Hmm..we need pics ChefMike!! lolQuote:
Originally Posted by chefmike
Flaunt it whiteboi! ;)
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Hmm..we need pics ChefMike!! lolQuote:
Originally Posted by chefmike
Flaunt it whiteboi! ;)
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Wow there are some really stereotypiccal asshole on this site! If they enjoyed the company of these black "thugs" as you say and birds of a feather flock together, then why are the girls turning them down and refusing to see them. From this bumb ass remark, seems like they would be inviting them over ASAP instead of turning them down, what an ass!!!!!!!!!!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by PeteIsHere
LMAO...I knew you'd say that, Hara! You filipino chicks are some horny bitches!Quote:
Originally Posted by Hara_Juku Tgirl
Yes I have met a few very well hung white boys. The stereotyping is so bad, the poor things though their cocks were just average! And i must say it was a joy to me! One of those few times I get to actually enjou my work. The sad part is, one is bottom only, and soft that cock is a good 9 inched!but yea chef, we need to see pics as proof!! :PQuote:
Originally Posted by chefmike
Not only am I part filipino, I'm also part chinese and part spanish..Add to that being sent in a catholic high school..Go figure! lol ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by chefmike
But going back..word is cheap! So post the white tubesteak!! lol
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My parents made the mistake of sending me to an ALL boys Catholic high school, thinking that would "straighten" me out!Quote:
Originally Posted by Hara_Juku Tgirl
Made me more aware of who I was instead of changing me. I was so out of place and shy there. Lasted a year, that was it. I was more comfortable with woman around so I wouldn't feel out of place, if you guys can understand what I mean
Not this again...PLEASEQuote:
Originally Posted by Mr. Sinister
Be a man and grow some fucking balls!
There are literally BILLIONS of women on this planet.
Surely one will be desperate enough to be with a whiny bitch like you.
I am so sick of guys acting like bitches.
Move on and find someone who is actually interested in you!
JFC!!!!!!!!!!!
Vanessa, learn to read. I was specifically referring to your circumstances of being taken advantage of by thugs.
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Originally Posted by TsVanessa69
Very true! The things people post on this forum. Its a ts forum full of latina and asian ts featured, and if we are such horrible racist people, why be here? My question to him is, more black ts refues black clients then latina or asian, is that racism too?Quote:
Originally Posted by Solitary Brother
As for me, I have had good and bad expierences with clients of ALL races. But to me money is green. As slong as you have the FULL amount to see me, we are good!
From this brother's perspective regarding those who don't like us... Who cares?
From what I can tell, escorts are prostitutes. Prostitutes are going for the money and can't take a lot of chances. How many brothers do you know feel like they have to pay for some lovin? Not many. Go with the white guy!
Who is the escort going to get (on average) for more money from? Some white dude or a brother. An escort will have to pry that hundee from my cold dead hand. Please...
I don't know about t-girls, because I have only met one in my life (she doesn't like brothers either, so what). However, there are some (most?) white/latin/asian females that refuse to date black men and a multitude of others who will only date black men. There are some who will date any type of man.
If you are giving me a choice, I'm typically going to pick the black woman. Doesn't that make me racist? I don't know, I just love black women. Oh well.
The typical black man exudes sexual confidence and there are some people (of all sexes) that can't stand that. It's a turn off. A huge one.
Some people just aren't attracted to black men, and that's just the bottom line.
Some people just hate blacks. Oh well. Nothing you can do.
It is not ALL be racism (but we know that some of it is)
Yea I don't get why somebody would be mad they can't see an escort?/ If they were all that, they wouldn't be paying in the first place. I can deal with a black man and not charge him.Quote:
Originally Posted by deadlyray
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Um.. so ok, what you you call people (providers and non providers aka regular folks) who refuses to see/meet and or have sex with FAT people? Do you call them FATCIST or is it preference?
http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=fatcist
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What's the difference between preference and racism?
Preference- is having a strong affinity for a particular quality
Racism/Bigotry- is having a preconceived negative emotion towards someone or group based off a physical attribute whether it be skin tone, weight, etc.
Do the ladies have the right to choose who they will and will not interact with? Absolutely especially due to the interpersonal interaction required for the profession.
I think what hurts most who are victims is that someone is passively accusing you of something. The person is assuming that I'm a thief or whatever ill-thing that haunts their nightmares. Unfortunately there is nothing you can do about it except abstain from that particular provider's services. This is not like going to McDonalds and the Klansmen at the counter won't accept your cash. If you could make this provider service you would you really want it? You need to remember who you are and no one's ill-conceived notions can change that. Bottomline they're not worth your time.
If a black person refuses to service another (whatever enterprise) black person simply for being black is that racism? Yes, it's called interracism and it happens to. I think that form hurts more than any other because it makes you wonder how that person inherently perceives his or herself. But you can't save somebody from their own personal demons. More than likely that person has interpersonal issues. A person can like White/Latino/Asian guys without hating black guys. When you hold animosity towards a stranger for something they haven't done to your knowledge that's a whole different thing.
As far as dating slugs. I think everybody should do a little self-analysis on that one. I've seen females date the same type of assholes over and over again yet were continually shocked that the dude was a bastard. If you have a pattern of dating such dregs then I think the solution is to look inward. I hypothesize the female in question fell in love with a thug some time ago but it didn't work out. However she never flushed her system so she keeps picking up these dudes reliving the same pattern attempting to fix them. She wanted her previous lover to be something he was not and she failed to accept it. Or she doesn't think very highly of herself so she subconsciously seeks out dudes to reinforce her sense of poor self-image. You only get what you think you deserve. The vast majority of the time someone was a piece shit they subtle or not so subtle things to let you know what kind of person they truly were. The question is did you ignore and hope it would get better instead of accepting the truth and kicking them to the curb like any good bag of trash?
For those being fairly being scrutinized, don't poison your own soul by hating them because your energy could be better spent loving someone else.
Sounds like a personal problem if you can't get a date. Don't try to generalize you shortcummings :lol:
Where chefmike is right, he is right. Filipinas make the horniest chicks, especially if they are t-chicks.Quote:
Originally Posted by chefmike
ooops, boooooo at me for another racial stereotype......
Couldn't agree with you more!Quote:
Originally Posted by TsVanessa69
FINALLY another racism thread to breathe life into this forum!!
1st I'd like to point out the OP said they discriminate in their personal lives too, but everyone wants to jump into the "an escort can be selective" bullshit.
2nd, and contrary to the opinions of many girls I know and love, ANY girl who says " I don't date black men" is a racist! ANY!
I'm so tired of people trying to be PC and call it a preference. A preference is not exclusive, it merely RANKS what you like MORE than others. Saying I don't date black men is exclusive. Yes, Alannah there's a difference between preference and prejudice. If you exclude a person based on a preconceived notion of what they're like, that's PREJUDICE! If you see me in the club and say you're not attracted to me, that's preference. If I call you on the phone and you say you don't date black guys, that's prejudice. Of ALL the peoples on the planet, blacks are the most varied. There's a reason why but that's another topic. A black person can be as dark as night or as light as day. So you would think they would be the LAST group of people you should discriminate against based on looks. To say "I won't see you" merely because I utter the word black when you diabolically ask me what race I am is ludicrous! Illogical even!
I'm not saying an escort doesn't have a right... Well no, she doesn't have rights because it's an illegal enterprise, but she can conduct her business as she sees fit. Just have the courage to admit you're a racist when you are one. AT THE VERY LEAST, ADMIT YOU'RE RACIAL PROFILING.
You can hide behind preference all you want, but like someone said the TRUTH is it is drilled into these girls heads that black guys are more trouble than they're worth. That's it! Everything else is bullshit and people afraid to take responsibility for their own feelings.
I worked in the service industry for 10 years and dated a girl who did the same. We're both black and we both hated serving black people. That wasn't a preference, it was racism. I don't have a problem with that and I will tell anyone who wants to know from a business standpoint I'm a racist. You girls need to accept facts. You're racist! Get over it.
Yep, she's a racistQuote:
Originally Posted by TsVanessa69
That kind of thing is not uncommon in the service industry. I also know asian servers who don't like serving asians...go figure.Quote:
I worked in the service industry for 10 years and dated a girl who did the same. We're both black and we both hated serving black people.
Hara Hara Hara! Well I would call them a FATTIST, but you're question gets to the heart of the matter. You can easily define fat. You can pretty much say without a doubt every 500 lb guy us going to cause undue stress on your bed. No such blanket statements can be made based on someones ethnicity. Apples and orangesQuote:
Originally Posted by Hara_Juku Tgirl
LOL@undue stress on your bed statement! :lol:
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Dammit girl! Don't you see that is racism and prejudice defined "black men are cheap"! Thank you for making my point! Saying black are cheap is not expressing a PREFERENCE. It is a preconceived notion based on someones own past experience and not factual. Black men are not cheap! Most black men may be, but no one will know unless they meet ALL black men. Unless you've met all black men, then to say black men are cheap is prejudice!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by TsVanessa69
I'm noticing that some people think that if their feelings are justified, then there not racist, and that's simply not true. If every black you ever met spit in your face, no one would blame you for hating black men. You'd still be a racist. Just no one could blame you for being the racist you are.
Oh, and every coke is the same so hopefully you can see how woefully ridiculous that metaphor was! Sadly, so many think like you do and don't see the difference.
actually I can imagine anyone in bed with you would try to "tear it up"Quote:
Originally Posted by Hara_Juku Tgirl
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So much to take in on this thread. Prejudice or preference? Or are black men just cheap?
First I would like to point this one thing out. These preferences and prejudices are a two way street. Their have been many situations where a guy will ask me what race I am then act disappointed or hang up because I say I am black or mixed between black, Native, and White. (I guess that depending on how I present myself with a straight haired wig or without one I confuse some people. This happens to others in my family at times.) So I would say that it clearly is a two way street. But that's ok everyone has a right to choose with 100% freedom who they will have sex with.
There may be a little something to the point that the black men girls have trouble with are not just black, but they are thugs aside from that. I had this one guy, very black, who lived down town, in a nice condo by the river, always paid as agreed, no haggle no hassle. (He stopped seeing me said "It's like your trying to make me cum too fast." Like I have any real control over that.) I have to admit over the phone talking to him the first time I did not think he was black. He spoke in an educated manner and moreover he did not have the attitude that many black men have towards transsexuals. Every black man that has actually completed the transaction has been like him. They are not common.
OTOH out in a suburb not far from where I used to live a black guy stole the money from me and threw me out. I let my guard down because the person lived just a stones throw away. Didn't listen to my instincts
I will say this the way you approach a girl any girl on the phone is the real problem. If you have the usual black attitude you know. It's like they are thinking "I'm so hot I'm so cool and smooth I can get sex anywhere from anyone. I'm goona say 200 then when she get's here say 100 then when she has her clothes off and I'm 6" in say 50...." That attitude is why girls won't see you w or w/o money. Drop the tude and maybe just maybe some girls will see you.
I have to disagree with my sister Vanessa about guys who see escorts: I have a large majority of men who coud get any girl he wanted however would rather pay to see a ts for alot of reasons: Some just dont want the hassle of finding a girl and just want the sex, few just want too experiement, some dont want to take the chance of being seen in a ts club looking for a girl. The myth that men seeing escorts are old, bald ugly men is hardly the case for me. Though I have a few of those on the other hand I have a large very good looking clientale.
Now to the statement about racism: Let me say this I enjoy black men in my personal life therefore I dont care to see them when working, in fact I make more money in cities like DC because very few white ts come there who do see black men or atleast enjoy it, HOWEVER sorry to the guys but the majority of my problems and run arounds have been with black males. Though some of my biggest spenders are black males on the average every city my problem guys who want to negotiate, are aggressive, try to give me the run around, show up without the full amount, etcc have been my black clients. I have had other men of diff. races do the same but not as much as my black guys. So in all fairness Im sure some of it stems from racism but ALOT of it from a business standpoint is about who you just prefer to see!
I am a white who prefers non-white women/ts
this way I am a racist against my own race - white.
if I preferred white only women , I would be also a racist against non white .
so if I am a racist both ways , maybe I'm not a racist at all? :wink:
I would never open such thread because racism never come across my mind , simple as that.
so the one who opened this thread.............. 8)
lol They won't be tearing anything if they weigh over 200lbs. and are below 6ft. I can tell you that much! :lol:Quote:
Originally Posted by sucka4chix
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Oh how I envy you Wendy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by WendyWilliams
I do agree with your statement, but u got all those hot dreamy, clients and I got stuck with the other ones!
What am I doing wrong???????
But the points you make about guys using escorts is true, no matter how they look.
But if your telling me that there is a large amount of good looking clentele out there , shit hook ya sista up! lol
LOL I never said they were all dreamy LOL
I would say about 40 percent of mine are good looking guys. And of course every once in awhile one that makes my knees weak comes through.
I was just commenting on the myth that men who see escorts are ugly men who cant get sex, certainly not true.
Are you referring to American-born Asians or Asian-born Asians? Many girls born in Asia don't like anyone other than Asians. It's the way they were raised. My mother is a big racist in that way.
Me, I'm equal opportunity. I was born in Brooklyn, NY. Look here and scroll down to see all the pics of all the guys with different nationalities:
http://www.transvamp.com/kalinapix/guys/index.html
What you say is true adnd yes it is a stereotype, I was just irratated at the poster and was being shady, thats all.Quote:
Originally Posted by WendyWilliams
My knee weakening clientele is only about 15percent :cry:
See, I can respect that! I think 99% of girls who don't see black guys feel the same way, but they lie and say it's just not my thing or I'm not attracted to black guys, it's my SEXUAL preference. Just be honest like Wendy and say "I've had an inordinate amount of problems with black guys". My mom told me years ago sometimes the good have to suffer with the bad.Quote:
Originally Posted by WendyWilliams
How do you know what you think about 99% of girls corresponds to the truth about 99% of girls. You just stated a predisposition to think a certain way without providing a smidgen of evidence. That's called prejudging.Quote:
See, I can respect that! I think 99% of girls who don't see black guys feel the same way, but they lie...
I don't have to provide evidence about what I THINK! That is my OPINION. And furthermore, unlike 99.876% (that's a fact) of people I have no problem admitting I prejudge. EVERYONE does at some time. My point is people here deny that FACT!Quote:
Originally Posted by trish
Opinions are fine. If you prejudge because you don't know, that's different from prejudging because you know and being vicious about it. Some people honestly believe that someone is dumber than someone else based on skin color, where they live, what their income level is, or even what religion or politics they believe in. Others know there is no difference but still abuse others because they're vicious.Quote:
Originally Posted by sucka4chix
that's (as you said) is your OPINION, NOT A FACT.Quote:
...unlike 99.876% (that's a fact) of people...
I have noticed many of the girls I know tend to not see Black or Hispanic men who request their services.. Their belief is that they tend to give problems , will try and cheat you, and get violent...etc.... Honestly as a Tgirl, and a Hispanic one at that,, i find it "TOTALLY RIDICULOUS" They think that the Black & Hispanic men will cause problems , but cacuasian men won't...?? Please!!!!......lol ...God forbid but any race can be just as problamatic, what makes Caucasian men so much better than the other races,,, The fact that they might have money, and have a high paying job and have class, be well mannered..... " Black & Hispanic men do to..".
I mean i have had strange experiances with all races it does not mean i completely rule them out just cause that happen, i just got to be more alert.
Well having said that now onto the topic about dating or having a LTR with a Black or Hispanic men... yes i would actually most definitally would. I dont see color when it comes to matters of the heart i see how the person makes me feel, if there is a strong chemistry, attraction, if he is honest, and most important he does not care what others think.
Just my 5cents....
That was not meant to be serious...99.876 c'mon!!! Catch a clue!!Quote:
Originally Posted by trish
touche' 8)