T-girlfriend?

And just so we're CLEAR! Because it seems u dont know the difference between a prostitute and an escort.

A prostitute trades sex for money

A escort accepts a donation for time and companionship. Sex is never a guarantee

Granted a escort will ALSO have sex with their clients lots of the time, but this site is filed with pornstars and escorts and im sure that im not the only one who takes the term prostitute offensive

Its equal to calling a black person nigger
A spanish person a spick
a guy who posts on hungangels a fag....
u get the point

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there u go with the P word again i dont wana get hostile but ur being disrespectful. i asked very kindly that u not use the P word.

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I'm not being disrespectful just because you don't like a commonly accepted word to describe what "escorts" do. If a girl is charged with "prostitution" and it made the papers, would she tell the reporter that "i dont wana get hostile but ur being disrespectful. i asked very kindly that u not use the P word." It would be absurd.

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Ur saying that its impossible for a guy to wanna be in a relationship with an escort and im just trying to open up ur mind to the possibility.. no scratch that... fact that u are wrong! Because there ARE escorts in functional healthy relationships and i have seen it!

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I have seen ghosts.

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ur very arrogant. put aside the fact that we are talkin on a forum because when i asked u respectfully not to use the word prostitute its because i can tell the manner in which u were using it was intended to sting. Now im asking again as a person who is having a RESPECTFUL debate with another person, we can agree to disagree and thats fine. but its not necessary to mud sling, and im telling u that i feel disrespected when u use the word prostitue. Now u dont have to listen to me, but were not in a court and im not talking to a lawyer. im asking you to be respectful of the fact that i feel offended with your use of the word. And should u choose not to, then i know for a fact that ALL u r trying to do here, is like u said earlier, ruffle feathers.

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You did not ask respectfully. You demanded, then insinuated that you might get hostile. That's not exactly a mature, or effective, means of getting your way. I don't mean to make you angry but I think it is important not to lose your cool and act petulant just because someone does something you don't like.
To get back to the subject of this thread, that of a T-girlfriend, in my very humble opinion, I don't think trading sex for money is a healthy and viable long term option and so I don't think that there are many guys sincerely interested in women that pursue such work. You have a good head on your shoulders and I think you are limiting your potential by not aspiring to greater things in life. You have seen the darker side of the city I'm sure, but with a good heart and brain, you could really make a big difference in peoples' lives!

im not gonna get into the many reasons y transgirls escort because i'll be here forever, but life in the so called "real word" is not as easy for trans women as people like to think. Nor is it as profitable as the sex industry. Most of us girls are hot BECAUSE we escort! There is such a high demand for trannies and surgeries dont come cheap. I would never want to be in a relationship with someone who isn't bothered by my work. But im trying to open up ur mind to the fact that there are guys out there who are willling to accept it, and are not losers. Like i said earlier EVERY relationship takes work.

Say for example u meet a girl in a laundromat and u go on a few dates and things get more intimate. u 2 become close after a while and u REALLY like her and she REALLY likes u. And then she breaks the news that she is in the sex industry. She tels u her reasons for doing so, be it paying college, working on her transition or whatever. Now maybe YOU would choose not to pursue a relationship because in ur mind its doomed to fail. You're probably the jealous type or u know u couldnt handle it or whatever, but u really like her. I know lots of guys in that situation who would say hey i dont like what u do and most would say hell no at first, and shy away wind up missing the girl and feel that they will never find another woman like her. So they choose to pursue the relationship because they dont want to think about "What if's?" Theres so many diff scenario's.

I know one girl whos in a happy relationship with a school teacher. HE LOVES this girl, paid for her implants, nose job, trachea shave. Shes not using him, and he worked REALLY hard to get her her surgeries and she loves him very much and shes totally happy. they've been together like 5 yrs already. He doesnt cheat, she escorts from time to time. Heres the kicker, he is YOUNG, he is HOT and he is HUNG from what i hear. This gives me hope that MNAYBE there is someone out there for me

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im not gonna get into the many reasons y transgirls escort because i'll be here forever, but life in the so called "real word" is not as easy for trans women as people like to think. Nor is it as profitable as the sex industry. Most of us girls are hot BECAUSE we escort! There is such a high demand for trannies and surgeries dont come cheap. I would never want to be in a relationship with someone who isn't bothered by my work. But im trying to open up ur mind to the fact that there are guys out there who are willling to accept it, and are not losers. Like i said earlier EVERY relationship takes work.

Say for example u meet a girl in a laundromat and u go on a few dates and things get more intimate. u 2 become close after a while and u REALLY like her and she REALLY likes u. And then she breaks the news that she is in the sex industry. She tels u her reasons for doing so, be it paying college, working on her transition or whatever. Now maybe YOU would choose not to pursue a relationship because in ur mind its doomed to fail. You're probably the jealous type or u know u couldnt handle it or whatever, but u really like her. I know lots of guys in that situation who would say hey i dont like what u do and most would say hell no at first, and shy away wind up missing the girl and feel that they will never find another woman like her. So they choose to pursue the relationship because they dont want to think about "What if's?" Theres so many diff scenario's.

I know one girl whos in a happy relationship with a school teacher. HE LOVES this girl, paid for her implants, nose job, trachea shave. Shes not using him, and he worked REALLY hard to get her her surgeries and she loves him very much and shes totally happy. they've been together like 5 yrs already. He doesnt cheat, she escorts from time to time. Heres the kicker, he is YOUNG, he is HOT and he is HUNG from what i hear. This gives me hope that MNAYBE there is someone out there for me

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Well of course there is someone out there for you! Probably he's been walking the earth for as long as you have and then one day, bump, you'll meet each other.

Obviously I have my biases, but I will try to keep in mind Atticus Finch's words: "don't judge someone until you've walked a mile in their shoes." And perhaps the path does not matter as much as the end effect. I do not mean to judge you or diminish you, and I am sorry you were upset tonight. I remember a post I think it was you made a while back about your mom. Like I said, I think you have a big heart. My guess is that the future holds big things for you and that you'll put some of your many life experiences to use by making the world a better place...

:) OMG did i win??? lol just kidding. Thanx honey. I do expect big things for my future. I can feel it. I feel better now that youve opened ur mind a little bit

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:) OMG did i win??? lol just kidding. Thanx honey. I do expect big things for my future. I can feel it. I feel better now that youve opened ur mind a little bit

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THERE CAN BE ONLY ONE-Highlander.

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I have been living with my transsexual girlfriend in Bangkok for almost 7 months now. We met online and chatted, then I came to visit her during holidays last year. We hit it off and we realized we had strong feelings for eachother. And poof here I am. .

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Poof, exactly.
My guess is she has strong feelings for your wallet. Things may continue to go well as long as the money is there.

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Bitch . i am he gf and i never think shitty the same u thinks right now . actually i am good than u for sure Dumbass...