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I'm so curious as to where on the shore you're from? I live Down here too. I'm in Ocean County. I know you don't want to reveal to the world exactly where you are, but it would be cool to know that you're in my area. :DQuote:
Originally Posted by Alyssa87
Ok then it might not be the same as "living home with mom or a girl stuffing her bra". Although going with the thought of being open an honest...........when you meet a women do you inform her that you sometimes get the urge to have a shemale penis is your mouth? For a lot of women this might be a deal breaker.Quote:
Originally Posted by Surkis
Nope not even close.Quote:
Originally Posted by needsum
i think he was talking to me mama..Quote:
Originally Posted by NYTSJulie
(you are beatuiful in your avatar.
as real as u look i can see where
you wouldnt want to tell every guy!!)
i live in monmouth beach.
I just had to laugh at this...good 1 JulieQuote:
Originally Posted by NYTSJulie
Again you're comparing things that aren't really comparable. Sexual fantasies and having the opposite gender's plumbing are 2 very different things.Quote:
Originally Posted by NYTSJulie
Maybe 1 date is fine, but if you plan on getting any kind of serious with the person, it would be unfair and selfish to lead them on. If I went out with a chick and she found out I had one ball, what's that gonna do? Are there any groups out there forcing the issue that people with 1 ball deserves rights too? Or what about my sexual fantasies? They are just that, fantasies. I can keep them in my head forever if I wish, but if a guy is looking at you, chances are the last thing that's on their mind is "I bet she's packing a johnson way bigger then mine! Hell yeah!"
I mean some women have been beaten up or even killed over things like this, so i'm sorry but even though its not a big issue to you, it still is to other people. If you want to be accepted for who you are then you have to start by accepting that some people are who they are, and I gotta say there are a ton of guys out there who don't want to have anything to do with some other dude's junk, even if its attatched to a gorgeous woman.
So again, maybe she wasn't trying to out you, maybe she was just looking out for her friend, or maybe it just came up in casual conversation. You shouldn't have taken it so personally. She only told him what he eventually WILL find out later on if you had planned to spend any length of time with him, unless you were just flat out never going to have sex with him.
Again if you want we can just agree to disagree than that's perfectly allright, but your inaccurate comparisons are not going to get us anywhere.
Just read all 21 pages; I think everyone has told their truths. I think this thread has explained why I have never had a relationship of any kind, professional or personal, with a T girl, other than a lucky happenstance one night stand in college. Many friends but no relationships. The girls who are working so hard at transition seem, to want guys to have very little to no interest in their plumbing. A lot of the girls find regular employment either difficult to obtain or insufficient to support them and the costs of their transition.
This seems to mean many, turn to escorting to pay the bills and that would just seem to open her up to some of the worst guys out there. Also it seems that the majority of this activity would focus on a part that she, in many cases, is looking to get rid of. I would imagine that would have a strong impact on one's opinion of men who are attracted to girls in the midst of transition.
Isn't it fundamentaly A LIE for a guy to be in a relationship of any kind, where one of the things that attracts him to her is something she wants to change? So for someone that wants to be honest, truthful, and open in a long term relationship, but wants her to keep her stuff, I must keep away until I find that special girl. So basically, I've given up, but at least I know I have not injured another or myself along the way.
It also does seem a little myopic to think that a man who would choose a pre-op t-girl over a gg is straight. He may not be gay, bi, etc. but he is at least curious in some respect. 100% straight men don't want anything to do with a penis. After SRS I get it but not b4.
Sorry if any of this seems ignorant or foolish, they are just my thoughts.
Nice post, Heiz, but regarding your last paragraph i've actually said my thoughts on that in a different topic. I think you can be straight and still like TG's, but i definatly don't want to bring that debate here. I posted it in the "is TG porn a gateway to Gay Porn" topic, or something to that effect.
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Originally Posted by Alyssa87
OK now I got ya, sometimes it takes me a minute to catch on, lol. So the rules in the mind of the delusional are...............................its ok for you to fantasize about have a penis in your mouth just as long as you dont actually do it? Its also ok to be on a shemale board posting about such things just as long as you keep it "a fantasy"?Quote:
Originally Posted by Surkis
I have news for you, in some peoples mind you might be considered bisexual and this might be a deal breaker to a potential partner. Most potential partners would want to know if you sit at home and stroke your Johnson thinking about another one deep in your mouth, whether you have done it or not.
This is ok to keep from a mate????.....Although I should expose my deep personal issues by the "first date".