold your head high and pity her.
05-06-2009
alyssats

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Originally Posted by juliana_dominguez

Thanks for all the reply and support

I wouldn't be able to change my records in the Philippines because the government doesn't allow transsexual women pre/non/post to have their documents changed or corrected. Only Intersexed people can have the right to do so. This has been challenged alot of times already but seems to me that the Supreme Court is not on our side.

I believe everything will be just as fine. I've got all the paperwork, all documents that I can show as proof. That's the harsh thing about Immigration, I probably think this is not my lucky day, cause I've got an Immigration officer who is judgemental, close minded, gender prejudice and discriminating.

sorry to hear that and girl your gorgeous i couldnt see any man in you

by the way I taught its allowed in the Philippines to change your gender from Male to Female also your name could be change but will be a long process go tru medical and supreme court. Many Filipina girls have successly change their papers from Male to Female from what I saw in the news in Manila.
05-06-2009
alyssats

sorry double post
05-06-2009
TsVanessa69

Re: Why can't people see me as a woman

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Originally Posted by juliana_dominguez

So I know it's been awhile since the last time I posted here on this forum. So hello to everybody and a BIG shout out to all my girls. This has always been a place for me if I wanna vent out a feeling or just to rant about something that I am sure concerns and relates to my T community.

I just got home from my appointment with the USCIS (United States Citizenship and Immigration Services) because I am applying for my greencard. Before I applied for it, I made sure I did my change me name and gender legally and so i did. Last year I got approved by the Superior Court of California on legally using my new name and new gender that I have applied. I rushed to the DMV and applied an ID/DL that states my new name and gender. I never had a problem with it. I was even congratulated for having my name and gender change legally. Now what horrifies me is what happened awhile ago at the immigration office. I filled out an application form, of course, I had to put my name and gender there and of course, I put in my new gender as well as my name (Juliana) which is my legal name, right? Then when it's my turn to speak with the immigration officer, she needed more identification documents aside from my California driver's license. so I showed her my Philippine passport. I was asked to wait for hours because they had troubles with my name because my passport have Male on the sex. So the immigration officer asked me to wait on the office while she checked on some stuff. I waited for a long time dear, and when she got back I checked the papers that I filled out and She basically erased Female and put on Male. I was so disappointed. That bitch. So, I told her if I got problems because I am indeed a transsexual. She just told me, Even though i've got the whole entire operation, Surgeon's letter, Psychologist's letter etc. They will still consider my birth sex which is male. I was so pissed so I talked to her and showed her all legal documents that I have in hand. She told me that she really can't do anything, she said "YOU'RE STILL A MAN, EVEN IF YOU HAVE SURGERIES. YOU ARE STILL A MAN, WHAT YOU HAVE IS ARTIFICIAL AND NOT REAL OR NATURAL." Of course, I felt down, angry, discriminated, humiliated. But I stood proud and told her how she's so close minded. That she needs to just look at me as a woman. She insisted, I may be a woman on paper, physically, emotionally and I even got married as a woman (which she doubts), But that doesn't change the fact that I was still born a Man. =(

So I still went on and got everything done at the center. But at the end of the day, I realized, I won't have anyone make me feel less of a woman as long as I know myself and that I know I am a woman by body, spirit and soul. And I wouldn't have anybody put me down like that even though I feel like I wanted to give up.

Dont let ignorant closed minded people get you down. You are a beautiful woman and that will never change. Enjoy it and the benifits from it. 1 person should not make you or break you my sister. Females sometimes are haters and that born a man line is old already, but thats all they have. You have the upper hand, laugh at them and enjoy your life, your husband and your future here. There are enough people out there who see the real you and those are the people you should consider. I'm sorry it happened to you, but it happens to all of us. But at the end of the day, you live your truth, now smile!!! Love the lif you live, because you live the life you love!
05-06-2009
2009AD

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Originally Posted by FREEFALLL666

Then there are those who go on Jerry Springer type shows and fuck up 95% of the efforts of other tgirls by whoring out their souls.. (Note I find Prostitution honorable) people who turn up on that show and say "Im really a MAN" should be called Sir/Mr forever...

You mean like this? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cbBvc-WTFRA
05-06-2009
JeniferTS

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Originally Posted by 2009AD

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Originally Posted by FREEFALLL666

Then there are those who go on Jerry Springer type shows and fuck up 95% of the efforts of other tgirls by whoring out their souls.. (Note I find Prostitution honorable) people who turn up on that show and say "Im really a MAN" should be called Sir/Mr forever...

You mean like this? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cbBvc-WTFRA

I'm ready for what's to cum! :popcorn :popcorn :popcorn :popcorn :popcorn :popcorn
05-06-2009
T-girl hound

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Originally Posted by JeniferTS

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Originally Posted by 2009AD

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Originally Posted by FREEFALLL666

Then there are those who go on Jerry Springer type shows and fuck up 95% of the efforts of other tgirls by whoring out their souls.. (Note I find Prostitution honorable) people who turn up on that show and say "Im really a MAN" should be called Sir/Mr forever...

You mean like this? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cbBvc-WTFRA

I'm ready for what's to cum! :popcorn :popcorn :popcorn :popcorn :popcorn :popcorn

Ditto :peanutbutter
05-06-2009
Silcc69

IDK government employee's can do shit like that and it seemed like that bitch was really trying to put an emphasis on it too.

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