Trolls like slingblade should get the banhammer
Otherwise, y'all should just stop talking to him and he'll go away.
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Trolls like slingblade should get the banhammer
Otherwise, y'all should just stop talking to him and he'll go away.
This bullshit shows how ignorant and closed mineded some people really are.
GENDER IDENTITY and SEXUAL PREFERENCE are 2 very different things.
If its not for you, move on.
Different strokes for different folks.
It may not go along with YOUR way of thinking, but who are you to say its wrong??
Some people are not educated or openminded to comprehend that.
I am a transexual woman.
I love my cock
I love my cock sucked
I don't have a vagina, I don't want a vagina
and sometimes I like to stick my cock in a mans ass.
Its just sex.
Before the sex I was a woman, during the sex I'm a woman and when the sex is done, no matter how its done, I'm still a woman.
A fair comment that I don't know you and I can't possibly ever understand where you're coming from as we have no doubt had different journeys to get to where we are today. The only way I can know anything about you is to make assumptions based on what you write and since your writings have a more or less common theme I think my assumptions are reasonable
I get your point, though, about you dating a man that is not a man in that he is ashamed of the person he chooses to be with. But understand that such a man exists outside the TS environment as well - he isn't unique to you. That is just a part of life and the people we encounter - you shouldn't judge men in general from such actions and instead should just choose more carefully your partners. chances are if a man is ashamed of you then he is ashamed of himself and if he's ashamed of himself or where he comes from then he will always be trying to cover up something. Do you get what I'm saying?
I think you are somehow in denial babe, there is nothing wrong with being a tswoman but it isnt exactly usual for woman to fuck men, and for men to be fucked by woman, thats different and thats fine..i am not saying that you are less of a woman coz of it
But i am saying that i think a guy like slingblade should be treated with more understanding, and the fact that he wants his tgirls to actually be woman!!! Instead of a fetish, i think he supports us more then most other admirers do...
I respect your point of view but i respect his too
I maybe dreadfully serious and all too realistic about it all, but if i was just a woman, period. Then why will most straight men still turn me down for being a ts????
Bitch we are transexuals not females.
If a man doesnt like cock, he should stick to pussy
if a tranny hates her cock, cut it off.
BUT to fuckin sut here and say that a transwoman using her coock is wrong makes you a daymn fool.
I am 39 years old. I have dated STRAIGHT men since i was 17.
My cock and how I use it, didn't make me any LESS of a woman, if my man wanted some cock every once in a while, doesn't make him any less of a man.
If your dick is an issue with you, chop it off.
Reality is, men like variety in their woman, like their food and their sports, and their beer.
A dude who likes football, but doesn't like basket ball, is no less of a man.
If a man prfers his WOMAN to have a dick, he is still not less of a man.
If my man ask me to fuck him, then that brings us closer as a couple.
I guess my life is more normal than I thought.
Cuz REAL men comprehend, the outsiders looking in always have issues with shit thats no longer even relevant in 2011.
I never wanted to be usual. I am not a female, I am a transexual. I am unique different and special.
If a man doesn't like dick, stick to fucking pussy. Plain and motherfucking simple.
I am dating a guy now, who likes my dick. But our lives nor our relationship revolve around my dick.
So a man can like a bitch and her dick and NOT see her as a fetish.
Different strokes for different folts.
Tranny tops, and transbians are a real part of the life, sad the people on this site of all sites wouuld be so ignorant and closed minded.
Because straight men don't want to fuck with another dick in the room, period, the end.
Bi men have a more flexible outlook, and it's possible to be a bi man who only sees females and transsexuals. We might call them "straight"...but most straight people won't agree with that.
Yeah, I'm just going to cosign on this....
tl;dr
can we have sex now amy?
You are correct that if a man likes a woman with a cock (ie a pre-op transexual) then it doesnt make him any 'less' of a man.
Just as a man who likes another man, doesnt make him any 'less' of a man.
They are still men.
The man who likes other men = gay.
The man who likes transexual women can fit into a variety of different sexual identities.
Man likes women and pre op ts, man = bisexual/bicurious.
Man likes women, pre op ts and men, man = bisexual.
Man likes men and pre op ts, man = gay/bisexual, heavily leaning towards gay side.
Being straight, gay or bisexual does not make someone less of a man or less of a woman. It's just a sexuality.
However, one thing that is very noticeable within the sub niche of transexual community. One thing that i have noticed here is something interesting.
You have full on pre op ts's. Ussually the ones who transition early and generally speaking look 'hot' are the ones who are generally attracted to men. Ussually stereotypical masculine/muscular good looking type men. Almost as a compliment, feminine and masculine going together. The big muscular and rugged male, with the sexy and pretty female (in this case ts).
Then as you move on through the spectrum, you get those ts who seem to be more attracted to women instead of men. Now, normally they tend to be not quite as attractive, although one can not generalise, but from what i have seen, the hot transexual girls will be chasing the buff good looking guys. Then there are the sort of 'partly transitioned' ts who are still into having sex with women and other ts/tv.
Then you move along the spectrum and you get the tv and crossdressers that call themselves 'she' etc and they are basically just straight/bi men who like to dress up in womens clothes and have sex with each other or women. Purely a fetish, nothing to do with actual gender identity at all.
So the whole t-scene throws up a lot more diversity with sexual identities than the straight scene.
In the 'non-t-scene', you basically have 90% of men who are straight and 10% who are gay. I presume that this figure is pretty simmilar for women as well. So only 10% of men and women would sleep with same sex partners.
However on the t-scene, the figure seems to be a lot higher than 10%.
So it varies massively from any of the other scene's.
In my opinion, some of the time, and the opinion of quite a few ts and gay men that i have spoken to about this. Sometimes there are men, effeminate men (can be gay or straight) but often transition or at least start dressing in order to become more popular with people they are sexually attracted to.
For instance, a little fat feminine looking boy (who is straight) is not going to have much luck with the hot girls is he?
So much easier for him to transition or start 'dressing' and then put himself on a forum as a 'transvestite dominatrix' or 'lesbian transexual' and they will find themselves a little sub niche of people, of which more likely to find a partner. Instead of being the little chubby feminine looking boy that wont be able to get laid.
Or alternatively, the small gay man who starts off doing drag. Realises that he pulls it off really well. Likes his dick and likes fucking other guys/getting fucked, but he fancies the big stereotypical buff sexy men. So as a little skinny/camp gay boy, the big masculine sexy gay men are just not interested in him, they want to fuck each other. So he puts on the drag act and realises that 'straight' men are more interested in him now. This opens up a whole new world of possibilities for him. Instead of being the little camp guy who has to watch 'colt' and imagine he is fucking a big muscle daddy in the arse (or has to pay for it via escort services), he can dress in drag, over the years take hormones, even a bit of surgery, grow his hair and then become that label 'pre op transexual' and it opens up a whole new world to him.
Your first three words seemed so nice.................but like the water draining out of a toilet bowl everything else went downhill quickly and deep into shit!
God bless the internet for providing us access to people like you - it helps to reaffirm my contempt for the general populace.
Wow once again another stupid ass post from a guy who thinks he knows what its like to be trans.... Your thinking is fucking stupid...
Maybe I dont want to lose what I have because you think since I feel like a woman I should act like one in bed??? That is so fucking dumb, sex is not about who you are, sex is a feeling. If you fuck, get fucked or whatever who the fuck cares. I am a transsexual woman, I never claimed to be a woman, but I know who I am. Some girls want to lose their dicks, others embrace it. What if I said to you one day lets cut off your dick and see how you feel... not every girl wants to cut off what she has. Does that make her less of a woman? NO! Being a woman is from within, not what is between your legs. So some girls love the feeling good if that is being a top or what not. Maybe educate yourself before posting stupid ass threads.
Some people (maybe everyone) come here to work out their shit.
tsk tsk tsk...
There y'all go again, destroying illusions.
True.
Thanks baby, that's all I was doing was expressing my opinion about it.. I'm not telling anyone how to live their lives or nothing, but to me a lot of this stuff is simply a contradition to the lifestyles that girls say they have been working towards with transistions and how they feel as if they' were born girls...
I guess some TS only wanna be girls in public until they get into the bed and then wanna flip the switch and say now i'm a man and I want to fuck other men.. lol.
To a point yes it's different, but within genders people have certain roles they are expected to fulfill.. The social norms for women aren't to be fucking guys with strap ons or dicks when they're in bed.. you can say what you want to, but people who do stuff like that are going against the grain and usually just doing some fetish bullshit or the women are just with DL gay men ...
That's the kind of thinking that people take issue with, by the way.Since TS people already exist outside the "social norms" anyway, shouldn't they get to define just how they'll go along with them? Social norms are only defined by what the majority says they are and not necessarily how they act in private.
Awe how conveint, you want to be a woman before the sex but then you want to flip the script and say you're still a woman when you're doing a complete role reversal in the bedroom..
I just don't get how some of you are always screaming that you';re a woman you wanna be treated like a woman but then you want to do crap like this? you can't be strattling the fence either you wanna be a woman and embrace your feminity or you don't..
It's funny that Amy when she can't get her way will try to twist and turn everything that someone says.. She's starting to act more and more like Bella Bellucci in here..
I simply said most of the girls that i've came across were working girls, and that's just from my personal experience... I wasn't lying about that but there's no need to say that I beleive all girls are like that cause I don't I was talking about the girls that i've personally meet....
Thats pretty low. All I am doing is defending TS girls as a whole. All of you saying that most of us are hookers and escorts don't care enough to see that what you are saying is not true. So what if most of the girls you have met are hookers. Is it really necessary to say it then? The few girls that you have met has no bearing on the rest of us. If you only hang out with trans girls at clubs or when you want to hire an escort, you don't think that is going to skew the % of girls you meet that are hookers? Whats the point of bringing it up then? When people are telling us that most of us are hookers and escorts, and you are like "Yea, most of the girls I have met are escorts" or something to that extent, isn't it just trying to further the point that they are making that most of us are hookers?
Then you go and say that translesbians and girls who like to use their cocks should of might as well not transitioned? Who are you to say who should transition or not?
I love how I am the villain around here for defending TS girls and saying that we are not all hookers and we are Women regardless of our sexual preferences. What kind of fucked up place is this?
i never wanted to be unusual, i feel like a female but i know im not a female, i dont want to be a ts, but i have accepted it that i am, i dont feel better then others, still i will not turn a guy down that has no interest in my cock but is interested in ME, and these guys are out there!. I dont hate my penis. But im not glad im a ts, i want to experience a normal life as a woman as much as i can. Ive been unusual for such a long time, i love to feel what its like to be usual for a change. We both want different things from life, that does not mean you are wrong or that im wrong, it just means we are different. Being different and thinking different does not mean im closed minded.
I think you have spent to much time educating the world about your fabulousness that you forgot the t community does not begin and end with you. Lol
My whole point is that fucking and femininity are not mutually exclusive. People identify fucking with penetration and figure that being the active one is the masculine role. But just because most people believe that doesn't make it inherently right. It just makes it what most people believe.
You might disagree, but other people aren't obligated to agree with how you see it, much less live up to it right?
Well if all trannies were bottoms I would not be wasting my doe on them put it that way. To put it bluntly if it was about anal ,girls have buttholes and I can get that for free.
Besides there are girls who enjoy putting a strap on on,there are girls that enjoy dominating men ,who are you to judge how they should behave and what is masculine ? Should all of them transition to men because it doesn't fit your view of things?
Just because you like taking a role in the bedroom doesn't mean you do so all the time, either.And if the business with girls with c0cks makes you so uncomfortable, why are you on the site?
So.....is that a yes or a no?
I just want to know, because slingblade is telling us not to call ourselves women if we don't want to be 100% feminine as defined by the social norms. I don't think liking girls with dicks is 100% masculine. I think he should stop calling himself a "real man" if he doesn't want to accept complete masculinity.