Why are you single?

Im kind of single, although I am sort of dating a personal trainer who works at the gym I train at. It has not reached a sexual level as we have only just started seeing each other. Im just a bit wary as although she is really hot, I love my gym and train there three times a week and would not want to change if things do not go well and there is a weird atmosphere and gossip about me there. Maybe im just being paranoid but it's kind of like dating someone from work, if things go wrong with that person you are with it can be very hard to concentrate and a bad atmosphere can arise. So to sum up im not really looking for a relationship with this girl just some good clean fun (not to clean), I hope she sees it the same but it's always hard to tell. :)

Don't you just hate it when people get there wires crossed............

Well, Hara, I dunno if I posted in here or not, and not about to look back through several pages, but this thread I posted, http://www.hungangels.com/board/view...ighlight=girls, will explain why I am still fucking dateless. :evil: :x

1. I'm recently single. i just broke up with my ex because we didnt see each other enough to hold it together, since we lived a few hours away from each other.

2. I've been single for about a week now.

3. I'm not looking to jump right into a relationship, but but im not opposed to it either. If it happens, it should hopefully be a little easier than my previous relationship.

4. I think its possible that i could be in a relationship, but it wont kill me if im not. being single is pretty fun.

5. I'm not gonna be searching for that special someone high and low, im just gonna enjoy life and go out and have fun. If i run into her then awesome, im not gonna fight it.

6. N/A

7. I'm not really sure, I'll shell out cash to go on dates and stuff, but thats just normal.

Lol, wow. I was a real dick towards Lexi. Guess I was having a bad day/week

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1. I am single b/c I am too shy to initiate a conversation with any girl I find good looking or attractive, and b/c I am soo inexperienced that I have never even gotten past 2nd base with anyone.

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Aww..what you need bulldog is just constant practice. And it doesnt hurt to have a little faith in yourself! ;)

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"Whay are you single?"

I aint. :D

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Well, Hara, I dunno if I posted in here or not, and not about to look back through several pages, but this thread I posted, http://www.hungangels.com/board/view...ighlight=girls, will explain why I am still fucking dateless. :evil: :x

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LOL I know Trogdor. Women are hard to SPELL at times. But hey you can't live with them, can't live without them. :lol: :wink:

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I'm single and probably will be 4 ever because I transformed from a guy who likes women,to a guy who likes women and T-girls, to a guy who likes T-girls.Since that is a very very small subset of humanity and even a smaller subset of that are genuinely looking for a relationship---the odds are against it.

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I'm single and probably will be 4 ever because I transformed from a guy who likes women,to a guy who likes women and T-girls, to a guy who likes T-girls.Since that is a very very small subset of humanity and even a smaller subset of that are genuinely looking for a relationship---the odds are against it.

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you make your own future and if you are so set on having a pitiful life then you WILL have one. Grow some balls. Move to New York/LA/Atlanta, get a Job, go to some places where the girls hang out, get a few drinks in your system, solidify that backbone and have some of the best sex you never thought you'd ever have....and while you're at it, you may even develope a healthy relationship with someone.

Easier said than done, sure? But like anything that's worth a damn in life it always is.

Co-sign what DKG said. :P

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I actually choose to be single right now. Somewhat :roll: I know I need to work on some issues, so I can have a positive and healthy relationship with the next individual I'm involved with. That didn't stop me from having a brief something with a model I work with though. That didn't workout well :cry:

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Well, Hara, I dunno if I posted in here or not, and not about to look back through several pages, but this thread I posted, http://www.hungangels.com/board/view...ighlight=girls, will explain why I am still fucking dateless. :evil: :x

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LOL I know Trogdor. Women are hard to SPELL at times. But hey you can't live with them, can't live without them. :lol: :wink:

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I'm single and probably will be 4 ever because I transformed from a guy who likes women,to a guy who likes women and T-girls, to a guy who likes T-girls.Since that is a very very small subset of humanity and even a smaller subset of that are genuinely looking for a relationship---the odds are against it.

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you make your own future and if you are so set on having a pitiful life then you WILL have one. Grow some balls. Move to New York/LA/Atlanta, get a Job, go to some places where the girls hang out, get a few drinks in your system, solidify that backbone and have some of the best sex you never thought you'd ever have....and while you're at it, you may even develope a healthy relationship with someone.

Easier said than done, sure? But like anything that's worth a damn in life it always is.

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OK, the longer I live, the more I question how much control we have over how destiny. Sure we can make our own decisions, but as I look at my life I can see how there were times I was supposed to get to a certain thing, but I chose something different, only to end up where I would have been anyway, only later in time. Sometimes things are gonna happen whether you fight them or not.
Now, why does being single mean it's a pitiful life? In reality what I want is an android that will come when I say so,make love to me when I want to,go to events when I need an escort, THEN DISAPPEAR TIL I NEED HER AGAIN! That doesn't exist!
I'm pretty much done with the having the best sex of my life stuff, so that doesn't even enter into the equation.There's nothing new under the sexual sun, so I'd be looking for something deeper than sex.
I had planned on moving to Florida 'til I realized how stupid it would be if my ONLY reason was to increase the traffic of t-girls in my life.Although I'm close to being obsessed, it's not the only thing I live for yet!

1. Why are you single? Girls do not like me. I have low self-esteem. I have a very secluded life.

2. How long have you been single? 33 years

3. What are you seeking out on here (online or in real time)? On-line: beauty. Real-time: nothing

4. Do you think you'll ever find what you're seeking for within a few months to a year (timeframe) from now? No, I do not think so.

5. If you've answered YES to No.4, How do you plan to go abouts finding what you are looking for?

6. If you've answered NO to No.4, Why not? Because I should find an angel, and angels are in heaven.

7. Would you invest alot of your time on here (Online or in real time), money and what not to find it? I have to sort out the issue of a job, in order to be able to court a girl.

8. If you answered NO to No.7, Then what are your other options? Suicide.

I choose to be single at the moment because I so much stuff going on in my life that I'm not sure that I could handle someone else's shit on top of my own. Yeah, I'm still struggling with the stuff that I wrote here before (for those that remember), but life IS getting easier, bit by bit. Like that one Beatles song, "Life is getting better all the time", or something. I dunno.

But once I have my own stuff in gear, I definately plan to go looking for someone. To answer the questions question by question...

1. Why are you single? By choice. Well, perhaps my looks also have something to do with it, but I'm choosing at the moment to be single.

2. How long have you been single? Damn...all my life?

3. What are you seeking out on here (online or in real time)? In real time? Just someone who understands me. Online? Just people to chat with, I suppose. There ARE some pretty cool people on this board, that's for sure.

4. Do you think you'll ever find what you're seeking for within a few months to a year (timeframe) from now? Within a year I hope to...but do I think I will? Unlikely.

5. If you've answered YES to No.4, How do you plan to go abouts finding what you are looking for? Bars, bars, bars and more bars. If there's anywhere else to meet women (besides a club--I can't dance worth a damn), then please, tell me.

7. Would you invest alot of your time on here (Online or in real time), money and what not to find it? Possibly. Not money, I don't think, since it's hard for me to come by. But time definately.

Blimey Hara_Juku .. you don't arf ask 'em ... :wink:

Firstly I'd like to ask why any mindless idiot would leave Lexi for anyone else ? .. it beggars belief .. just a great shame that she's in Canada & I'm stuck in UK ... Grrr.

Secondly .. my wife & I parted amicably 3 years ago,after 33 years of marriage.The marriage had essentially been "dead" for quite some time & I take my full share of the blame for that.We still keep in touch on a regular basis & although we no longer love one another,I think we'd both be upset if any harm befell the other.

We have two lovely kids (now both grown up .. 32 & 26 yrs respectively) so they didn't suffer as a result of our decision & we decided to part company to coincide with my retirement. We now live approx 250 miles apart,though we do occasionally meet for Christmas,kid's Birthdays etc.

I am now single,live alone & have done for the last 3 years .. although in that time I've had two very good relationships with Transgendered ladies & a number of dates.Incidentally,my appreciation for Transgendered women had nothing whatever to do with the break-up of my marriage.

I'm prepared to invest as much time,effort & money in establishing a new relationship as it takes .. Obviously,I'm looking for a suitable TG lady with a view to a LTR .. therefore time & effort are rather more important than money .. but I'm by no means a cheapskate .. :lol:

If this site proves to be the place where I meet my next partner .. so much the better.

Bye for now,

Poacher.

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Well, Hara, I dunno if I posted in here or not, and not about to look back through several pages, but this thread I posted, http://www.hungangels.com/board/view...ighlight=girls, will explain why I am still fucking dateless. :evil: :x

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LOL I know Trogdor. Women are hard to SPELL at times. But hey you can't live with them, can't live without them. :lol: :wink:

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1. Ia happily married (to a beautiful pre-op TS).

2. We've been married since November 2006 and in relationship for 2 years.

3. I'm here to keep up with latest news and developments in the TS scene and movie/internet industry. Both me and my wife like porn.

4. I find it every time i log in. My long term happiness is based with my wife and I only 'window-shop' here.

5. Keep logging in.

6. N/A

7. No

8. I already have what I want.

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Well, Hara, I dunno if I posted in here or not, and not about to look back through several pages, but this thread I posted, http://www.hungangels.com/board/view...ighlight=girls, will explain why I am still fucking dateless. :evil: :x

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LOL I know Trogdor. Women are hard to SPELL at times. But hey you can't live with them, can't live without them. :lol: :wink:

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Neither is that one. >_>

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OK, the longer I live, the more I question how much control we have over how destiny. Sure we can make our own decisions, but as I look at my life I can see how there were times I was supposed to get to a certain thing, but I chose something different, only to end up where I would have been anyway, only later in time. Sometimes things are gonna happen whether you fight them or not.
Now, why does being single mean it's a pitiful life? In reality what I want is an android that will come when I say so,make love to me when I want to,go to events when I need an escort, THEN DISAPPEAR TIL I NEED HER AGAIN! That doesn't exist!
I'm pretty much done with the having the best sex of my life stuff, so that doesn't even enter into the equation.There's nothing new under the sexual sun, so I'd be looking for something deeper than sex.
I had planned on moving to Florida 'til I realized how stupid it would be if my ONLY reason was to increase the traffic of t-girls in my life.Although I'm close to being obsessed, it's not the only thing I live for yet!

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you can have a successful and fulfiling life in florida. It doesnt have to be about the girls, but if you are so obsessed with them that you feel its something missing in your life, then why not? Also, if all you want is an andriod then I feel sorry for you. You obviously dont want a REAL and healthy relationship. Sounds more like you want a regular **** buddy. If thats what you want then I suggest you look into the escort business. But then you go on to contradict yourself by saying you want something "Deeper" than sex.

I think like a lot of people out here, you dont really know what you want. You have a general idea but you are still confused, searching.


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OK, the longer I live, the more I question how much control we have over how destiny. Sure we can make our own decisions, but as I look at my life I can see how there were times I was supposed to get to a certain thing, but I chose something different, only to end up where I would have been anyway, only later in time. Sometimes things are gonna happen whether you fight them or not.
Now, why does being single mean it's a pitiful life? In reality what I want is an android that will come when I say so,make love to me when I want to,go to events when I need an escort, THEN DISAPPEAR TIL I NEED HER AGAIN! That doesn't exist!
I'm pretty much done with the having the best sex of my life stuff, so that doesn't even enter into the equation.There's nothing new under the sexual sun, so I'd be looking for something deeper than sex.
I had planned on moving to Florida 'til I realized how stupid it would be if my ONLY reason was to increase the traffic of t-girls in my life.Although I'm close to being obsessed, it's not the only thing I live for yet!

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you can have a successful and fulfiling life in florida. It doesnt have to be about the girls, but if you are so obsessed with them that you feel its something missing in your life, then why not? Also, if all you want is an andriod then I feel sorry for you. You obviously dont want a REAL and healthy relationship. Sounds more like you want a regular **** buddy. If thats what you want then I suggest you look into the escort business. But then you go on to contradict yourself by saying you want something "Deeper" than sex.

I think like a lot of people out here, you dont really know what you want. You have a general idea but you are still confused, searching.


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I don't think I'm confused about what I would want from someone, but not sure how easily I can integrate a fulltime relationship into a life that has become so much only about me. It's sorta like kids--- I love hanging around other peoples kids because I can leave when I don't feel like being bothered. I would love to wake up with someone in my bed, but not everyday...Yep...I'm confused

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EXACTLY!
Funny I won one of those at one of Allanahs parties (actually a girl won it and gave it to me). We took it back to my room, but only used the "throbbing member" part :lol:

LOL You're quite funny sucka4chix. :lol:

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LOL You're quite funny sucka4chix. :lol:

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Well, we didn't have a pump and we were too busy blowing each other.
Wow that was a great night, li'l too tipsy tho'

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LOL You're quite funny sucka4chix. :lol:

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Well, we didn't have a pump and we were too busy blowing each other.
Wow that was a great night, li'l too tipsy tho'

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Why are you single?

Im wondering how many people on here can answer these question honestly:

1. Why are you single?

*I am very picky. To my discredit, I have likely ended several potential LTRs during the dating process for quite whimsical reasons of either mine or hers.

2. How long have you been single?

*About 10 years without a serious relationship, maybe a little over a year since I went on a date, several years since I went on multiple dates with 1 person. (see #1 for irrational reasoning :roll: )

3. What are you seeking out on here (online or in real time)?

*Love. A partnership. Someone I can realize my dreams with. Someone who realizes her dreams with me.

4. Do you think you'll ever find what you're seeking for within a few months to a year (timeframe) from now?

*Yes. Time is as Einstein said "relative". Ask me 2 years from now and I might say that I found her in days while she might say it took weeks or months to find it in me. If that sounded cryptic, let's just say that I have found someone I feel strongly about and believe in my heart I can realize my dreams with, but it is up to her to find it in me now.

5. If you've answered YES to No.4, How do you plan to go abouts finding what you are looking for?

*Give her whatever she needs from me: my heart, my ear, my time. (Virtual breakfast in bed :wink: )

6. If you've answered NO to No.4, Why not?

*Skip to the loo, my darling

7. Would you invest alot of your time on here (Online or in real time), money and what not to find it?

*Assuming that the feeling is mutual, I would travel to the ends of the earth for her.

8. If you answered NO to No.7, Then what are your other options?

*Skip to the loo, my darling (really who skips to there? I see "accidents" happening that way. :lol: )

***To the overall question of Why are you single? and clarification of some answers: The pickiness I had was almost Chandler Bing, Jerry Seinfeld, or Eddie Murphy in "Boomerang" like. I didn't know I was doing it, and until recently unaware of the walls and obstacles I had self-imposed to avoid sharing myself. But now that I have taken those walls down, it is just a matter of time and commitment.

1. Why are you single? (If you're attached, in a relationship or is married..then the question would be: Are you happily married or happy with your current relationship?)

Lets just say I've had a few bad experiences the past few years. Was with a gf for 3 1/2 years before all hell broke loose, and my last gf went psychotic on beer and anti-depressants. So I'm a bit jaded as far as jumping into another relationship.

2. How long have you been single? (If you're attached, in a relationship or is married..then the question would be: How long have you been in a relationship or have been married?)

Since last fall.

3. What are you seeking out on here (online or in real time)? If married or attached and in a relationship..What then seems to be lacking in your present relationship as the case may be?

Discussion, entertainment, making friends, maybe meet someone special

4. Do you think you'll ever find what you're seeking for within a few months to a year (timeframe) from now?

It's possible

5. If you've answered YES to No.4, How do you plan to go abouts finding what you are looking for?

putting on a blindfold and playing pin the tail on the donkey. I couldn't possibly pick the next gf any worse than the last two :P

6. If you've answered NO to No.4, Why not?

7. Would you invest alot of your time on here (Online or in real time), money and what not to find it?
if i click with the person, yes

8. If you answered NO to No.7, Then what are your other options?

1. Why are you single?

*just havent meet anyone who has caught my intrest as of late. went on a couple of dates last week just no chemistry there.

2. How long have you been single?

*was dating a ts back in jan for 2 months first month was great, thought hey this could be something, but ended up being someone who was different than what i had originally thought. not sure if it really that counts, before that was in a 5 yr relationship. so 3months but emotionally alot longer.

3. What are you seeking out on here (online or in real time)?

*just someone who i really connect with, im a nice guy looking for, the girl next door type dont seem 2 come across those to often these days.

4. Do you think you'll ever find what you're seeking for within a few months to a year (timeframe) from now?

* um not sure if it happened would be great if not keep on looking.

5. If you've answered YES to No.4, How do you plan to go abouts finding what you are looking for?

* just get out, go out on dates till i find someone that matchs great for myself.

6. If you've answered NO to No.4, Why not?

*my answer was kinda of a maybe to number #4 so ill answer both yes and no. sometimes i just really have bad luck with women.

7. Would you invest alot of your time on here (Online or in real time), money and what not to find it?

* everyone goes thru ups and down in relationships if u find someone who is special enough and suits u why not i would.

Nice avatar cuteguy79. ;)

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thank u Hara_Juku Tgirl nice avatar urself :)

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Why are you single?

Im wondering how many people on here can answer these question honestly:

1. Why are you single? (If you're attached, in a relationship or is married..then the question would be: Are you happily married or happy with your current relationship?)

Ovid said, "I chase those who flee me, and flee those who chase me", and I think that pretty much sizes me up. I don't suffer from a dearth of female companionship, but there is no depth in any of those relationships. I've had one woman who until recently gave up on me after two years. She had it all: Looks, education, success,etc., but she wasn't for me, as I felt I didn't have compatibility where it mattered. I try to account for all contingencies, as I don't care to have my heart broken by not studying the situation clearly through. Iow, I can't allow my libido to take charge.

2. How long have you been single? (If you're attached, in a relationship or is married..then the question would be: How long have you been in a relationship or have been married?)

Hmmmmm. It's been a long time since I've had someone I could call "my girlfriend". Too long. :)

3. What are you seeking out on here (online or in real time)? If married or attached and in a relationship..What then seems to be lacking in your present relationship as the case may be?

Hmmmm. Compatibility for one thing. Someone to have fun with.

4. Do you think you'll ever find what you're seeking for within a few months to a year (timeframe) from now?

No. The worse thing one could do is put a timeline on something like that, because you can't ... you shouldn't. Not only that, I am not really actively seeking that right now. If it happens, it happens.

5. If you've answered YES to No.4, How do you plan to go abouts finding what you are looking for?

6. If you've answered NO to No.4, Why not?

It is the epitome of desperation to force a relationship with another complex individual based on a timeline. These things generally happen when one is not on the prowl.

7. Would you invest alot of your time on here (Online or in real time), money and what not to find it?

Hmmmm, good question. Again, this is something that would just happen. I don't know if one can plan on this.

8. If you answered NO to No.7, Then what are your other options?

This should make for very interesting thread and responses. So start the ball rollin'. LOL. Laughing

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Im wondering how many people on here can answer these question honestly:

This should make for very interesting thread and responses. So start the ball rollin'. LOL. :lol:

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Honesty...okay.

Haven't found the right person. I'm not just after sex. I wish I was. But I'm not. I'm looking for intimacy, trust, and and an open and honest relationship. Finding that is anything but easy.

The worst part is my sexuality. I have girls that like me. Not a problem at all. But I like transgendered girls. So, I've basically been celibate for about 4 years now since I ended a 13 year relationship with a TS (we're friends now...long story).

As for hoping I'll find something online...given up hope on that. As for meeting someone at one of the many parties, I really doubt it. Or at least finding what I'm looking for. I mean, grabbing my crotch or wagging an ass in front of my face is really lame. And I really, really don't care how big someone's dick is. I'd much prefer a conversation...maybe I'm looking for love in all the wrong places? :P

The thing is I don't have a problem taking care of someone financially. But, to me, I feel bad giving a tgirl money for sex. I feel I'm letting her down, if that makes any sense. Money doesn't buy happiness or if it does, it's very short-lived. I know, I've had tons of money, lost tons of money, and got it all back again. Yeah, I can afford lots of stuff, but I kick around in jeans and a tshirt and take the subway. To me, anyone who's impressed by a car or a jet or whatever accoutrement people buy to give themselves self-esteem is only letting him or herself down in the end.

I sound bitter, but I'm really not. Always find me with a smile and always, always ready to have fun and dance. Life's too short to take it seriously.

much peace all. :)

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Could you elaborate Mr whatsupwithat? :P

What has changed?

;)

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