DATing a tgirl. help!

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Originally Posted by SunshyneMonroe

thats the best way to have them that way no other women is tryin to take ur man lol and there alot less to cheat

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lmao if he can spend money on her in the first place. Why can't he just spend it on another girl :P

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Originally Posted by Ryz

lmao if he can spend money on her in the first place. Why can't he just spend it on another girl :P

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Cuz he likes her meany...........lol

theres a few using sluts in this world =avoid them like the plague or it will fuck you up for a very long time

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Originally Posted by SunshyneMonroe

omg did he say something mean to me lol i dont even see....lmao

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You are correct Sunshyne, I didnt reference anything towards you...

I believe IsuckTgirlCock is trying to make himself appear better by putting someone else down. Maybe his name should read IsuckUPtoTgirlCock.

Sunshyne, no, I said Id take u up on the offer to be your bf..........didnt put u down anywhere , I was referring to that moron, whos now on ignore, named "stoked".........Im actually disgusted your name and his are actually mentioned in the same post, it dirtys yours in a way.
The tgirl in question....and my whole dilema with her is the fact that she promises to be my girlfriend when we get the place. So shes holding out the sex because she thinks...1) that ill lose interest or 2) that im just saying ill let her live w me to use her for sex then get rid of her, but again thats insane because id just pay her for sex and be done w that, if that was the case.....is she gunna give it up when we move in is the biggest question? as time passes its looking that way, shes really starting to open up more . When we go shopping she doesnt look to spend money for the sake of it, and doesnt get upset if i say no, and the biggest plus is she doesnt have high class tastes that my former gfs have had.
as far as me being old and ugly, thats not the case...im not that old, 41...though shes 22. and i dont look that old so its not a strange scene when were in public. im clean cut 6'3 235lbs and dress nice. no problems with regular girls...only Tgirls !

[QUOTE=FIRSTTIMER;776594]I see some good points being said here.

Something that I get out of this is that you seem a little too excited to get with this girl in the "sack" and I think that taking a moment and breath to just take your time you may get her.And if you do things in a more timely manner you just may get her for a good long term.(100% the plan, yes!)
Also,another thing to look at is how this girls "way" is.How is she around you.Does she know that if you go to the mall and she knows that if she asks for something that you will buy it for her because she knows you are just too happy to be around her.

Some girls take advantage and some don't.Does she seem like the one who does?(no she really doesnt take advantage, Id be done w her if she did)

Another thing is why if you asked her to move in with you but if she doesn't give up that ass that she needs to pack up and get the fuck out?(right, shes out the door if she doesnt, with my foot in her ass! Id be so fuming pissed off and hurt)

I mean if you are her friend,than be her friend.Right now it doesn't look like either one of you are friends with each other.(Im def her friend, shes mine too, but how deep that goes only time will tell)[/QUOTE]

thanks for the responses

dude i'm reading your posts and i'm not even surprised you're getting played. man up and grow a pair. your 'gf' has bigger balls than you... probably in more ways than one. i'd say she's withholding sex to gain your trust and make you believe she wants something long term. then she'll be living at your place rent free and you'll be buying her shit and paying for her to do whatever she wants... and she'll probably still fuck other guys. 'gold digger' and 'sugar daddy' spring to mind. i'm sorry if that's brutal but she's taking you for a ride and you're a mug if you sit there and let her do it just because you want to get your dick wet.

I'm in a similar situation at the moment, yet different.
Met a wonderful girl some months ago as she was working in my area, I met her for a date, meaning I didnt see her as a client or anything. We had great fun and began dating, she was very clear she didnt want me to pay for her and that she was independant, wich I really liked about her.
The whole thing wasnt even about sex for me, she was even the one to make the first move in that direction. Now she left this area, we kept talking and everything was ok, I was even planning to move to a place close to where she's at.
But just a couple of days ago she tells me she needs "time" and is now ignoring me completely. Can anyone tell me what thats about?

And for the record, I'm straight, top or whatever you want to call it. I never did her anything wrong and she wont even explain the situation.

sorry for stealing your thread btw

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Originally Posted by SunshyneMonroe

thats the best way to have them that way no other women is tryin to take ur man lol and there alot less to cheat

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Kewl..Sounds like i'm in!:dancing:

I'm not sure if you're actually "dating a tgirl" at this point, sounds more like you're listening to a bunch of promises from someone who is not at all into you or she'd be screwing you, but she does need a place to stay so she's keeping her options open...

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Originally Posted by IsuckTgirlCock

what do you guys think about this. i met a hot tgirl of the net for a car dare type of thing. we kinda became friends after that... and i take her shopping n spend money on her. buti get no action in return. nothing. i told her i am gette ahouse inthe next few weeks to live in. she is being kicked out of her pad soi said she can live with me for free as my girlfriend. she agreed. w the condition no one can know...were roommates. as far as anyone knowd. im not sure if im being played or what? she wont let me have sex w her even if i pay her....she says she has to w hold that until she gets to move in else i could be playing het. but how can i be playing her when if all i wanted was sex i woulda just kept paying her for it,,i like this tgirl so so so fuking much and i get nothing but holding hands and a promise. we have a big age difference. so i can't hang w her n her friends much. i don't even know her last name. i also know she still seez guys for cardates n let's them screw her. makes me so fking jealous. that some moron can fuck her for the same amount i give het to go out n party with n i get nothing. ...help! please ladies or guys that date tgirls...tell me. thanx

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You're her sugar daddy. She will string you along to try to get as much out of you as she can. The moment you wise up and stop spening your cash is the moment she will leave you

You said you didn't even know her last name, how about any history on her? What if she moves in and has some of those other a-holes over to fuck throughout your house while you're at work, or better yet just get one of those guys to help clean you out while you're not there.....I know it's hard to let go of the one you really want, but there are so many fine fish in this big beautiful sea!

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I haven't been on the site for years..but she did move it, and soon as I found her on backpage.com whoring herself out I called her out on it. Anyway...soon as I found out she doing that behind my back, I came home from work and she had moved out..everything was gone. She left my shit and didn't steal anything and left me a note . I should post jt I have it still somewhere lol. Anyway...IT was a bad deal, I got some good tgirl sex out of it...I ended up moving out and traveling around w some tgirl hookers , LA san diego n vegas. They'd give me free sex and feed me and let me stay w them, I'd just have to leave the hotel room when they had guys over ( sometimes they would let me stay and have sex on the other bed next to me I didbt care). Anyway...met a regular girl and moved In w her 4 years ago. Miss the tgirls though...big time. Gotta see one soon..haha