GGs have the biggest issue with transsexuals

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

However I'd just leave it alone, if you are worried she is going to spread it around even more. To the places you go now. No reason to make it even more known.

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I have to at least have to say something and put her in her place, or she will think she can do it again.

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Originally Posted by NYTSJulie

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

However I'd just leave it alone, if you are worried she is going to spread it around even more. To the places you go now. No reason to make it even more known.

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I have to at least have to say something and put her in her place, or she will think she can do it again.

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Yep I can see that side of it too! These situations are always so delicate, thats when I most despise being a transwoman.

Who thinks that T girls should tell guys right away?

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Originally Posted by NYTSJulie

She didnt do the right thing. I have been in the situation of guys not knowing many many many times. I know more about it then you or her. I have a way that I handle it. What she did is dangerous for me. So what are my options, sit home or go to tranny bars? Cause if word gets around I will not be able to go to the same places.

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I don't really want to pretend as if I'm an expert in your endeavor Julie, because obviously, I'm not.

But I do have some expertise in another.

So I'll try an explain in analogy as best I can.......


When I got out of high school, a couple years after actually, I got my first sales job selling cars. I was doing really well, I was selling a car a day at one point. But in California, you need a sales license to sell cars. I had some minor transgressions, like fighting.....little shit like that. Basically, I fought store security because I was trying to steal a bottle of liquor out of a store........Misdemeanor. I never lied on the DMV application where it asks, "Have you ever been convicted of any crime including misdemeanors", I simply left it blank. I was convicted of battery

Long story short, I lost that job because the DMV wouldn't give me my sales license because they said I wasn't being forthright and honest.


I went back to school and it worked out in the end and yada yada yada, but I had time to think about it, and the basic gist,

Not only was I being a violent thief at the time of the incident.............

But I was exposed a liar as well.



Was a life lesson I learned.



Good luck Julie.

As someone who shares a flat with three screaming, infighting, crying biatches, I can honestly say that women are deceitful above all things, especially with their female 'friends'. I don't envy you. Try not to get violent though.

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Originally Posted by ARMANIXXX

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Originally Posted by NYTSJulie

She didnt do the right thing. I have been in the situation of guys not knowing many many many times. I know more about it then you or her. I have a way that I handle it. What she did is dangerous for me. So what are my options, sit home or go to tranny bars? Cause if word gets around I will not be able to go to the same places.

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I don't really want to pretend as if I'm an expert in your endeavor Julie, because obviously, I'm not.

But I do have some expertise in another.

So I'll try an explain in analogy as best I can.......


When I got out of high school, a couple years after actually, I got my first sales job selling cars. I was doing really well, I was selling a car a day at one point. But in California, you need a sales license to sell cars. I had some minor transgressions, like fighting.....little shit like that. Basically, I fought store security because I was trying to steal a bottle of liquor out of a store........Misdemeanor. I never lied on the DMV application where it asks, "Have you ever been convicted of any crime including misdemeanors", I simply left it blank. I was convicted of battery

Long story short, I lost that job because the DMV wouldn't give me my sales license because they said I wasn't being forthright and honest.


I went back to school and it worked out in the end and yada yada yada, but I had time to think about it, and the basic gist,

Not only was I being a violent thief at the time of the incident.............

But I was exposed a liar as well.



Was a life lesson I learned.



Good luck Julie.

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I understand ur point but what she did could cause me danger, and thats where my BIG problem lies.

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Originally Posted by NYTSJulie

Who thinks that T girls should tell guys right away?

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Aren't you putting yourself in danger when you don't tell them?

It's hard for a transsexual woman to find a good looking guy thats going somewhere to live their life with. I don't think it's lying or misrepresenting myself acting how I act ALL THE TIME - A woman. If I was sucking his dick or fucking him and covering my T thats different, but talking to a guy and getting to know him, why should it come into play?

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Originally Posted by Legend

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Originally Posted by NYTSJulie

Who thinks that T girls should tell guys right away?

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Aren't you putting yourself in danger when you don't tell them?

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There's danger every day you walk out your door and interact with anyone as a transsexual or women or man.

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Originally Posted by Legend

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Originally Posted by NYTSJulie

Who thinks that T girls should tell guys right away?

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Aren't you putting yourself in danger when you don't tell them?

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Lets see this scenario, he walks up to me in the bar and says hi and I respond with "Hello my name is Julie, its nice to meet you. Oh BTW I am packing a strong 7 incher, so tell me about yourself"