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Originally Posted by EvonRose
No hole is worth $2k or even $10-15k just sayin :)
My cock's had plenty of pleasure in life, sweetheart. I've rammed into thousands of asses and mouths. Thanks for the fun, fellas. But I want a regular guy at some point. A sane guy, not obsessed with porn and cocks. And I didn't see any guys who were LTR material answering my ads or jerking off to my porn. Sorry. Or let's just say, I didn't see any of them lining up to make an honest woman out of me. So I did it myself. I'm self-sufficient and independent, and I'm content. It's time to move forward and get a pussy, unless someone can prove otherwise to me.Quote:
Originally Posted by buttslinger
They're here because the little head controls the big head, mama, or they're here to make money off of us, or both. But you will never get love or understanding from these men.Quote:
Originally Posted by EvonRose
And I've never used any of them either, any more than they've used me. I'm not one of the girls who played shady games, and I know every game in the book. I easily could have. But my conscience is clean.
You do it cause you want it, fuck what guys tell you... All they are obsessed about is the cock, Honestly if you want a normal guy sex change is the way to go. If a man tells you not to do it and you want to they don't see you as the woman you see yourself. I am also getting it and when the day come i am going to be so happy. And leave this all behind me, even if I don't find a husband i am still going to be happy. Amen gurrrrlll!!!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by Nicole Dupre
wishful thinking.Quote:
Originally Posted by EvonRose
Post GRS, the incidence of mortality due to suicide or inpatient psychiatric care is significantly higher than non-transgendered controls. Far too many people think they will be 100% happy after GRS. life isn't roses no matter what you add or take away from your body or how much money you have
This statistic is so outdated....Quote:
Originally Posted by RallyCola
They now have strict protocols medically. Now these days you have to go trough strict physiological evaluation and strict physical examination.
You cannot get srs if...
You have not successfully feminized by hormones
Have not been approved by a psychologist
This has many to do with the mind set of a person, determination, ect.
They ask many questions to identify if one is qualified for a sex change.
Since 2000 because of the strict procedure to avoid misdiagnosis and suicide rates, only 2 percent of transexuals only qualify... Since then suicide rate decreased, and surgery now is very safe and less complications occur.
I actually qualify to get my surgery, So lets leave the evaluation to the doctors. And you can just mind your own genitals...
Who said anything about "100% happy"? I'm not seeking a life of "roses". I know all about the pre-op therapy and evaluations. I plan on going through all of it. If I'm not a likely candidate, I won't bother. It's all good.Quote:
Originally Posted by RallyCola
I wasn't expecting encouragement from faceless cock bandits, here of all places. But I have very little use for this jackass factory as it stands. And I'll happily walk away from a sexworker "lifestyle" and the slack-jawed closet cases who thrive on gawking at it like flies on shit.
Nicole and Evon - two sane voices. Go for your dream both of you and don't give a fig about the guys who say "keep your cock." As Evon says - that realisation as yourselves as women is what matters most. No - 100 per cent happiness is not possible. life isn't like that. But becoming your true selves is a vital staging post on the journey. Power to you both.
Thanks, Prospero.Quote:
Originally Posted by Prospero
I'm pretty familiar with the various demographics we have here on HA. I wasn't expecting a forum, where a thread entitled "amateur sissy stuff...ts/tv/cd`s" has almost 8 million hits, to be the place to wish me well. lol
Thanks Prospero! Your so sweet.Quote:
Originally Posted by Prospero
I don't know where me saying happiness from surgery is 100% but I guess Rally can make up quotes again. But it sure is a step for me.
But at the same time I am not going to take advices about happiness from people who are not even happy with their own lives and sexuality. I choose to live for me and no one else.
I had told my mom before, if a guy does not support me 100% in my life he is not the right guy for me, I will never listen to anyone on what I should and should not do to my own body. If i didn't listen to my father, what on earth makes you think I will listen to you? u know?
Big lips, and small waist, a hit in any mans league, those lips are so soft too, dont mess with the waist and the lips Evon!
i wasn"t offering advice - just wishing you happiness> xxQuote:
Originally Posted by evonrose
actually...i think you need to read actual peer reviewed articles to see the stats on post-transitional stress.
Why don't you transition and let your doctors inform you of the medical facts....Quote:
Originally Posted by RallyCola
This is a porn forum, and most of the guys around here arent interested in any community. There used to be a time YEARS ago where you'd see transition help and support posts and a lot more discussion topics, but not so much anymore.Quote:
Originally Posted by EvonRose
I don't know if I'm one of them, but there are a few dudes around here that kinda "get" it a little better than the majority, but HA goes through waves where floods of new users here for the porn hang around and support insulting stereotypes about transsexuals because that's about all they know. Other times, it's just the regulars and HA chills out a little more. Personally, I like to vacate the forum for months at a time to duck out of all the drama when things get stressful.
Hell if she is as popular as this thread she should charge $10,000 an hour....obviously she is in demand!!!! And good for her....the reasons people put these prices is only known by the person posting them...pushing the envelope isn't always a bad thing....much like hollywood actors pushing for higher salaries when they make more than most americans will make their whole lifetime..... This is kinda like that but different...lol!!!point being if you really want to see her get financially ready.... If not see someone whom better fits your budget...=)
Sunny this thread hasn't been about Domino in such a long time. It has evolved into dating preferences and a bunch of other things. Maybe another thread should be started, because this thread has moved to the other side of the world in terms of discussion topics.
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Originally Posted by lifeisfiction
lol!!!!!!!!now i know...hihi!!!!!
I'm not much of a faceless cock bandit. It sounds like you're really trying to turn your life around. You're getting a regular job, and you've been trying to get out of the adult industry. It sounds like you're more than a little sick of the scene. You're really trying to do a lot of positive for yourself right now, and that's way admireable.Quote:
Originally Posted by Nicole Dupre
There's no need to get into that "don't let a dude make decisions for you" shit because you're far too independant and smart for that. If SRS is your goal and it'll have you feeling more comfortable with yourself and in relationships, fucking go for it. You won't know if you apply unless you apply, so there's no point in letting possible denial lead to personal reservation. It's not like you can't deal with a little more of the same ol' thing for a while.
Any dude who's going to pipe up and say "No, babe! Keep your dick" has either got to be really important to you, or a dip shit. I mean, there might be some valid reasons to avoid SRS, but they shouldn't be coming from the perspective of the type of dude's who hang around here. Duh. Anyway, not that it matters much; you've got my support.
Nice to see a post back on topic; and I totally agree. I think it's pretty dumb that a bunch of guys are actually trying to take the stance of "Well, I would have been interested if she wasn't charging that much" when in all likelyhood none of them would have realistically become clients. It's only unfair because her noody pics are all over the site and now the guys can't afford the fantasy that's been in their head for months.Quote:
Originally Posted by Sunny Dee-lite
I believe no one will ever get it, its a matter of trying to understand. Some guys refuse to see outside the fantasy world when they address us, so sometimes we have to actually say it, even if it's a porn forum. Reality is you will never get it 100%, its complicated if your not one of us.Quote:
Originally Posted by GrimFusion
After all, if a Pornstar is a public figure, wouldn't her fans want to know what she went trough? It is an image and it makes good image. I know I was obsessed with Tera Patrick's life story, so why wouldn't fans of many of these Pornstars want to know their back ground story, it makes a person more personable.
In my opinion educating men about us actually makes them more aware of their situation, If we don't educate men here, then they are left confused with their sexuality, or attraction to us, And for a fact it's an underlying wonder and men have many things to ask. So I'm sure it's appreciated by many for me to address and answer their questions ahead. Education comes in all forms, even on a porn forum.
BACK TO DOMINO.....
Sex is 15% of a happy marriage, and 85% of an unhappy marriage.
I would have to say on this forum the sex gauge is over at the 100% end.
Is it my sick mind or all the sick photos?
Oh, and just to stay on topic, in Domino's case it's obviously way over on the 1,000% end.....
i'm a doctor you twit....i have three degrees you probably can't spell.Quote:
Originally Posted by EvonRose
inflated ego much? ugh..Quote:
Originally Posted by RallyCola
Then you should know in general, GLBT have higher rates of suicide, This does not mean transexual have a higher rate. You can't conduct a study where about 13 percent of the population is GLB, and a lesser population of T.Quote:
Originally Posted by RallyCola
This study is conducted under transexuals who have not been properly diagnosed in other countries, If you are a doctor then you know the mortality rate of a diagnosed transexual is very low.
There many contributing factors to suicide besides regret of the operation, as a doctor you should know this.
Society is a major influenced, there is a numerous amount of disgust with post op's, many transexuals look down on them and many people make them feel less of a person by perceiving they made a bad decision, or they will never be a woman with a fake vagina, Or in the cases of tranny lovers make them feel bad for having it, just because of their twisted perception of the community. Look back on Jessica Fox's thread.
Just because you are a doctor does not mean you specialize in this field, suggesting by having srs does not make one happy, Does not seem medically ethical to say, many doctors would disagree with you. Many SRS have brought complete fulfillment in many transexual lives. And that would be backed u by medical facts actually.
3 degrees in medical? wow! You must be really old? But you speak like a 12 year old. Wow I wonder who gave you that degree?
I wouldn't exactly say it's "turned around", but it's definitely not so transitional, for lack of a better word. I try to make all moves in my life lateral ones. Most of the things I've done that may have seemed reckless were actually the most stubbornly disciplined.
Anyway, I'm just not very impressed with most of the people I've encountered in the porn world or the money. Porn is chump change. And fuck web camming. I did it years ago before all these other whores were doing it, and ODed on it even then. If I wanted to punch a clock, I'd work at Starbucks and have benefits. lol As for escorting, I can stand back and decide if and when I feel like doing it again. But having a legit business is definitely nice. And I've dated a lot more than I ever have too. And I mean real dating. lol Not a clingy parasitic cock-addicted pothead BFs, not tricks, and not exactly daddies either.
It's not written in stone that I'm getting SRS, but I'm definitely considering it. Most of the most well-adjusted, sane transsexuals I've known were post ops. But yes. I also know that lots of old washed-up midlife crisis losers get them with their 401K money too. lol But if and when I do, I'll be ready. Trust mother.
at the end of the day the majority of guys who are in "shemales" (isnt the use of that word enough to let you know what they really care about lol) arent going to like gender reassignment surgery much less understand why some girls need it to feel complete.
its a choice that we made for OURSELVES because it will make US happy.we didnt start our transition for guys or based on their opinions so why finnish that way
Glad I'm not one of those guys...Quote:
Originally Posted by amberskyi
eh...i wouldn't call it inflated. engorged maybe.Quote:
Originally Posted by rydermorrison
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Originally Posted by EvonRose
for the record, since this thread is so damn tangential...i'm 33 and i have 1 basic science (neuroscience), 1 medical (specializing in neurology) and 1 psych degree...and that's the order I earned them in due to the regs of my MD/PhD program. The least impressive is actually the Psychology PhD because most purely psychological research lacks key clinical components and are too, as you sorta pointed out, only relevant to the socioeconomic and cultural biases of the population. The easiest to get was actually the MD because simply but, it is just alot of studying and memorization. There is more bullshit on the PhD side of translational research.
So...while I am not inclined to cut/paste the abstracts or pubmed links here, if you really think that i'm citing incorrect stats, well, you just are reading the wrong papers or have no idea how behavioral stats are compiled. You shouldn't...you are a lay person that has not studied behavioral neuroscience and psychology...but at least admit that instead of assuming you know what you are talking about. Its like my mother-in-law...she is diabetic and tells my brother-in-law, who is an internist, that the liver can't clean the insulin out of her system. Just because you know a few words or read wikipedia doesn't make you an expert on anything.
mind you...i am not claiming to fully understand what it is to transition. i am simply saying that being an avid reader of much of the published reports on transgendered issues, i believe that I am far more well read and entrenched in exactly where tg issues are clinically than you are.
finally...as i've indicated before...you only read and take away from a post what you want. never did i say that having GRS can NEVER make one happy. I simply said having it does not mean you are automatically going to be happy. Look at your own bullshit opinions on having a man financially take care of you. I would contest that if you had GRS and for some reason couldn't find a dude to pay you to be his GF, you would be unhappy. Not because you cut your dick off....but because there is so much more to being happy in life than your anatomy.
From my own work and experiences in my private life that the depth of a person's character is far more important in terms of them being a "happy" person. i've stated that based on your posts, attitudes and opinions, I believe you to be a superficial, immature and shallow person...so my dear, I would estimate that happiness would be difficult for you to find until you grow up a bit and figure out what really matters in life.
i assume you are going to tell me that i am wrong...and that I don't know you...and you are right...i don't...i'm just full of myself enough to want to entertain myself by pointing out your bullshit but not serious enough to care if you retort. the fact remains that we have vastly different opinions and that's that.
you are right...most men into the tgirl fantasy, would reject the idea of GRS but these are not the men that I would say, it is healthy to be associated with. I, personally, had difficulty understanding why some girls are so-called "non-op" because notwithstanding the obvious sexual attraction I have to pre-/non-op girls, I had always thought that the ultimate goal was to have GRS. When I first became interested almost 20 years ago, I saw the pre-op faze as far more transient than it really is but...different strokes for different folks.Quote:
Originally Posted by amberskyi
:iagree::iagree::iagree: with every word. I know quite a few girls who have had full grs - and more as friends than sexual partners, fwiw - and each one, without exception, is happier and more fulfilled than they were before. The kind of negative comments that turn up again and again on HA, on this thread, and let's be honest, most threads, whenever the subject of grs comes up, simply show firstly how shallow and self-centred most of the cock bandits hereabouts are, and secondly how little they know or care about the psyches, traumas and motivations that the women they profess to admire have to endure every day of their lives.Quote:
Originally Posted by Prospero
Good luck to you both. You're savvy enough to know that you can safely ignore those comments.
It is highly studied ad believed that 13 percent of the population is GLBT, does not take a genius to realize the the T in the GLBT is significantly lower.Quote:
Originally Posted by RallyCola
As a doctor, the correct terms are Penis and Vagina, if you want to speak medically as an argument no doctor would tell you to use these terms, so I don't believe you are a doctor. Sorry.
Now where is your degree for sexology? No doctor would know anything about our special medical circumstances without this.
You may study the human nervous system, but you need further education to study and specialize to help Trans women transition, psychology is one. Yes in order for one to qualify for a SRS there are further steps taken and your degrees are not enough.
If you are a doctor, lets just say. People her obviously can see your a mad one.
It also proves you don't know much about the community, it is not a choice as more of a feeling of one transexual. Some women can live a penis and learn to accept it, and theres a few that can't, and are medically required for the surgery. The reality in our mind as a soon to be post, we view pre related with sexual fantasy/porn etc. It's not entirely true, but rarely do I hear of a man take a pre seriously. It's also a wanting to be complete, and some of us don't feel complete. We are content fading int he back ground and becoming a normal woman.Quote:
Originally Posted by RallyCola
For the most part, the gentlemen on this forum are only aware of the transsexuals doing porn and escorting. I suppose they find it difficult to conceptualize the actual number of stealth, both pre op and post op, TS women there are out there.Quote:
Originally Posted by EvonRose
lol at being a mad doctor....yeah, i'm mad that i'm not COS yet. i'm the greatest fucker ever...fuck all those cunts that went to John Hopkins, Duke, Harvard and Yale. I went to New Jersey Fucking Medical School beeotch!
regarding the number of "stealth" transgendered individuals out there...i agree that many on this board have no idea...but i would contest that your choice of words is not appropriate. Stealth implies going unnoticed for the purpose of hiding. I would argue that post-op people are not hiding...they are just not advertising because their birth or present anatomy is irrelevant to the person they are.
for my psych thesis, finding post-op women to interview was easy...they were very proud. finding pre-op women was actually more difficult because of the criteria my mentor and i set for inclusion in particular groups, but also because these women seemed to be more in hiding than post-operative women.
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Originally Posted by EvonRose
You are a truly beautiful young woman, Evon. And from the one praising review I've read, I understand that this also goes for the part of you that you've chosen not to show in your pictures. In do as such have a very high appreciation for you the way you are today and would love the opportunity to enjoy your company.
I do on the other hand also fully understand your need to go all the way and I do also very much respect that need. A girl must do what a girl must do. Follow your heart, Evon, and don't take any notice of what certain selfish souls will tell you out here. I support you wholeheartedly.
Uh no stealth means being in society with caution, it's not hiding. No one is hiding. That's impossible since many who do get the surgery want to go out and feel free with their newfound bodies.Quote:
Originally Posted by RallyCola
Your thesis goes against experience, I find that pre op women are more likely involved as post op when tend to et away from the scene, How many sex change porn star do you know compared to pre op? Not to mention do you know the stats of post ops? I don't but I guarantee you it's significantly less.
Thank you so much! that means more to me than you know...Quote:
Originally Posted by catherinefan
Wow seems this one comment erased all the negative feelings I had already, thank you for that bright light...