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Yes I agree; this is an important point. The personality and soul beneath the superficial qualitites does not fade or wrinkle with time and this is what is ultimately most attractive to anyone who wants more than a one-night stand.Quote:
Originally Posted by JANIRA
As jen and hara love to frequently point out (in their own special ways) alot of guys are in denial. Rather than really be happy being them, they want to please the standard issue straight person.
Yes, guys and girls all go into a sexual phase, but more guys get stuck in that gear and never get out till theyre too old to get it up anymore or are tired of being known as the old perv.
Honestly, after being here for so long, Ive talked with some pretty damn cool ladies here. Even the girls I dont like or talk to are at the very least people who have feelings and emotions same as me. If more guys took the time to at least feign interest past ten minutes in what they said, theyd learn 1000 times more about what makes em tick than simply slinging compliments or hatred. Sure you can talk about what you like doing, but damn, talk about somethign else for a change. Yes this is an adult site, and yes many of our exposure to the girls is sex, but dont you think they get enough of it off the computer?
rant over.
When you mention " TRANSSEXUAL" to a guy, they automaticlly think sex,, i think even more than if you mention GG's. i could be wrong.....but thats what ive seen.
That's probably true... but I will say it's also no easy thing to get past a girls defenses if you want to get to know her. I was out with a couple of girlfriends a few years back and watched them gun down no less than four guys in half an hour at the local club. They complained the whole time about how none of the guys wanted to get to know them.
From what I saw sitting to the side, lots of guys would have loved to chat with them, but saw the level of flak they'd have to fly and stuck with their buddies. You have to be pretty thick skinned to get through, and the thick skinned types tend to be more interested in themselves than others.
That said, I can imagine girls have it hard sorting out the guys from the dicks given the amount of attention they draw. Just wish I had a better answer for connecting the quality ladies with the guys who give a shit about them.
Nice girls don't seem to approach the guys that are nice either, the more assertive girls tend to have similar issues to the assertive guys. They want something and then are moving on... though it's not always sex.
Somewhere in that mess I had a point... I did... it was sharp too... let me know if you find it... Really, I don't have many and shouldn't leave them sitting around message boads...
Sean
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Originally Posted by blckhaze
this is just comical to me. Everyone relies so much on labeling peoples sexuality. Really, why even care. I don't like dick or getting fucked but yet I have a ts girl. Why? Probably because she's inteligent, driven, and absolutely stunning. More than 99.999% of any of the gg's out there. I don't feel like I'm with anything other than the most beautiful girl in the room when I'm anywhere with her. So why in the world would I date a ts over a gg? I don't. I date girls, regardless of what they were brought into this world as.
couldn't have put it better myself virgo.
This is what I have always found, my current TG partners is the most beautiful person in the world to me. I wouldn't change her for anything. After all sex is only a small part of a relationship. She is my best friend, companion and lover all in one.
Moon
what were u expecting to come of this thread ????
Any man who has ever woke up or come home from work and dealt with the GG's "I'm on my period" line can appreciate the advantage of being involved with a trans gendered female. Whether pre or post op the relief of not having to go to the 24 hour pharmacy or supermarket to embarrassingly get your girl tampons or any other feminine product is a relief. Although many fellas substitute that with the naked walk after you've just had great sex to a bathroom with gilette/schick razors, neutrogena shaving cream, and Nair near the sink, it's a small price to pay compared to the dude who comes home opens up the door and finds a chick on her cycle spazzing out, trying to look at his laptop files, see who text messaged him, or check his credit card statements. I have yet to meet a tranny that does all that, but I'm sure there's a few.
instead of bashing the originator of this thread let's try to make something proper from it. she probably meant well, it just came out wrong......
Im just asking.....not trying to be shady.
After all it is you ladies who complain about guys always wanting you just for your cock.
So I am asking you what else is there to want you for?
If your "just like a woman" other than having a penis then why bother.
You can never win on this board with the girls because your either a chaser or "trick" or a hater.
Judging from the many many MANY threads on this board the guys that are clients of the "service providers" are into dick and dick size.