I guess what I'm trying to say is that gender isn't as black and white as the media makes it out to be. Just as gay and straight isn't black and white either. I fear you might be jumping ahead of yourself a bit if you think that talking about shoes, once having long hair, thinking as you would assume a woman thinks, and having other womanly tenancies labels you out as a closeted transgender person.
Not that there's anything wrong with that, but I'd assume (and correct me if I'm wrong here) that labeling yourself transgender would require some drive to either become a woman or the desire to become genderly ambiguous. If neither are true, then you're probably just like every other dude here on planet earth... just with a few more insecurities.
