What is fame?

it's the way things evolve. you meet someone when she's young and goes to her first party. no boobs, no computer, cheap clothes, still living with her mom in the Bronx and still petrified about leaving her house dressed in girl mode. You buy her a drink and a lap and she treats you like a best friend
She quickly sees what kind of gifts guys will bestow on her because of her tgirl status and she starts becoming confident, and in some cases very self-centered.
time goes by, and after HRT and a few surgeries she barely acknowledges you when you say hi

it's called transitioning

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Originally Posted by tsmandy

What's with the dick in the brick? Looks painful

See, you're tryin' to come for my GF. She's easily the hottest girl on HA.

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Originally Posted by flabbybody

it's called transitioning

Heh. One of the topics in the conversation we had. But it's not that because there's plenty of girls who transition and this doesn't happen. but part of the problem is you have to learn how to be a person before you learn how to be a woman, and a lot of them never get that for before transitioning and many never do that.

But I do agree with you that it is mostly a learned behaviour. When I used to do a lot of sales training, I would always have some salesperson telling me the famous people they had worked with (and mostly done no sales with). I always told them "You don't want to work with actors.models etc. You want to work with ugly fat people with money. These actors and modles spend their life with all sorts of people fawning all over them all day long every day and think they deserve it. but if you treat the ugly fat people nicely, you're one of the only one's who is doing it, they don't expect it, and they treat you nicely in return".

So, in your example, one of the factors at work is the transitioning is from one of those two groups into the other. And don't get me wrong: I absolutely understand how and why this happens. If you get involved in the scene and all day long you get guys fawning all over you and kissing your ass, it's harder not to allow this to happen than to have it happen. But you see it on HA all the time. Even my GF has become a stuck up bitch since I put her pic up here on HA and all these guys are PMing her telling her she's gorgeous and asking to buy her stuff and take her outs on dates.