To The Guy's That Won't Pay A TS For Sex " Listen up

Whether a guy pays or not, a TS for most guys is a play thing, a fling, nothing more, nothing less, get use to it.

I've talked to a few guys who turned out to be unwilling to treat a Transsexual like a genetic girl. But it was no loss as these were same guys who turned out having the most depraved wants and I knew there was no way I could date them... let alone feel comfortable being around them in real life.

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Most guys that say they love transsexual's dont. They just love the dick, and wont admit it. If they loved us they would be proud of having a TS GF.

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I'll admit it. Butteye like the pussy too, & I know the difference. I don't love ya, but if I can get it free or at a discount, I'll tell you anything you want.

I've been blissfully divorced for over 35 years & to tell you the truth, I don't want a GF at all. I have no emotional ties to anyone other than my immediate family, & I don't want any more. I don't care about your personal life or problems & I don't want to hear about it. I don't mind paying. It's actually cheaper in the long run & there shouldn't be any games. I'm just out for a good time, but I'm paying for more than just sex. I'm also paying for absolute discretion, & most importantly, I'm paying for you to leave when I'm done. If I even get the slightest whiff of emotional nonsense, you're outa here. Any tacking on extra charges over & above the agreed on price, or any other ripoff nonsense, you're outa here. Don't expect a callback. Keep it light & keep it fun. Do right by me & I'll do right by you. We can even do repeat business now & then. If you want more than that, don't be asking for money.

I'm not bitter or jaded... but if you ride my train you buy a ticket. One way or another I'm going to get something out of the arrangement beside being kept in the dark with a sore ass. :-)

I'd say Vanessa was right, that most of the girls on this site don't "have" to escort, but we do it because we like it. For the most part the girls on here are the cream of the crop. Most of us didn't get where we are by being ignorant. Most have good marketing skills, college degrees, and are quality people and the top professionals in the field. So we tend to be pickier both in dates and LTR's than your local crackhead on CL.

Giggles,
TS Jamie :-)

Aint nobody looking for a TS girlfriend/wifey and I aint paying for shit - I just want a fuck friend. None of that romance shit - just a good thrill and a climax. Get with the times.

And you wanna know what you get out of it? That fact that I chose you to fuck aint good enough?? :roll:

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Originally Posted by Shining Star

and as always the ones normally willing to commit aren't the ones most girls are willing to commit to. That is if you are looking for Dolph Lundgren or Marcus Schenkenberg (younger versions obviously) as LTR material, you might as well stay home.

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This is an interesting point. It sucks because you're basically saying the guys that would commit to a TS are looked upon as outcasts too. Maybe these are guys the girls wouldn't be seen in public with hmmm.

I'd be the kind of guy to take a girl home to mom, but for me to settle down she would have to knock my socks off. Not only that, I'd have to know she felt the same. I'm just not sure thats gonna happen for both of us. That would be wild as hell, but I'm not holding my breath.

Life goes on and I'll keep trying to enjoy it. 8)

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Originally Posted by Killah

Aint nobody looking for a TS girlfriend/wifey and I aint paying for shit - I just want a fuck friend. None of that romance shit - just a good thrill and a climax. Get with the times.

And you wanna know what you get out of it? That fact that I chose you to fuck aint good enough?? :roll:

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This guy isn't in denial at all, trully knows what he wants.

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Originally Posted by TsVanessa69

So true sister!!!!!!!!!!!
As a ts who doesn't need to escort, I continue to escort now for that reason.
MEN treating me like a dirty secret.
Men just fucking and leaving.
Men not wanting to be seen in public with me, yet in private tell me how hott I am and how good I look.
Men not caring about anything in my life but the sexual.
Men not seeing me as a woman who has feelings and wants to be loved, or at best cared for, just seeing me as a nice hard cock and the best ass on the planet.
So I continue to escort.
It numbs the feelings factor.
I met nice guys, who I would date at times, and its sad.
Guys who are afraid of what other people think, guys insecure with themselves.
So I charge. Not out of necissity, but as a reminder.
Men will no longer use me. I will get mine first.
As long as you pay me, I will be that secret.
True I spend the money alone. but I enjoy every penny to a point.
I will enjoy all the material things you guys money as long as I can. I will see the world, I will dress in the best, I will do whatever the mood strikes me to do with you guys money. One day I may meet a man who will love me and appreciate me for the woman I am. Until then, my time is money.

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How about if you met a guy who you liked and who liked you back.
Who wasn't afraid to be seen with you in public. A guy who held your hand in public, all during movies, at dinner in restaurants. A guy who kissed you goodnite in front of his friends and yours.
A guy who always listened to your problems - not just nodded while watching football, but really listened, sympathized, gave advice and said "poor baby" when your feelings were hurt by anything. A guy who you talked to about business and took you seriously and had meaningful business conversations with. A guy who's advice actually meant something to you and whenever you asked for his help, he was there for you giving it.
A guy who told you you didn't need any of the 100 things you were wanting to do to change your body because he said you looked fine the way you were (and meant it).
A guy who when you went out, sometimes paid for you and you sometimes paid for him - at random. Not taking turns or quid pro quo, just whatever, whenever. A guy who has never paid you anything or paid for "your anything" (boobs, pumping, etc.).
A guy who snuggled with you in bed watching TV.
But a guy who you knew it wasn't all about sex - because you weren't having sex.

What would you say then? What nasty things would you have to say about this guy?

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Originally Posted by Danny partridge

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How about if you met a guy who you liked and who liked you back.
Who wasn't afraid to be seen with you in public. A guy who held your hand in public, all during movies, at dinner in restaurants. A guy who kissed you goodnite in front of his friends and yours.
A guy who always listened to your problems - not just nodded while watching football, but really listened, sympathized, gave advice and said "poor baby" when your feelings were hurt by anything. A guy who you talked to about business and took you seriously and had meaningful business conversations with. A guy who's advice actually meant something to you and whenever you asked for his help, he was there for you giving it.
A guy who told you you didn't need any of the 100 things you were wanting to do to change your body because he said you looked fine the way you were (and meant it).
A guy who when you went out, sometimes paid for you and you sometimes paid for him - at random. Not taking turns or quid pro quo, just whatever, whenever. A guy who has never paid you anything or paid for "your anything" (boobs, pumping, etc.).
A guy who snuggled with you in bed watching TV.
But a guy who you knew it wasn't all about sex - because you weren't having sex.

What would you say then? What nasty things would you have to say about this guy?

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I have a guy like that - minus the kissing, sex, "poor baby" and hand holding part.

I can't say anything but praise for him - he's not afraid to be seen with me in public, he's never paid me a dime, or bought me a drink in a bar. I've bought him meals, and I discuss business with him on a regular basis. He's put in 14 hour days beside me, without complaint. I respect his opinions and we like each other as friends and I trust him with the keys to my house.

He's my employee...

Giggle,
TS Jamie :-)

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To The Guy's That Won't Pay A TS For Sex " Listen up

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Well, since you called... 8)

I'm personally not looking for a relationship with a TS, but I'm open to one. If I were looking, I'd probably be a chaser. I'm just open to a relationship to a woman period. I also want to hit the lottery, but if that never happens I won't be crying about it on my deathbed. ;)

Oh, and I'll be a gentleman and pay for a date (real date), but I still won't engage in a monetary transaction to give a chick money and she gives up the ass. I got no problem with those who do, but my ego won't allow for that. :lol: