Re: Men on dating ts women
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Originally Posted by
EvonRose
I would like to know when most of the women here transition...
Transitioning at 12 growing up, still being 21 I have encountered nothing but chasers wanting to take advantage of a young, very well transiitoned trans... This goes for all the modern ts who have transitioned as well... as oppose to the older generation. I feel bad for the next generation if these chasers don't change.
It is different for girls who transition older, they don't encounter most of these crap us younger ts do. No to mention this chaser thing has been recent, I was born right dead int he center when it started to just be a cycle of never ending useless, meaningless, Fetish. And it sucks.
Now I have been told there were chasers a lot to back int eh day when ts become more prominent, however any girls can say that it;s getting worst.
It's no wonder that ts supermodel had said " we live life alone, I rather die alone" She was talking about these chasers. Now i don't think that's right, because i think even tough chasers are a majority, there are many men that don't deserve the blame. I think any ts should be able to spot a chaser with the things they say here not he boards, how they act in person, and the motives for their actions. We are not stupid. And that is what makes chasers get so mad because most of us won't give them the time of day,a nd we all have a story to to learn from.
Girl, this is the Edelweiss crowd and the Ina's Silver Swan on this forum. lol I was turning them in the mid 90's before I was even on 'mones, and it was the same shit with them. I dressed however I wanted to school, either very fem or completely like a GG. And there were cockhounds then too. They had the Edelweiss bar right down the street from my apartment on 11th Ave. And I had my own little parties with a few guys I went to SVA with, and those guys went from my place and then to Edelweiss or vice versa the same nights. I'd go outside and watch them with my roommate's binoculars as they made a left into Edelweiss and be thinking "Look at these gluttonous motherfuckers. How many transvestite dicks will they suck in one night?" lol So they were dogs then and they're dogs now. But they did bring me a few presents every time. They bought me art supplies, pot, coke, wine, etc. I ran into one about 4 years ago at Callen-Lorde. I bet he's HIV pos now. He didn't recognize me, but I'm pretty sure it was him. And you know what? I bet he's STILL sucking TS dicks; probably now more than ever. lol
Re: Men on dating ts women
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Originally Posted by
EvonRose
Well like you said, you can have your preference...
I would not want to be with a guy who bottoms, or is a chaser That's not my cup of tea, I'm not saying being a chaser is bad, i feel honestly it's invasive in my personal life. But do as they please, Not gonna happen with me.
Just as porn is a choice.
You are comfortable with porn and being out in public, I don't.
If you like chasers, then date them. No one is stopping you.
Again the chaser thing is spread around to liberally...
I think a man that just sleeps with any transsexual to put the notch on his bed post would be considered a chaser...for example: Christian..even though he does it as a business..he also does it off shoots..and he likes to get with any girl out there...no matter what they look like..for that notch.
A man who has never been with a transsexual...who wants to experiment...and attracted to beautiful transsexuals..but doesn't know what end is up..and scared...is not a chaser...
That's someone trying to figure out what they want..who knows he may try it and decide this isn't for them...
I just think girls label any man a chaser..
If he has dated previous transsexuals..oh he is a chaser..even if he dated them for a long period of time..and treated them like any normal girl...
Or if he slept with other girls before..he is considered a chaser...
I just think it's just preposterous...
By the way I'm married..and I have never had issues you girls have had in dating..
My shortest relationship was a year...and my longest 6 years and I have had plenty of long term relationships..with no issue..and most of the guys were what many would consider "tranny chasers"
I grew up as a female too...I guess my experience is a lot different than yours...
Re: Men on dating ts women
Guys try and fuck any women they can, thats 99% of guys, if ts's are on his menu that doesnt mean he is a ts chaser, just a man whore dog lol.
Re: Men on dating ts women
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Originally Posted by
KellyShore
Again the chaser thing is spread around to liberally...
I think a man that just sleeps with any transsexual to put the notch on his bed post would be considered a chaser...
A man who has never been with a transsexual...who wants to experiment...and attracted to beautiful transsexuals..but doesn't know what end is up..and scared...is not a chaser...
That's someone trying to figure out what they want..who knows he may try it and decide this isn't for them...
I just think girls label any man a chaser..
If he has dated previous transsexuals..oh he is a chaser..even if he dated them for a long period of time..and treated them like any normal girl...
Or if he slept with other girls before..he is considered a chaser...
I just think it's just preposterous...
I was a girl at 12 already... I had all my papers state I was female and the school boards, and even the church knew this. So yes. I tried t live my life as a female, but for some reason keep getting pushed with this she male bullshit. i had 60 year old guys wanting to suck my cock at 15-16 of course i have a different view on things...
By the way I'm married..and I have never had issues you girls have had in dating..
My shortest relationship was a year...and my longest 6 years and I have had plenty of long term relationships..with no issue..and most of the guys were what many would consider "tranny chasers"
I grew up as a female to...I guess my experience is a lot different than yours...
How old are you now? When did you transition? How long have you been in the sex industry?
Of course these questions come to mind with no offense to you but how you are also affected by these men. Sometimes you can get numb to it and some women just tolerate, unfortunately, like my mom we don't tolerate...
My way or the highway.
Like i said you like tranny chasers, so that's your thing... Not all of use want to be objectified for our little parts, some of us are very insecure about it, just as some if us don't like to be labeled she males because it's derogatory, or lady boys, or he/she.... But some ts are okay with that, but I tend to respect women who fight those disgraceful terms... or being objectified int hat sense.
Re: Men on dating ts women
Chasers will also see gay men but never say anything to us about it. Many chasers really do use TS as a gateway to dick. Some are into also children. You find these fucked up things out over time. After a year of being a bottom for every ts provider online, suddenly they go to a gay bathhouse to take it up the ass for free. Wtf?
That's why I want no part of 99% of them. Certain people are sex addicted and pathological liars.
Re: Men on dating ts women
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Originally Posted by
EvonRose
How old are you now? When did you transition? How long have you been in the sex industry?
Of course these questions come to mind with no offense to you but how you are also affected by these men. Sometimes you can get numb to it and some women just tolerate, unfortunately, like my mom we don't tolerate...
My way or the highway.
Like i said you like tranny chasers, so that's your thing... Not all of use want to be objectified for our little parts, some of us are very insecure about it, just as some if us don't like to be labeled she males because it's derogatory, or lady boys, or he/she.... But some ts are okay with that, but I tend to respect women who fight those disgraceful terms... or being objectified int hat sense.
I transitioned at 12 - went to high school/college/cosmetology school as a female. My life is documented...
I didn't get into porn till I was 26, before that I worked regular jobs. I was a transgender activist from the age 16. I had jobs from a waitress - to a cosmetologist - makeup artist - platform artist - worked for DCFS - etc etc etc...
I am 30 now (well as of April 19th)...through out my whole life I had healthy real relationships...long term...lived together....
Relationships are hard..they aren't fairytales..you have to work at them...no one is perfect....
I don't know what you mean by "putting up with" lmao
Girl you just sound jaded...
If you don't like what you have between your legs why don't you get SRS?
I was going to a few years ago...but the chance for it to turn out ugly and for it to not work is to great...
I am happy with me..and being able to orgasm is too important to me..in my sexual relationship..
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Well kelly, maybe we are different.
at 12 I already was a female, going to school, church, etc as a girl... And been harassed by these chasers...
Nicole, you know what's weird? When i was 15-16 I had so many guys soliciting to suck my cock already, sow weird...
Re: Men on dating ts women
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Originally Posted by
EvonRose
Well kelly, maybe we are different.
at 12 I already was a female, going to school, church, etc as a girl... And been harassed by these chasers...
Nicole, you know what's weird? When i was 15-16 I had so many guys soliciting to suck my cock already, sow weird...
I didn't have that experience I grew up in a town of 2500 people
I lived a pretty normal life...
I never really let the transsexual thing define me in my personal life..I just was me..
And if a guy hit on me I wasn't into - I was blunt..plain and simple..
Which I don't mind letting a guy know to take a hike..
And through all my relationships if a guy didn't wait around and show me out to dinners movies etc to get to know me...
Then he was on my no list..pretty simple
Re: Men on dating ts women
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Originally Posted by
KellyShore
I transitioned at 12 - went to high school/college/cosmetology school as a female. My life is documented...
I didn't get into porn till I was 26, before that I worked regular jobs. I was a transgender activist from the age 16. I had jobs from a waitress - to a cosmetologist - makeup artist - platform artist - worked for DCFS - etc etc etc...
I am 30 now (well as of April 19th)...through out my whole life I had healthy real relationships...long term...lived together....
Relationships are hard..they aren't fairytales..you have to work at them...no one is perfect....
I don't know what you mean by "putting up with" lmao
Girl you just sound jaded...
If you don't like what you have between your legs why don't you get SRS?
I was going to a few years ago...but the chance for it to turn out ugly and for it to not work is to great...
I am happy with me..and being able to orgasm is too important to me..in my sexual relationship..
Well there you have it you have been sheltered from these men for most of your childhood. I got in the industry and in the scene in my childhood I have lived in major cities like Manila, in my child hood and raised in San Francsico where the ts scene is very active, And experienced the reality of the men actively on the scene, that's why i choose to be with a guy who isn't actively on the scene.
That is the Most ignorant thing to ask a ts why they won't get their sex change, You don't know when i had it scheduled do you? Or that I'm qualified already, i just want to make sure the time i do get my srs I can sustain myself for years... not all of us are financially irresponsible, we try to avoid debt, financial situations just like anyone else... I am 21 even if I decide 5 years to get my srs I will still be one of the youngest ts to get it, and still have a full life. Because Some of us have a way out, and do not want to be in the industry in our 40's...
Just like you I am qualified in other venues, that will take effect in the next year in music production. I am 21 and i got my life ahead dog me and trust me you will not see me in the industry past my 30's...
Re: Men on dating ts women
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Originally Posted by
EvonRose
Well there you have it you have been sheltered from these men for most of your childhood. I got in the industry and in the scene in my childhood I have lived in major cities like Manila, in my child hood and raised in San Francsico where the ts scene is very active, And experienced the reality of the men actively on the scene, that's why i choose to be with a guy who isn't actively on the scene.
That is the Most ignorant thing to ask a ts why they won't get their sex change, You don't know when i had it scheduled do you? Or that I'm qualified already, i just want to make sure the time i do get my srs I can sustain myself for years... not all of us are financially irresponsible, we try to avoid debt, financial situations just like anyone else... I am 21 even if I decide 5 years to get my srs I will still be one of the youngest ts to get it, and still have a full life. Because Some of us have a way out, and do not want to be in the industry in our 40's...
Evon I can see why you may have difficulty in dating....you have issue with conversation..and always going towards the negative...that is all :)
Have a nice day..
