Would you have a relationship

Ok. then I'm a little confused still. You completely look and sound like an ordinary woman. I realize what you're probably saying is you're not advertising you're a TS, but not ashamed either, and he shouldn't be either.

Look, we all date people that aren't right for us sometimes. I've stayed on with women I knew weren't right for me in the past, and somehow, it wasn't just the sex, I felt something for them in spite of their flaws. I guess i know I'm not perfect either.
But a girl being ashamed of me? No way would I put up with that. If I were you I'd seriously consider this. Maybe talk to your mom?

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Originally Posted by suckseed

Ok. then I'm a little confused still. You completely look and sound like an ordinary woman. I realize what you're probably saying is you're not advertising you're a TS, but not ashamed either, and he shouldn't be either.

Look, we all date people that aren't right for us sometimes. I've stayed on with women I knew weren't right for me in the past, and somehow, it wasn't just the sex, I felt something for them in spite of their flaws. I guess i know I'm not perfect either.
But a girl being ashamed of me? No way would I put up with that. If I were you I'd seriously consider this. Maybe talk to your mom?

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It's the stress of dating someone taboo I'm the first transexual he has dated and he is worred about someone finding out from media from word of mouth from someone else and he doesn't want them to think he is gay the truth is he can't deal with it

Now I remember why I'm pissed at you. That was a weak post, suckseed (and despite our differences, suckseed generally is a pretty good guy).

If a guy has some issues with your gender status, whatever it is, dump the loser. He's an asshole.

You seem way too pretty and sweet to put up with some other persons problems.

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Now I remember why I'm pissed at you. That was a weak post, suckseed (and despite our differences, suckseed generally is a pretty good guy).

If a guy has some issues with your gender status, whatever it is, dump the loser. He's an asshole.

You seem way too pretty and sweet to put up with some other persons problems.

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It's not who he is it's the enviroment and society that is helping him make his decision and men are afraid of change

Kelly,
It sounds like, to me, your boyfriend has issues.
I think he needs to reevaluate his priorites and choose his "friends" or his girlfriend.
When you truly have feelings, outside of sex, for someone it should not matter how their friends feel or if he would feel gay.
You like who like and if your friends think you are gay or whatever, you need new friends.
Good luck to you, and hopefully it works out for the best.
Oh yea, some people just suck at life.

LATE

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Originally Posted by FreddyB

Kelly,
It sounds like, to me, your boyfriend has issues.
I think he needs to reevaluate his priorites and choose his "friends" or his girlfriend.
When you truly have feelings, outside of sex, for someone it should not matter how their friends feel or if he would feel gay.
You like who like and if your friends think you are gay or whatever, you need new friends.
Good luck to you, and hopefully it works out for the best.
Oh yea, some people just suck at life.

LATE

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thanks Freddy

Be patient, make good choices, be good to you.

B1
President of the I Hate Matt Club

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Originally Posted by BeardedOne

Be patient, make good choices, be good to you.

B1
President of the I Hate Matt Club

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lol awe

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

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Originally Posted by suckseed

Ok. then I'm a little confused still. You completely look and sound like an ordinary woman. I realize what you're probably saying is you're not advertising you're a TS, but not ashamed either, and he shouldn't be either.

Look, we all date people that aren't right for us sometimes. I've stayed on with women I knew weren't right for me in the past, and somehow, it wasn't just the sex, I felt something for them in spite of their flaws. I guess i know I'm not perfect either.
But a girl being ashamed of me? No way would I put up with that. If I were you I'd seriously consider this. Maybe talk to your mom?

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It's the stress of dating someone taboo I'm the first transexual he has dated and he is worred about someone finding out from media from word of mouth from someone else and he doesn't want them to think he is gay the truth is he can't deal with it

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Ok. Sorry not to know, but I haven't read everything you may have written; you may have already said whether or not you're preop and if so what your plans are.

It's easy for us to sit in judgement of your man. But in your case, his being ashamed of you seems particularly hard to hear about, because you've been such an incredible positive role model. If you love him other than this....would you consider going to counseling together? If this is just a fling for you, then why bother, but if you love him....maybe he just need to confront some things. Ask him if he would not come to the aid of a gay person being harassed if his friends were watching. If he's not man enough to be comfortable in that scenario, then he doesn't deserve you kelly.

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

Would you have a relationship with a Ts or just sex

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Did. Would again. All depends on personality types. I`m mellow,prefer no drama. Sex is better when there`s a connection,not too luvy duvy mushy wushy about it, so i`ll stop there.

Here`s my number,call me when you`re single :P

555-5515.