Why is it so hard to ind a TS who actualy wants a relationship?

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

Not sure why either, my husband prefers sex with trans over women. He says the ass is tighter and basically feels the same as pussy, and not a lot of females will let you fuck them in the ass. If they do, he said they were never good at it.

He also says, he loved eating out girls, but only found a few he actually enjoyed it with. He says as long as an ass is clean there is no smell and same with a cock if it's clean.

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I think it's because they want to be seen and validated as women, hence they want 100% straight guys. The thing is these types of guys wouldn't touch them, as they tend to think of ts girls as 'men,' where as it's guys like us who like ts' that are likely to view them as women.

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Originally Posted by archineer

Basically they want to be seen and validated as women, hence they want 100% straight guys. The thing is these types of guys wouldn't touch them, as they tend to think of ts girls as 'men,' where as it's guys who like ts' who are more likely to view them as women.

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Exactly and sex is meant to be enjoyed. What if the guy you are fucking can't get you off anally. I can with my husband, but I always thought gee what if I couldn't. That would suck.

Men want to please the woman they love, that's why so many women fake it. Otherwise it would work on the males self-esteem.

Kelly - You have a point - a very valid one.
Sex is important, very! But there is a ying/yang dicotemy (sp?) here. There are trade offs. Maybe, for some, the aspects of the non-sexual, caring/loving part make up for some of the sexual?
And - in an open, trusting, (you know what you got into) relationship - the sexual part can be figured out.
Now - if the physical part is out from the beginning- it will not work - obviously - but you would never have gotten to that point in the first place.
We all like rocket sex, but as you get to a certian point in life - is that all there is? Trust me - we're all getting there!
For me - A SECURE STRAIGHT MAN - I actually enjoy sex with a TS girl as much or more than a GG.

It's the realtionship which it's all about--

Just me rambling-

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

Well that's because you prefer pussy over ass.

Some men may disagree with you, and I've been fucked in my ass over and over again by my husband and it's still tight.

The problem is a lot of girls don't fuck a dick like a pussy can, some girls can but a lot of girls can't.

You even see it in porn movies, the girl barely takes it and bounces on it here and there. The guy is always jerking off at the end to climax.

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They're jerking at the end cause its porn and need to cum on demand.plus allot of directors want a visible cum shot.you see the same thing in straight porn

^ Beauty AND brains!!

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Originally Posted by Janna_b

We could almost say the same thing back to you...why is it so hard to find a guy who wants something more than exploring what's between my legs, and wants a relationship outside of the bedroom.

We all face the same challenges in looking for a relationship, it's just a matter of never giving up until you find that needle in the haystack.

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^ Fuckin' A this! <3

~BB~

Ugh..i hate how people try to say because a guy is with me than he isn't straight, he's atleast bi.for some guys it isn't about an attraction to cock but his attraction to the woman i am.its those type of guys who aren't going to get all bothered when i get srs.

it doesn't bother me

it isn't necessary unless it's a long term thing

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

Exactly and sex is meant to be enjoyed. What if the guy you are fucking can't get you off anally. I can with my husband, but I always thought gee what if I couldn't. That would suck.

Men want to please the woman they love, that's why so many women fake it. Otherwise it would work on the males self-esteem.

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Indeed. It's no good being with someone who isn't secure enough in themselves to be with you so why would any girl bother pining after guys like that?

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Originally Posted by FreddieGomez

i would lose interest just having anal sex every day....and wouldn't ya'lls ass get stretched and loose?

i love genetic women too but if a ts had a vagina that would be best...

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RE your signature "pussy is ALWAYS free for me"
That must also mean the babies you're having with all those different PR mammas are free too, with the state paying for the healthcare and foodstamps...because if you were covering that, the pussy wouldn't be free...would it?

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Originally Posted by amberskyi

Ugh..i hate how people try to say because a guy is with me than he isn't straight, he's atleast bi.for some guys it isn't about an attraction to cock but his attraction to the woman i am.its those type of guys who aren't going to get all bothered when i get srs.

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I don't you get what I mean, by 100% straight i'm talking about the average guy who has a degree of internalised homophobia and can't think of ts as anything other than 'men.' I have a lot of straight friends like this (most of the guys here will.) Personally i'm pretty gender blind so it doesn't even enter my head.

So are you saying in order to be straight one has to be homophobic lmao.and you'd be surprised how many dudes I've messed with are homophobes (in regard to gay men) regardless of their girl having a dick.it pisses me off allot

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Originally Posted by nysprod

RE your signature "pussy is ALWAYS free for me"
That must also mean the babies you're having with all those different PR mammas are free too, with the state paying for the healthcare and foodstamps...because if you were covering that, the pussy wouldn't be free...would it?

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yup. sure why not?

but supporting a baby isn't paying for pussy.

i am court ordered to pay child support for my son and if it happens with my daughter, then so be it.

they're my responsibility not yours to worry about.

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Originally Posted by FreddieGomez

yup. sure why not?

but supporting a baby isn't paying for pussy.

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Really? You fucked, and now you're payin the momma for the next 18 years...what you call that?

A woman's pussy get stretched after times, esp with vagina birth. I prefer childless woman or woman who gave birth through sx through stomach, keeping those walls tight. Anal sex is different, having it nightly would be boring. I am also suspect of woman who can take my dick up he ass...about 75% who let me fuck than in the ass has problems with it, no matter what the size of the dick is. But just strictly anal sex, nightly would be boring, potentially dangerous to the transwoman, and would stretch the ass to becoming unsightly and does not feel good. Finally diversity is important in a long term relationship

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Originally Posted by amberskyi

So are you saying in order to be straight one has to be homophobic lmao.and you'd be surprised how many dudes I've messed with are homophobes (in regard to gay men) regardless of their girl having a dick.it pisses me off allot

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lol ok no I don't mean that..... bad choice of words.

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Originally Posted by nysprod

Really? You fucked, and now you're payin the momma for the next 18 years...what you call that?

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that money isn't entitled to her personally. it is to support OUR child.

"RE your signature "pussy is ALWAYS free for me"
That must also mean the babies you're having with all those different PR mammas are free too, with the state paying for the healthcare and foodstamps... "

This should be good!

what can i say?

some chicks want this dick.

don't get me started. i know i have a big head but still...

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Originally Posted by FreddieGomez

that money isn't entitled to her personally. it is to support OUR child.

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You gotta hand over 18% to the momma, even if she's with another man who's giving her money, or even if she wins the lottery...you payin' for pussy, dude!

Starting to get annoyed as fuck

I don't take this serious not a bit

Ii don't blame you...

After i take my daughter home it's time to pop these bottles

Paralyses of choice.
There there are a finite number of "admirers" out there, they are greater than the number of trans women who are passible.
(The ones who look like grandmothers....well who wants to fuck them?)
So the girls in effect are paralyzed in not making a single choice because they have too many options. They are always in a state of sitting and waiting for the next perfect guy to come around the corner.
And since perfection is next to impossible to find or obtain they end up waiting and waiting. Until you have granny trannies

Those that boast - have the least.
Those that dismiss - have even less-

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Originally Posted by SXFX

Paralyses of choice.
There there are a finite number of "admirers" out there, they are greater than the number of trans women who are passible.
(The ones who look like grandmothers....well who wants to fuck them?)
So the girls in effect are paralyzed in not making a single choice because they have too many options. They are always in a state of sitting and waiting for the next perfect guy to come around the corner.
And since perfection is next to impossible to find or obtain they end up waiting and waiting. Until you have granny trannies

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there are more unpassable than passable.

sure some dudes will probably fuck an unpassable tranny but that doesn't mean they'd date them or even go out in public with them.

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Originally Posted by FreddieGomez

there are more unpassable than passable.

sure some dudes will probably fuck an unpassable tranny but that doesn't mean they'd date them or even go out in public with them.

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The voice of experience...

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Originally Posted by nysprod

The voice of experience...

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tsparisangelline told me this.

How unpassable we talking about?

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Originally Posted by FreddieGomez

there are more unpassable than passable.

sure some dudes will probably fuck an unpassable tranny but that doesn't mean they'd date them or even go out in public with them.

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Dude you are hurting my head....

# of dudes looking for TS >>>>>>>>> # of good looking TS girls

SO!
THE TS girls just sit and wait to see if there is a better choice out there.
But there isn't, after a while there is a finite level that is obtained.
Sure there may be few millionaire brain surgeon Brad Pitt look alikes out there who are ok to date and even marry a TS girl but that's 1/100,000
But when there are 100,000 choices the ladies wait.

Add to it that a large number of the passible women we find attractive and speak to here work in the sex industry.

built like the hulk?

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Originally Posted by SXFX

Dude you are hurting my head....

# of dudes looking for TS >>>>>>>>> # of good looking TS girls

SO!
THE TS girls just sit and wait to see if there is a better choice out there.
But there isn't, after a while there is a finite level that is obtained.
Sure there may be few millionaire brain surgeon Brad Pitt look alikes out there who are ok to date and even marry a TS girl but that's 1/100,000
But when there are 100,000 choices the ladies wait.

Add to it that a large number of the passible women we find attractive and speak to here work in the sex industry.

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i dont look like brad pitt but i am attractive and "black" alot of trannys love black men....in fact alot will charge other men and not me because i am what they prefer in their personal life. if i was into that kinda thing though, which i'm not....

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Originally Posted by FreddieGomez

built like the hulk?

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damn, I wouldn't punk the junk on no hulk ts with your dick...lol

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Originally Posted by FreddieGomez

i dont look like brad pitt but i am attractive and "black" alot of trannys love black men....in fact alot will charge other men and not me because i am what they prefer in their personal life. if i was into that kinda thing though, which i'm not....

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Dude, you are so FOS...

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Originally Posted by nysprod

Dude, you are so FOS...

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if u say so

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Originally Posted by FreddieGomez

i dont look like brad pitt but i am attractive and "black" alot of trannys love black men....in fact alot will charge other men and not me because i am what they prefer in their personal life. if i was into that kinda thing though, which i'm not....

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Me and most of my girl friends (who are latina) prefer latin men so there goes that theory lol

The middle easter guys, well we just get no love.
But such is life

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Originally Posted by amberskyi

Me and most of my girl friends (who are latina) prefer latin men so there goes that theory lol

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I can go with this..I prefer sexy Latin men or Italian men.