Okey then Brideshead! I rest my case. :)
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Okey then Brideshead! I rest my case. :)
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Baby we all have preferences. I wasn't calling you a racist or anything. Ok.
Oh I know silly. :lol: I honestly didnt even think that youre implying that. LOL. Its all good hun. You put me on the spot by asking me what youve read somewhere that I said "I prefer" and asked me. To which Ive answered. No offense taken. 8)
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Your certainly NOT racist because you have a preference...Maybe a littel shortsighted or ignorant if you flat out wont deal with a species but certainly not racist.....
I love how fast people cry racist lol...
Good point look at r.kelly,he needs too stop peeing on girls!Quote:
Originally Posted by BlackAdder
If I had R.Kelly's money, Id be tempted to pee on girls too lol, Fuck it.....Look how many of the dumb bitches are throwing themselves at his cock, heh..
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have seen this type of discussion elsewhere and always said why should tgirls be any different than the general populace. It does not surprise me, but you would think that the discrimination that most tgirls receieve would make them more empathetic to Af/AM. That being said, I am black and have visited several tgirls and have had only one say something but we did do the deed.
It's like anything else in life if that one doesn't work there is always another right around the corner, so I don't let that stuff bother me too much. Their loss not mine. Now some of us brothers have given many the bad rap by trying not to pay, bargin the girls down, being abusive, and stuff like that, so some of the girls probably have had a bad experience. To me they should just screen each guy individually and not blanketly reject some of us hot, hung and true admirers and lovers of tgirls. "Can't we all just get along"........
i've also heard this discussions and experiences a lot now .
sometimes i often wonder if it depends on the geographical places
( new york, miami , california ) more than other locations
of course discrimination is all over , but could it be that
some local areas
in cities experience it a great deal more than others.
i've exchanged emails from various trannies in London ,
who tell me very little
discrimination goes on as compared to as much as it goes
on here in the States.
i do know that many of the local tgirls i have so far encountered
personally here in Dallas , tell me that they have no problem with
seeing black clients in Dallas.
who knows what reasons these girls might have expressed for
declining to see black men as previously mentioned
( fear of physical abusive, games, money -pinching , etc. )
yet i, too continue to be shocked that transexuals , who
are widely and relentlessly discriminated against
in the everyday world , feel so compelled
to be equally prejudice against other minorities.
what i find of irony that tends to make matters worse is
having to responsed
to thread discussions after exposing these type
of prejudice actions as i've heard arguments
from other posters on other message boards
that try to condone their actions and feelings
as " protective " as
they exclusively declined to see black men.
IMO, it only spells the insecurity and self- esteem problems
many of these type of girls continue to have.
they have to try to target, single out and lower
another group of people to make
themselves " feel " secure and superior.
oh well, as long as ' those types ' are low enough in numbers
and there are still a plenty of interesting , quality tgirls who
don't mind racial/cultural differences .
http://www.answers.com/bigotry&r=67
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religiocentrism
zealotry
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This is interesting! ... Is this why alot of blk men hit me up and say ... You dont date blk men right!?
Im like I love blk men ...
They always ask me this question!
Put a little different twist into this thread....I am a white guy who just is not interested in black girls (GG or TS) with a few notable exceptions. Am I racist for thiking that black women just don't get me excited? Big Butts, for me, just don't seem to be the holy grail that some people present them to be. Ok, I know not all blacks have huge asses, some of them have GIGANTC dongs...... More than I can realistically deal with. The big dick arguement really kicks in whe the girls face is show...no appeal what-so-ever,,,,
Yet I have been with asian girls & would do that again. Their features turn me on. I am also dating a member of the Tribe of Israel...just showing some of my ethnic diveristy.
could be a interesting point there for the escorts....Quote:
Originally Posted by Shalaya
What race group tends to tip the best??
its funny how everytime i look up in this board this girl is makin the same dumb ass ignorant comments...talkin bout anything interacial is nasty, repulsive, ect....give me a fuckin break....i think a 18 year old dude in a wig is nasty and repulsive but i'm not up here postin bout it every day.
"To be honest im like really scared of white men.They just think they can control you cuz they got money."
Wtf are you talking about???? LOL....How would you know if youve never dated one? Or an Asian or a Spaniard???. Hell, I dated a black girl for 3 years and I would STILL say I dont know much about your typical black woman.
Let me clue you in dear, ANYONE you date seriously is going to want a little control over the relationship; That doesnt mean you have to be a sub for him 24/7. Unless your looking for a Sugar Daddy, then yes, your ass better come a-runnin when he wants it to. But I dont *think* thats the type of situation your looking for.
LOL :lol:Quote:
Originally Posted by Ecstatic
Thankyou Ecstatic. :wink:Quote:
Originally Posted by Ecstatic
Yeah I know. LOL. Which I am NOT! Far from being shortsighted or ignorant. 8) Thanks BlackAdder.Quote:
Originally Posted by BlackAdder
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[quote="ANIYAH"]
All of these streotypes are ridiculous ....And its because of the Badseeds that most have to suffer ...Little do they know they missing out on good money ,and sometimes some good dick
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Quoted for empahsis :)
Is it true that TS Prue in LA refuses to date Black men?
I'd said this before. If a chick doesn't like you because of whatever, it's better to get it out of the way early than have her string you along.
If they don't like or "prefer" black men, to hell with them. There's plenty of girls that do.
She got a manly face anyway.Quote:
Originally Posted by willib
mug
I HEAR GG'S AND TS/TV WANTING AND REQUESTING BLACK MALES ALL the time and some black men have money some don't as well some white males have money and some don't.
FADE THE STEREOTYPES>>>>>>..........
Brothas are mad cause this beast don't see black men? Please. There be hundreds of other chicks hotter than this.
Some brothas just got no taste.Quote:
Originally Posted by Shalaya
I can't help but laugh at niggas payin for ass.
I don't think it's so much as them not finding black men attractive so much as being a ts prostitute is just a business like any other thing. Many White, Asian, and even some Black GG hookers and transsexuals have been conditioned to stay the far away from black men because it's harder to get paid dating them, and two because most white men are really generous or should I say bigger suckers, so it's just easier to get over on them.
:roll:
these are the types of posters that usually respond to these kind of post-
The Angry Poster
ex. transsexuals hate black men- and i am mad about it
The Philisophical Posterex.
ex. no transsexuals, don't hate black men, they just won't see most of them as clients
The Expert Poster
ex. no, i am a transsexual, and i see all kinds of people
The "I know nothing-I'm just babbling" Poster
Ex. it has nothing to do with being black, white men are just "dumbmer" and will pay for an escort- while a lot of black men are smarter and won't
The Peace Seeking Poster
Ex. Everyone has their own prefferences and likes.
It basically is the same shit said a million times in these stupid types of posts over and over again.
I hope you're not rolling them eyes at me baby.. 8)Quote:
Originally Posted by AllanahStarrNYC
i've been seeing opinions on the board for awhile that give inisght into both arguments. I'm black and I know that some girls (especially on eros) will either hang up the minute they hear your voice or just say "I don't date black men" in rude manner, hang up and refuse to pick up the phone. Like someone mentioned earlier with as much discrimination as there is out there you would figure that people (not just ts) would be more open minded PERIOD. But I guess it doesn't always work like that. :roll:
I just don't believe it's fair to sterotype a whole race and one (or maybe a few) bad experiences. I've had a bad experience with a ts once but that doesn't mean that all ts of that race or a whole are like that. So i think respect should be shown on both ends. But one thing that I have noticed is that the tgirls that I have come in contact with who say they don't date black men, are black themselves. Its ok to have your own taste and I feel there is nothing wrong with that, but I think people should actually have a valid reason to back themselves up instead just going by what they hear, word of mouth. idk thas just my opinion.
Good idea and that way they're not wasting a potential clients time or theirs. I think common sense is something that a lot of people just dont have.Quote:
Originally Posted by Anonymous Coward
Well stated Sinister....
Unfortunetly from the girls I used to drive, the problems with species start after the 2nd or 3rd bad experience and then they start listing things on there "Rap sheet" as we liked to call it....The list of things the girl wouldnt do on a call or what type of guy they would see. A few bad apples really do ruin it for everyone...sucks real bad, and i remember how angry ive gotten at the guilt by association thing when ive been the victim of it (All the men on this board are Scumbags-Shalaya) but thems the brakes my friend.
Well those talking about just a general negative view of black guys seeking escorts are correct. Even lots of black pimps tell their girls not to get with black guys.
But one thing everyone is forgetting is that most of the girls you see on eros were born in Mexico or elsewhere in South America and lived there a good portion of their lives. Racial views are quite different than in the United States and open racism and discrimination, particularly against blacks, is very common. I'm not going to go into what those views are...they are wrong and to write about them would be unecessary for the purposes of this post. But the views do exist and are so much more common than in the United States.
So it does not surprise me at all that many of the latina ts will not see black guys.
Forget US based Escorts, take your arse down to South America...
Forget US based Women, take your arse anywhere but HERE...
Get out, see the world.
Only the Euro is worth more than the US Dollar and that means your money goes further, especially in South America and Eastern Europe.
You want T's, go down to Brazil and don't forget the GG's down there too.
I"ll be going down myself after Carvinval (best and most expensive time to go) and I fully expect this to be the best decision I have made concerning my social life.
I have been shown the path and its everything they have said it was.
Brothas get out of the US, trust me. You can live here if you want and I will always live here, but finding p*ssy here is OUT OF THE QUESTION. Your appreacated more elsewhere.
Argentinan T*
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Rio based T*
http://www.chantily.com.br/riodejaneiro/bonecas.htm
In Sao Paulo they come in -
Lemon (Asian/Mesticas), Carmel (Morenas), Blonde (Vanilla) and even Cherry (Redhead)
http://www.chantily.com.br/saopaulo/...casaopaulo.htm
They use to say go WEST young man, now its GO SOUTH or EAST Young man.
The information is out there....
When is the racism ever going to end.
interesting!
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Originally Posted by AllanahStarrNYC
i actually hope this type of topic keeps coming up the
more i think about it.
one of the problems is that our society just isn't cultural diversed
and there's a failure to understand differences.
is there a personal preference,.. or is a personal agenda?
you may see it as pure repeated bitching, but there could be
helpful to these type of discussions
this could help bring a better understanding from the view of
a client as well the provider.
A wise black man told me this:
White man corrupted we the wrong race to fuck with.
From what I've read on this board she's not that client-friendly with white men either.Quote:
Originally Posted by willib
But of course some men will still insist on seeing her (and a few other certain escorts with similar personality quirks) because of certain physical endowments.
To each his own but sometimes you really do get what you pay for.
I have been all over the US and have never had this problem. Still, I know of the problem all to well from the girls that I personally know that either don't date Black guys or prefer to date white guys.
Sure, it is based in generalities. When you work a job like escorting you need to go on instincts and generalities, some which may sound silly. This ain't retail sales. Hey, from what the girls tell me white guys (in most cases) make the best tricks, old white guys make even better tricks. I even hear that from girls that do date Black men. On some levels, girls like men that they can control a bit more.
A lot of girls that escort who will shun a Black trick are the same girls that only date Black men in thier personal lives, girls that would not dream of dating a white guy outside of a sex for money situation.
Bruthas, stop going places where you aren't wanted. There are plenty of Black clubs and hang out spots where you will be more than welcome. Living in Atlanta, living in the south, it is almost unheard of to hear a brutha with these kinds of complaints.
My west doast friends say that a single Black man that is openly willing to date a TS is a prized possesion. You have some of the most beautiful tgirls fighting over these guys. The problem is, a lot of times once theses guys get on the scene and it gets known that they are open to openly date TS women they go running for the Latinas and Asian girls that throw themselves at the bruthas.
Actually to be honest. In my personal experience transsexuals here in Chicago can rely on black men being interested in them and the interest is generally returned. In terms of either a real relationship or just a date. Irregardless of the race of the girl that is so.
(Yes I am the so called "expert" so sue me.)
As far as real relationships are concerned.... interracial relationships are always more complicated.
Personally I don`t get why some TS/TV girls, don`t want to be with black males..I mean, what`s not to like?? I am a white TV(transitioning) who thinks there is NOTHING hotter than a black man with a hard body and a huge cock! And yes, those I have been with, knew just how to treat a lady...
well I like guys of all races and my bf of 7years is black
so no hating here
I guess every one is entitled to their own view but personally I cant see whats so wrong about anyone from any race
all races have people that let their race down
so people shouldent be put into one catagory
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