Tgirls calling guys "fags" for liking them.

What are all you fags complaining about? We bitches love ya :)

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Originally Posted by trish

What are all you fags complaining about? We bitches love ya :)

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Ohhhh, Thank You, Thank You, Thank You ..... My Queen!!!:Bowdown::Bowdown::Bowdown::salad:whistle:

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Originally Posted by Nicole Dupre

Waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhh! *smfh

Get a life, you limp-wristed moaner.

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I cant let this pass by. Your name seems familiar. Weren't you the shy girl that used to post here, that was afraid to express your feelings?

I general there have been some good points made in this thread.

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Originally Posted by yodajazz

Your name seems familiar. Weren't you the shy girl that used to post here, that was afraid to express your feelings?

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:lol:
:Bowdown:
:dead:

:Bowdown::Bowdown::Bowdown:Trish - you are a lovely liberal "bitch" too

I'm pretty sure the OP is referring to Jennifer Justice though. She use the hurl the faggot word like there was no tomorrow. I wish she'd come back she was a riot.

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Originally Posted by Mayrah

Either way i think people shouldnt take it so seriously

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Yep, sticks and stones ...

They can call me a fairy or a faggot or a freak as long as they'll fuck with me and have mutual fun.

Man, you'd think there wasn't a search function around these parts or anything.

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Originally Posted by LovinThaTSLadiez

I understand that people get tired of seeing the same old topics, but they aren't obligated to comment, now are they? They insist on wasting their time being the "senior posters" instead of just passing us newbies on by.

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It's true we can pass it by, and for the most part we do (notice I didn't bother commenting on the substantive parts of this debate). However, there is also a nifty search function that could point you towards dozens upon dozens of threads that cover your question.

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Originally Posted by BellaBellucci

... such is the real faggotry of HA. :geek:

~BB~

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Pretty much lol

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Originally Posted by Birgitta

For some girls self respect is contrary to messing around with guys that like them because of their genitals only, and like yvonne said already, dont treat us like lepers outside of the bedroom...

If you want respect, you have to earn it

Most guys dont even see how disrespectfull they are treating tgirls and then are suddenly shocked we dont treat them right...coz what right do we have to stand up for ourselves right, the world does not respect us, we should be glad someone even gives us the time of day...

Well ill tell you something..its a 1000 times better to pet a dog then have such a man...
I dont need a man, if that means i will be lonely, so be it

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I think anyone who bases their own self esteem on an external source (most of us at some point) will innevitably have issues.

I agree about earning respect, but how exactly is anyone going to achieve that while attempting to put others down?

And an eye-for-an-eye mentality is pretty primitive imo.

Depending on the girl and the scene, 'faggot' can be a term of endearment.lol

If having a tgirl call you a fag is a big-time stressor for you, maybe being with TGs isn't your thing.

I've been called a fag lover for supporting gay marriage rights. I've had dudes call me a homo for calling random tgirls hott.

Being called a 'fag' by a tgirl isn't really a big deal IMO, and they only say that shit 'cause they know it really bothers newbies.

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Originally Posted by Birgitta

The reason i sometimes call guys gay, or having a gay attutide coz by some guys we are reduced to our male parts and are expected to behave like men in bed,...this crosses my limits and i have a hard time not thinking they are gay on some level...

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Excellent point Birgitta, and it applies equally to all men who disrespect women, whether tgirl or ggirl, by simply reducing her entire complex being to the sum of what happens to be between her legs. Doesn't necessarily make these guys fags, does make them morons undoubtedly.

Oh, and from time to time - and I know you'll find this hard to believe, me being such a nice guy and all - I've been called a cunt, but it hasn't as I recall on even a single occasion caused me to check what's between my legs in case it's changed or indeed to consider grs.....

Grow up FFS.

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Originally Posted by phobun

Some of the masochistic bottoms like it and they get off on being abused with these slurs. Dupre used to use it about every other word on this forum.

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right Pho-Fag....The word "fag" ( slang) can be used in many different forms just like "fuck" depending on the intent of the user. For example, Fag can be used to describe you, if used as an adjective... as many on here have done...but what would "fucking fag phobun " be?? 2 adjectives?
A tongue twister? or an appropriate description?

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Originally Posted by onmyknees

right Pho-Fag....The word "fag" ( slang) can be used in many different forms just like "fuck" depending on the intent of the user. For example, Fag can be used to describe you, if used as an adjective... as many on here have done...but what would "fucking fag phobun " be?? 2 adjectives?
A tongue twister? or an appropriate description?

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You keep making gay jokes at phobun, do you think they are funny? Do you think it hides the fact that you yourself are not heterosexual?

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Originally Posted by BBaggins06

Man, you'd think there wasn't a search function around these parts or anything.

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BBaggins06, I think you've raised your expectations far too high!!! SEARCH??? Why on earth would someone have enough sense to do that, before starting a new thread.....That's insanity!!!:whistle::whistle:

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Originally Posted by giovanni_hotel

If having a tgirl call you a fag is a big-time stressor for you, maybe being with TGs isn't your thing.

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That's not really the point the OP was making - he said it doesn't bother him. What he didn't understand was why a tgirl would choose to call an admirer gay, when it simultaneously undermines themselves. (ie If he's gay then she has to be a man)

And so far the theories seem to be about the tgirls resentment at the way they have been perceived in their life, and so strike out at someone to make themselves feel better. And possibly less victimised. Pretty weak if you ask me...

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Originally Posted by loveboof

That's not really the point the OP was making - he said it doesn't bother him. What he didn't understand was why a tgirl would choose to call an admirer gay, when it simultaneously undermines themselves. (ie If he's gay then she has to be a man)

And so far the theories seem to be about the tgirls resentment at the way they have been perceived in their life, and so strike out at someone to make themselves feel better. And possibly less victimised. Pretty weak if you ask me...

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That is such stupidity again coming from you...when a tgirl calls a guy gay for wanting her, she is aiming at the reasons he wants her....the cock, the fact that she was physically a man and now lives and looks like a woman, and Not because she is the woman he wants to be with, but because she is a man...

You are the weak minded person here...

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Originally Posted by Birgitta

That is such stupidity again coming from you...when a tgirl calls a guy gay for wanting her, she is aiming at the reasons he wants her....the cock, the fact that she was physically a man and now lives and looks like a woman, and Not because she is the woman he wants to be with, but because she is a man...

You are the weak minded person here...

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Still fighting the good fight, eh? You're a trip. :lol:

~BB~

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Originally Posted by Birgitta

That is such stupidity again coming from you...when a tgirl calls a guy gay for wanting her, she is aiming at the reasons he wants her....the cock, the fact that she was physically a man and now lives and looks like a woman, and Not because she is the woman he wants to be with, but because she is a man...

You are the weak minded person here...

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Where it's directed at individuals, that could well be the case, Birgitta, but where it's a bunch of tgirls together, it could just as easily be the wine talking and some bravado coming out which isn't intended seriously.

Come on fellas - you're out for a few beers, the discussion turns to women, t or gg, and nobody ever mentions the word bitch, slag or slut etc? Yeah, right, of course not.....

Stop being so fucking sensitive and grow up. Anyone would think you were gay..... :whistle:

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Originally Posted by BellaBellucci

Still fighting the good fight, eh? You're a trip. :lol:

~BB~

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Evening, BB, how jolly nice to see you.

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Originally Posted by BellaBellucci

Still fighting the good fight, eh? You're a trip. :lol:

~BB~

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you are way too bisexual to understand me lol

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Originally Posted by robertlouis

Evening, BB, how jolly nice to see you.

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Hey baby. How are you? I'm just chilling, amusing myself with this thread. Many lulz were had. :lol:

~BB~

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Originally Posted by Birgitta

you are way too bisexual to understand me lol

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You just made my day! EPIC lulz! Lovez it! :lol: :lol: :lol:

~BB~

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Originally Posted by BellaBellucci

You just made my day! EPIC lulz! Lovez it! :lol: :lol: :lol:

~BB~

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I'd love to see you and Birgitta together in a remake of Thelma and Louise.

Just as long as I get the Brad Pitt role.....

I would not call my bf gay, simply coz i would make sure he is not...

And if i did call him gay, he would be the gay guy that matches with me...

But bttm line, its not me that will call him gay, it could be his friends and family, behind his back...

So being overly sensitive about this means you fale the test when it comes to dating a tgirl

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Originally Posted by BellaBellucci

Hey baby. How are you? I'm just chilling, amusing myself with this thread. Many lulz were had. :lol:

~BB~

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Yep, another epic outpouring of male angst, using tgirls' views as yet one more excuse to defend their non-gayness. Happy, happy days. :dancing:

try explaining this coz i dont understand it...

If liking a tgirl ISNT gay...then why is it such a big deal when people find out your dating a tgirl ????

Makes no sense...at all ;)

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Originally Posted by Birgitta

That is such stupidity again coming from you...when a tgirl calls a guy gay for wanting her, she is aiming at the reasons he wants her....the cock, the fact that she was physically a man and now lives and looks like a woman, and Not because she is the woman he wants to be with, but because she is a man...

You are the weak minded person here...

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And this is such an inaccurate response again coming from you. I said the thery (your theory) was weak. Not the person.

I am not offended easily (call me what you want), I have simply attempted to clarify the OP's position for the people who failed to grasp it.

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Originally Posted by NYBURBS

Well, it might be your first time posting about it, but for ppl that have been on here a while it gets old seeing this same type of thread every few weeks. Not a slight toward you, just pointing out that the topic has been talked about ad nauseam and you'll never really get a consensus about it. A few other gems that continually pop up would be:

Why do some men like to bottom?
Is it gay to bottom?
It is gay to like trannies?
I'm straight because I top
Are TS that top really just gay men?
Would you date a TS?

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You forgot the always popular

Am I gay?

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Originally Posted by scubaman

You forgot the always popular

Am I gay?

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Well at least that one is non-judgmental. :geek:

~BB~

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Originally Posted by scubaman

You forgot the always popular

Am I gay?

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Originally Posted by BellaBellucci

Well at least that one is non-judgmental. :geek:

~BB~

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On this forum it only starts out non-judgmental

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Originally Posted by Birgitta

If liking a tgirl ISNT gay... Blah blah

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I've said before that I don't think sexuality is as cut and dry as gay/straight/bi.
(awesome I rhyme)

I think it's more of a spectrum. I am attracted to tgirls, so I am not all the way over on the 'straight' side. but I don't fancy men, so I am not 'gay' either.

I am not bi, because i don't like men and women.

Does that seem clearer for you?

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Originally Posted by scubaman

You forgot the always popular

Am I gay?

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You forgot:

Am i a ts for wanting to wear her clothes...?
Does that make me a lesbian ?
Is a ts a pervert because of my perverseness ?
Etc oh now that stuff is rarely discussed here...lol

Straaaange lol

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Originally Posted by loveboof

I've said before that I don't think sexuality is as cut and dry as gay/straight/bi.
(awesome I rhyme)

I think it's more of a spectrum. I am attracted to tgirls, so I am not all the way over on the 'straight' side. but I don't fancy men, so I am not 'gay' either.

I am not bi, because i don't like men and women.

Does that seem clearer for you?

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Thats fine but does not answer my question...

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Originally Posted by Birgitta

Thats fine but does not answer my question...

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This is what your question looked like to me: 1+1=5?

You mixed up sexuality with social perceptions.

It implied that the lack of conventional social acceptance with dating a tgirl was because of the consequent sexuality of 'the man'. There is a lot of information missing in that little equation!

So I covered your other issue - which was how a man can be attracted to tgirls without being gay.

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Originally Posted by loveboof

This is what your question looked like to me: 1+1=5?

You mixed up sexuality with social perceptions.

It implied that the lack of conventional social acceptance with dating a tgirl was because of the consequent sexuality of 'the man'. There is a lot of information missing in that little equation!

So I covered your other issue - which was how a man can be attracted to tgirls without being gay.

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I know there are guys that like ts that truely arent gay...
But you cant force me to not follow my intuition...

My question is no mix up...
Why be ashamed when you are straight ?

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Originally Posted by Birgitta

Why be ashamed when you are straight ?

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Are you implying that he should be ashamed if he's gay? :?

~BB~

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Originally Posted by BellaBellucci

Are you implying that he should be ashamed if he's gay? :?

~BB~

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Umm. How about like what you like, be true to yourself and to hell with all artificial labels?

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Originally Posted by BellaBellucci

Are you implying that he should be ashamed if he's gay? :?

~BB~

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No of course not ! Lol