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Saifan, no, porn cannot give your wife an std , so I guess it 's the safer route .But do you think that watching TS porn is cheating ?
What ive found somewhat strange about the reactions to these married threads is they seem based in Christian values , which is kinda weird for a TS site .But then again the majority of us are conditioned by that nonsense - it is deep within our DNA .
I come from a Tantric background that sees

the universe as "amoral" ( it doesn't give a
shit) and there is no right and wrong to this world - it just is .

If the argument is about giving the wife an STD and not morality , are we supposing that the majority of TS sex workers are infected , and diseased ?
In my experience, the sex workers I've met are fastidious about safety .
And what happens later in marriage when sex eventually dries up ( as it always does) and couples prefer separate rooms ? Will the majority on this forum still condemned sex outside of marriage?

Has nothing to do with christian values. Ask the ol' wife if it's cool to cheat and you'll quickly find that it has everything to do with your WIFE's values... you know, the ones you swore under penalty of law to uphold and abide by?
Marriage is for better or worse, and if a life devoid of sticking you're dick in some stranger's greased up asshole = worse for you? Man up and deal it, you looked her in the eye, said some magic words and signed the dotted line.

Men cheat all the time and most people seem to be fine with that understanding. But because you want to cheat with a Transexual people find it more disgusting, including transexuals themselves. This is so weird.

Nope. Cheating like so many other things knows no gender... you're on a board where literally NO ONE thinks it's gross to have sex with a tranny. What you're failing to do is put yourself in the cheated person's shoes. THAT's where the disgust comes from. Don't kid yourself.

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Men cheat all the time and most people seem to be fine with that understanding. But because you want to cheat with a Transexual people find it more disgusting, including transexuals themselves. This is so weird.

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Men like variety so most are either going to cheat or live a life of regret being with only one woman. Most people understand this but seem to have a hard time accepting a man who chooses a tgirl as the other woman. Why?

Nope. Cheating like so many other things knows no gender... you're on a board where literally NO ONE thinks it's gross to have sex with a tranny. What you're failing to do is put yourself in the cheated person's shoes. THAT's where the disgust comes from. Don't kid yourself.

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Men like variety so most are either going to cheat or live a life of regret being with only one woman. Most people understand this but seem to have a hard time accepting a man who chooses a tgirl as the other woman. Why?

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Jamie French, you do realize that almost every man of note in the history of the world has cheated on his wife. But you're on this board crushing a random guy.

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Nope. Cheating like so many other things knows no gender... you're on a board where literally NO ONE thinks it's gross to have sex with a tranny. What you're failing to do is put yourself in the cheated person's shoes. THAT's where the disgust comes from. Don't kid yourself.

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Yeah it sucks for the woman and I have considered their shoes but what I think most people are doing is placing more judgment on this man because he cheats with a transexual. I find that hypocritical.

Hypocritical is the correct term here .My view is , do as thy will , break all boundaries , destroy all your values and their institutions .Throw off the shackles of morality and live a life of unadultarted pleasure .
Just my take on things .......

And Jamie French , please answer the question - have you , and do you sleep with married men ? If not , then respect .But if you have , then you have no credibility here .

I do believe in having morals but let's just be honest about what it is we are judging or being moral about. I think someone made the comment that the OP may be a sociopath because of his desire to cheat. Would you say the same about a man who cheats on his wife with another female? JFK, MLK, Bill Clinton, Jay Z, and the list goes on. Or are folks just picking on the married guy who also likes transexuals?

Well you could say all the names you have mentioned are sociopaths - most people in positions of power are .
But who is say the sociopath is wrong and how they live is not envied .
Imagine a life without empathy , remorse or guilt - must be beautiful.

Jamie , you have gone silent .Could you please the answer the question honestly .
If you do 't want to answer the question , then you must allow us to draw what conclusions we come to .

im not being hipocritical my view is the same (in response to what i saw on page 5)

i dont condone cheating whether its men cheating on women with gg, ts, or w.e
and likewise i dont condone women cheating on men with etc
same thing applies for ts relationships too

my thing is if i make a vow to someone i'm keeping it idc if the most beautiful girl or ts on the planet ask me to have sex with them.. i wouldnt

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Jamie , you have gone silent .Could you please the answer the question honestly .
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ANSWER THE QUESTION! lmao.

Tarot, Jamie very recently answered this in another thread.

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Men cheat all the time and most people seem to be fine with that understanding. But because you want to cheat with a Transexual people find it more disgusting, including transexuals themselves. This is so weird.

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hmm, no offense but i'm really not sure what world you're living in...i don't know anyone who's "fine with that". are you trying to rationalize something?

I'm randomly going through this post and I'm curious about her answer too lol..... I say get divorced dude.. BECAUSE I CAN'T FIGHT THESE FEELINGS ANYMOOOORRREEE....

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my thing is if i make a vow to someone i'm keeping it idc if the most beautiful girl or ts on the planet ask me to have sex with them.. i wouldnt

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Right on.

I'm just interested in knowing if , Jamie's "hang em high " attitude is coming from a place of true integrity and concern for others - or a defection of her own guilt ? And how does she feel that her porn videos may be contributing towards married men needing to act out with escorts ?

Tapitio , sorry , what thread was that ?

Nope, my Eros and Back Page ads specifically state that I do not take married clients. A hypocrite is that very last thing I am... my brains are mondo huge. This fucker, (me) aint got time to rationalize excuses or mince words.

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No one has gone silent... fuckers need to eat sleep and shit ya know.

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Jamie , you have gone silent .Could you please the answer the question honestly .
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If porn drives you to cheat, you have the mind of a disabled child. Who watches something, anything and then says... "yeah, I'mma do that, DESPITE the fact that I'm in no financial, emotional, practical, or intellectual state to do so."?

Thank you very much , Jamie .

I also think that's really great that , Jamie does make it clear that she does not see married men..
But I don't agree that porn does not lead men to cheat .
The first time I saw Transexual imagary was in screw magazine ,NYC , and I was hooked .
Up to that point I had no idea that chicks with dicks existed .It was pre internet , and that imagary created some kind of split in me .

Never said that porn doesn't drive people to cheat... only that if it does, they're less than what humanity expects out of civilized individuals. COPS was a show for a reason. Humanity is defined by self discipline. It's what sociopaths, lower apes and the majority of most other lower order animals lack.

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Talk to her then.

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Do not, I repeat Do Not, tell your wife. Do not broach the subject at all, whether it be with ts or gg (especially NOT ts). Do not do it. No good can come of it. You are stuck. You're only way out is to get a divorce. You cannot calmly speak to your wife about wanting to be unfaithful and think that she'll respond in a similarly calm and logical manner. She will either flip out or cry...or she'll act like it's okay and then make underhanded comments here and there and just do the whole passive-aggressive thing.

Just cheat or get a divorce. Do not expect any sympathy or understanding from your wife. You will not get it.

Jamie , I can't argue with that .The day is yours .

Not only will you not get it, you won't have deserved it anyhow.

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Do not, I repeat Do Not, tell your wife. Do not broach the subject at all, whether it be with ts or gg (especially NOT ts). Do not do it. No good can come of it. You are stuck. You're only way out is to get a divorce. You cannot calmly speak to your wife about wanting to be unfaithful and think that she'll respond in a similarly calm and logical manner. She will either flip out or cry...or she'll act like it's okay and then make underhanded comments here and there and just do the whole passive-aggressive thing.

Just cheat or get a divorce. Do not expect any sympathy or understanding from your wife. You will not get it.

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At this point you have 4 choices.

1). Be faithful to her for the rest of your life and forget about your infatuation with trans women. = fair and loving.
2). Divorce her = break her heart.
3). Tell her about it then divorce her = break her heart then rip it out and stomp on it right in front of her.
4.) Cheat on her = possibly catch something and give it to her, break her heart, then rip it out and stomp on it right in front of her and have her take you to divorce court and make a total fool out of you and pay out the ass for God knows how many years.


obviously option 1 sounds like the most fair and reasonalble option. But let's face it. That ain't never gonna happen. Options 3&4 would be totally cold hearted and chicken shit to say the least. So it looks like option 2 is the only viable solution here.

One can resolve to be faithful.Once a person understand the full ramifications , it becomes much easier .
I feel this discussion has been very worthwhile for everyone involved , and I have learnt a lot .
I would like to thank , Jamie for her Intelligent arguments and integrity .

Have any of you BEEN cheated on before? It's awful.

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You're right. But it's a sad situation for him. He wants something his wife is not and can never be. It's not like he wants another woman: a skinnier woman or more busty woman or whathaveyou. He wants a transwoman. His desire for the ts is not based on the same desire he has for his wife. It's like comparing apples and oranges. That should make his wife more understanding, but it won't.

Thanks everyone for your insight. Im am honestly suprised by the responses, I will not be telling her of my intentions, I will fulfill my desires, I will not bring any diseases to myself or her. Thanks for all the insight friends

Here's to hoping you the very worst.

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Thanks everyone for your insight. Im am honestly suprised by the responses, I will not be telling her of my intentions, I will fulfill my desires, I will not bring any diseases to myself or her. Thanks for all the insight friends

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I find the OPs plight and the responses to be most intriguing.

Fortunately for me I never married my childhood sweetheart.
Unfortunately for me I was encouraged by friends at a young age to cheat on my first few girlfriends.
Fortunately, I have realised that I have commitment issues and I've never popped the question.
Unfortunately for me I may never have a true and lasting relationship or marriage.

Oh, and now there is the tgirl attraction aswell. I will always be into both tgirls and ggs.

Same for the OP it seems. You just have to find a way to accept who you are and deal with it. I say hope for the best but prepare for the worst in your marriage.

Summer69, it's not the physical disease you need worry about ,it's the mental and spiritual ones that do the real damage.
The problem isn't so much the sex it's the "lying" ,it rots ones soul .
No matter how safe you are in your safe sex practise , and I'm sure if you're fastidious you'll avoid STD - you will still have secrets .And it's these secrets that do the damage .
My advice is , think twice before you marry ,and if possible avoid it .

Monogamy is unnatural (especially for men). There will always be a struggle for a man to be 100% faithful to his partner. I applaud any man willing to admit his struggle. The level of condemnation and judgment I've seen on this thread is incredible. To the OP, I wish you the best. I wish your wife the best. If you cheat, be safe. If you get caught, don't blame your wife...just suck it up and take whatever she dishes. Continue to be honest with yourself regarding your struggles and try to be a better person each day. Hopefully, you don't allow folks to bully or guilt you into abrupt or bad decisions. Nobody is perfect but admitting that you are not is half the battle.

I agree with everything , Bigballings has said ."Monogamy is unnatural" - it is .And I also concur that the level of judgement and condemnation on this thread is incredible .But the issue is ,Summer69 is going into his marriage with the intention to continue sex with transexual prostitutes , and there lies the problem.
Maybe it would be different if he went into marriage resolved to give up TS sex and stay faithful .Probably extremely difficult to do and would most likely struggle .But the intention would be positive and with time and discipline he could overcome his urges.
But I say "why put yourself through any of this at all , and just don't get married" .Stay free .Stay happy .