Re: Why is it so hard to start a relationship with a T-girl?
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Originally Posted by Youngmc
I want to date a tranny, and start a relationship and fall in love, but its so hard, will it always be wild sex or will there be a time when they wanna settle down...
Well, Youngmc, it's most likely because you haven't had a hit record since 1989s, ' Bust A Move". :lol:
And, that's why I don't have a man, cause I am such a wise ass :smh
But on a serious tip finding and keeping a relationship with anyone is difficult. As you are most likely aware, a good proportion of heterosexual marriages or relationships end in divorce or breakup.
So seeking a 'happy ending' (some pun intended) of an LTR with a transwoman, really makes the odds more dificult. Transwomen are a relatively small subset of potential datable woman.
Factor in personality differences, age, culture, geography (your ideal mate is in a city half way around the world), perhaps they or you are in a relationship at that moment . Maybe you or they are caught up in your careers or educational goals.
There are literally millions of variables that may preclude Mr. and Ms. Right from getting together.
With all of that, it may seem as if it hopeless and doomed from the start. But I would suggest to maintain optimism. With the advent of Internet dating Ms. Right might be a keystoke away.
The key thing is to stay out there, be visible. Now that doesn't mean sitting on a bar stool every night with a gin and tonic. You will lose a liver, not gain a lover, that way :(
Be proactive, creative, seek her out, at events, parties, book stores, colleges, the Net.
And, if, and when you do encounter her, 'come' correct or you won't be 'coming' at all. We have heard just about every lie, line of bullshit, plea, promise, etc, imaginable. :evil:
For me personally, if a man comes at me like a gentleman, not like a perv. If he is intelligent, funny, polite, he has a shot. He doesn't have to be a millionaire, though I ain't feeling 'Willie The Wino, or 'Craig the Crackhead. :P
All, he really needs to be is sincere, and speak from the heart, and who knows, we could be sitting in rocking chairs, in the setting Sun, 50 years from now, holding hands, still in love.
