Originally Posted by
Birgitta
Okay then,
Its not because of the Harry benjamin standards of care. I think they are nonsense too... but my view on transgendered woman differs from most.
I have met a lot of Tgirls/woman, and many of them were not very feminine. Mind you, I am not talking about their looks, anyone can get FFS and fool the world into believing they are woman. I am talking about the inside.
Try any transgenderfora and you will usually not find girls talking about girl stuff. Transgendered woman rarely talk about what it is like for them to be a woman.
In the west almost 80% were straight guys with a wife, jobs, children, etc so they become lesbians... those usually insist upon having a vagina and the one;s that do not go for surgery they view as males.
I was actually kicked from several websites run by these kind of TSwoman, because I expressed my doubt about having surgery.
So Bella should know, I actually know what it is like, still I think the way she responds to me is a little over reacting.
I seem to be the only girl here that is bothered by the way transgendered woman are portreyed in porn and in general.
Bottoming for Tgirls and sucking dick seems to be the norm. However almost all T girls with a normal female hormone belance (without excessive T) will not be able to perform in the bedroom without viagra.
Besides it is just TOTALLY past my understanding that a TS would actually WANT stuff like that, without making money from it. If you feel like a girl, why would you want to be a man in bed? Why would you be even able to be a man in bed? Especially for Tgirls because USUALLY they will want to do ANYTHING that makes them feel like a woman and NOTHING that will make them feel like a man. If you see my point.
I will never understand it.
I do not understand the 80% of TSwoman that were straight and always masculine that one day decide to be a lesbian woman.
And I dont understand Tgirls that behave like gaytops in bed. A lot of them are lesbians as well.
I dont feel at home in both words not do I feel at home in any transgender community. I would never have transitioned if not absolutely necessary, an my only wish is just to be normal girl.
But the circus around transgended woman in general is damaging.
I think it is a really bad stigma that due to TS porn Tgirls are portreyed as men serving passive men. Just because it sells.
Also it is damaging that those straight heterosexual lesbian T woman find their way to the media each time and make a fool out of the T community.
Cause nobody believes them!!!!
The amount of prejudice a T girl has to deal with due to her supposed sisters is a lot to swallow.
If Bella does not understand that, fuck her! lol